question from a newbie

[yikezz]

Plkt: to get back to your original question, without going into whether or not it's a good or bad idea (how would I know about your specific circumstances anyway?), I would respectfully suggest Naomie of MSC. She's a tad older than perhaps you would like (she's over 35) but a) she is lovely, b) she is incredibly smart, c) she is delightfully sensual, and d) she is extremely adaptable sexually. I don't think it would faze her in the least, and I do think she would be a terrific choice for you, if you decide to proceed... Good luck. And remember: try to have fun. It's supposed to feel good.

 

[neverbored]

I go out often man and im pretty sure i should have attacked some girls because couples of girls looked at me and im pretty sure it was the time to Talk to them but Theres something that fear and it is that i dont Want to be rejected... also i dont have the skilz i dont know What to say...

Well that's part of a man's life really. Truth is you're going to get rejected. The real question is how are you going to recover from it ? Are you just going to let it get you down? I sure fucking hope not. But just like anything in life (school, work, sports, etc...) you'll never have 100% success rate and that's just that.

How you manage yourself says a lot. I remember quite a few girls I ended up hooking up or dating after they turned me down. Not because I insisted, not because I got angry, not because I put them on a pedestal (NEVER!!!!) ... but because I remained confident. If you can get shot down and still develop the reflex for a smart comeback... some will notice. I'm telling you, confidence is the biggest pantie dropper lol!

The funny thing is eventually, you'll come to realize that woman are actually more scared of being turned down then guys. They tend to remain insecure in many aspects of life cause they rarely have to face it. And we being simple beings often following the path of least resistance.

Keep going out, step up to the plate and swing thru. Striking out is part of the game. But you will eventually hit it out of the parc.

... just step up.

 

[themonk83]

why no one suggest Chloe? if its your first time, make it count :eyebrows:

 

[PMikey]

My personal opinion, If you choose to move forward, I'd go with an older woman (30+). They tend to be more confident and well versed in the arts of pleasure. The confidence of the woman is key here, as this is what you're trying to build in yourself.

I would agree with Neverbored.

Go with a woman with experience, not just with sex but as an escort.

A lot of the younger girls mentally check out while you're "getting busy" and that can leave YOU feeling kind of cheap, tawdry and unfulfilled from the experience.

For my two cents' worth, I would go with Maria Divina for the following reasons:
- She actively engages you in conversation and makes you feel like you are with a real person, not just a "piece of meat"
- She's got a great personality and always leaves me laughing (as well as satisfied in other ways)
- She's not a clock-watcher so you won't feel rushed

All of these are things that will make you more relaxed and less stressed-out about your reason for being there.

But that's just my opinion.

EDIT: I just went back through this thread and saw that Maria already posted here about her experience with Virgins. More reasons why you should give her a call.

 

[blkone]

I would totally not do that. Most young men are on the shy side with the ladies, it's pretty normal. Losing your virginity to an escort may be worse for your self-confidence in the long term.

That said, it's your life and if you must ... get yourself one of the well reviewed independent ladies from the advertising section etc, they are more pricey - but - worth the money especially since... You don't get a second shot at losing your virginity, so make it count!

 

[yikezz]

Hi Wallseye
That wasn't my experience(s) with Naomie, but then again I haven't seen her in probably 18 months or so. Not disputing your point of view at all, however. It's a good reminder that, as a friend of mine says, every dance is different.

 

[hungry101]

I haven't met Alexya in a meeting, but I've met her at the mtlGfe GT and she has a great vibe,

Should she be on Hungry's TDL????

Not to forget she provides one of the best, if not The Best, DFK in the buiz. That being said I'm ambivalent about her. I can't deny that she has a big fanclub (many pages of raving reviews, won GFE of the year more than once) and that all the points you mentionned are true. She really aims to please, that's a fact and she's professional about her job. She's also very nice to talk to. That being said, it hasn't been much discussed on the board (I did), but she does some weird things that are completely fake. I'm talking about the slurping noises and moanings that were a complete turn off to me, it's too obvious that she's acting. That's not what I call adapting to a guy, but more going through her work habits. Maybe the OP won't mind, but again that won't provide him with an experience in touch with the real world, it's more of a fantasy. Some girls are more natural in the way they go at it, IMO. That being said, most sps do fake pleasure during a meeting, but I'd still go for someone who would be less theatrical about it.

Nothing worse than fake moans and groans. I hate that with a passion.

 

[Handi]

I was in your spot not long ago and didnt choose wisely, picking a pse women for my first and didnt lime it that much. Saw kristina from mojo not too long after and I would defenitely recommand her for you because shes really gfe style, young and super cute. No fake anything. I said to myself i shouldve choose her first!

Also recommand Nadia jolie if you want to try a indy to explain her the situation