When a girl grabs me from behind in doggy or in missionary and kind of puts her hands on my thighs or the sides of my buttcheeks and moves me as if to dictate my thrusting rythym or imply that i should go faster or anything really regardless of the meaning behind it, that is my biggest turn off.
Being told verbally anything goes, but many girls seem to do that grab you and move you/dictate your motion thingy and it is the single biggest turn off.
The second biggest turn off is any type of unfresh scent coming from anywhere below, that i cannot stand or ever pretend it isn't there.
That reminds me of this girl that i met who was from ukraine and was beautiful, sweet, intelligent, kind, sexy etc.
I started seeing her several times a week and we started doing sleepovers a few weeks after meeting. (This was not an sp, but a girl that i met on a dating site)
6 months into it one night she came over after going out and drinking with friends and she wanted to be intimate .
After entering her, i immediately got a scent of something that could only be described as poo and a bag full of open skyn condoms baking in the sun.
I quickly stopped and said i wasn't really in the mood and figured it was a night of drinking and dancing that somehow created this akward situation.
For the whole 6 months prior she was always so clean, even after nights full of intense sex.
A few days later again, poo and skyn condoms baking in the sun..i told her lets go in the shower, i watched her wash and even washed her myself. We got back in the bed and again, poo and skyn condoms in the sun.
That weekend she took a long bath, an hour after, again, yeah you guessed it, poo and skyn condoms bakimg in the sun.the week after it happened both times we saw each other and i ended things that second time, it broke my heart but i said that i was no longer looking for any type of relationship.
I never found out what in the hell happened and the only reason i found online was:
"rectovaginal fistula is a connection that should not exist between the lower part of the large intestine — the rectum or anus — and the vagina. Bowel contents can leak through the fistula, allowing gas or stool to pass through the vagina."
Either she developed that overnight, or 6 months in she started sleeping with another man and using old skyn condoms.
I am still scratching my head over her.