Question For Massage Experts On Personal Lubricants

[EagerBeaver]

I have a question for the Montreal massage experts on what is a good choice for a personal hand job lubricant. I had an unusual experience at a New York City MP recently. Partly due to having been tanning this summer in the beds at my local gym, the skin on my cock was probably a little dryer than normal. I saw a girl who was relatively new, and she did not use much or any lube and the skin on my cock was chafed during the HJ. I had a little minor irritation which I noticed afterward. I never had this before, but like I said the cock is tanned and thus the cock skin is likely dryer than normal, making me more prone to the chafing situation.

What is your recommended lube?

 

[Mod 8]

As this is a general topic question, I have moved it to the Lounge so that everyone may feel free to respond.

 

[SamKlemmons]

Come on Beav, you have been around here long enough and can figure this out one your own.

In a pinch almost anything will so.

I even used Mazola Corn Oil as lube for anal once.

 

[EagerBeaver]

I can figure out generally what to use but I want to know what the best thing is to use. I don't think it is Mazola Corn Oil and I want to hear what the massage experts have to say. The MP I go to uses some cheap ass shit and in fact the last girl I saw before the last one complained it was cheap ass shit. I want to know what is the good shit.

 

[spacecadet]

What me and my old partner used was sometimes baby oil but then we discovered a great mineral oil. It doesnt have any scent or odor and feels amazing on my cock !
I think you should avoid any lubes that give out heat sensation as seen in some commercials...

 

[EagerBeaver]

spacecadet,

What is the name of the mineral oil?

 

[oldbutartful]

Some mineral oils can cause dermatitis if not washed off correctly. Some people have allergies to certain oils, So there is no one best oil Puri Oil is very slippery and is preferred by some SPs its expensive but generally non allergenic. If its too slippery you lose sensation so what suits some does not suit all.

 

[EagerBeaver]

How about silicone based lubes? You guys are focused on oils, but silicone and water based lubes are other categories not even discussed.

Example: how about this stuff?

http://www.walgreens.com/store/c/as...one-personal-lubricant/ID=prod4118150-product

When you read these generic online reviews nobody talks about handjobs or masturbation. Nobody gets into any details. They got a bunch of damn prudes writing these reviews and I come here for much needed details, because none of these people want to talk about hand jobs on these websites.

 

[Marlin Perkins]

Have you tried Castor oil?

 

[Just_Jay]

A guy asks a legitimate question and clowns jump in.

Not an expert on the issue but I have used Kama Sutra oil. It is an all natural product made with Almond oil grape seed oil and other natural oils. It tastes good and has a nice subtle fragrance. It is also healthy for the skin.
I have tried KY massage oil which is fine to use with condoms. One product gives a slight warmth however which is not that well received by women.

I stay away from petroleum based products and the likes because I don't want to clog my pores.

 

[EagerBeaver]

John S. Black,'

My dermatologist is a crusader against Melanoma and he will tell me to stop tanning my cock and stop tanning my body. I am already tanned. The skin is not chapped. What happened is I think it is slightly dryer than normal and therefore more susceptible to chafing when I get an inadequately lubed hand job. I saw an MP last week and I am not sure if it was that she was a strong girl, her aggressive technique, the lack of lube or the dry skin, but I noticed a slight area that was chafed after the hand job. It is not a fungal rash as I have had those and know what they look like. It is like a very slight blister is the way I would describe it. I did one time get a blood blister on my cock after a hand job from a Russian MP who treated my cock like a boxing heavy bag. But generally this kind of cock aggression is rare in my experience.

Some women do not understand that the cock is a sensitive organ and that we men are not horses. That is why I am trying to take some initiative and make sure my cock is not abused next visit. I did tell the girl to slow down her strokes but she went into a 5th gear before I could get my mouth open. It was like when you punch the accelerator and your car lurches forward through the garage door. That is what it felt like but she did slow it down.

 

[escapefromstress]

I use pure holly oil with no essential oils added. No scent, no taste, hypoallergenic, a long shelf life, it has a nice glide with just enough friction, works great for bodyslide massage and for HJ's.

http://www.relaxusonline.com/Holly_Oil_8oz_Bottle_p/l6608.htm

 

[Ten Steps]

EB, i'd suggest just to hold off on the fun stuff until your skin has completely healed up and back to normal. my dermatologist had recommended lubriderm as an overall moisturizer. i've been using it for years (after a shower or washing my face etc). its a staple for me and kept my skin very young looking.

as for a personal lubricant, the one in your link, astroglide, is a very good one. i like it better better than ky. its water based so easy cleanup and not messy or sloppy. you should get a few small sized bottles/samples and determine for yourself. as for reviews of these personal products, i was surprised that amazon has alot of frank and honest reviews. you should check it out. best of luck.

 

[oldbutartful]

ULTRAGEL 11 as used in hospitals for ultrasounds ia water based orally non toxic and non irritating to skin and eyes. Distibited by (Sonatech Montreal) washes off easily and leaves no odors.

 

[footman]

After experimenting with many lubes including Astro-Glide & K-Y I have discovered that Durex "Pleasure Enhancing Lubricant" works the best! This is available at most pharmacies & sells for around $10 for a 100ML/3.38 Fl oz. tube
Ideal for you if you’re trying a lube for the first time…or if you’re a frequent user.
This is a classic water-based lube. It’s not sticky or greasy, it’s simply a light, smooth lube that’s been specifically designed to enhance pleasure.
Great for footjobs! > http://www.durex.com/en-CA/Products/Lubes/Pages/PlayClassic.aspx

 

[Lily from Montreal]

The best is Pjur brand, they have a lot of variety, regular, light ( for massage) ,guy oriented uses...it is from Germany, non-silicon based, actually good for your skin, there is a reason my skin is so soft loll, no perfume, no allergy, no taste, never get sticky....only think I don' t know is the calorie count...trust me once you try it there is no coming back...it is expensive here but not in the States since most of the price when I order it on line is from shipping, do not buy it in sexshop here, it is a rip off: 1 liter goes for 200$ while on line it is half that...( i use a lot loll)

 

[EagerBeaver]

I picked up a small tube of K-Y warming jelly personal lubricant and plan on trying that out first. Cost me $9 for a small 2.5 ounce tube at Walgreens. Product is profiled here:

http://www.cheaplubes.com/k-y-warming-jelly-5oz.aspx?gclid=COWVr8_M67gCFc19OgodBmkAgA

 

[Lily from Montreal]

All the Ky product I ever tried got sticky...never go near the stuff anymore, of course my lub needs are less reacreational then most loll so it is worth it to invest a bit more...Have fun

 

[EagerBeaver]

Lily stickiness will not be an issue as I shower before and after the massage. Nobody should ever get a massage and not shower afterwards. I am more interested in lubrication with a preservation of friction. Since you do not have a penis it may be hard to describe the needed sensation, since it is something you never have or will experience. Basically there needs to be pressure but no chafing.

 

[Lily from Montreal]

Hum..I do not own one but do handle a lot loll...stickiness that occur while handling accessory is a no-no ,hence no K-Y...