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Mtl_explorer

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it's a random thought so i didn't want to create a debate around this and there are features that i have in mind that would probably wouldn't make sense businesswise but could be cool for users.
But the basic would be a visual redesign, it's (very) dated, apparently more emojis would be appreciated. Being able to allow VPN could be useful also in this day and age.
The whole structure of the threads is also dated. For example instead of demultiplying boards for each province, we could have one Review board and a dropdown menu for each region. The outcall/incall could also be handled this way etc.
It probably won't happen so that's why it was only a random thought :)
At first, my messages were being removed and I didn't really know why, until I realized I was using Safari on macOS, which hides the IP address by default. There are pros and cons to revealing one's IP; we know the benefits, but the downside is that we shouldn't forget that customers are technically "breaking the law" in this hobby, and when we report a bad experience, we don't really want to put ourselves at risk. That’s my humble opinion. ;-)
 

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At first, my messages were being removed and I didn't really know why, until I realized I was using Safari on macOS, which hides the IP address by default. There are pros and cons to revealing one's IP; we know the benefits, but the downside is that we shouldn't forget that customers are technically "breaking the law" in this hobby, and when we report a bad experience, we don't really want to put ourselves at risk. That’s my humble opinion. ;-)
This website is also "breaking the law" and yet it's still there after 20 years
 

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At first, my messages were being removed and I didn't really know why, until I realized I was using Safari on macOS, which hides the IP address by default.
I’ve had whole threads deleted bc of this when I use my phone and it's dumb. Neither terb or perb force this and it's a wild requirement in the Year of our Lord 2026.
 

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I’ve had whole threads deleted bc of this when I use my phone and it's dumb. Neither terb or perb force this and it's a wild requirement in the Year of our Lord 2026.
Well maybe it shows how some MERB users behave ...
 

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Well maybe it shows how some MERB users behave ...
That's the thing. There are so many trolls on this platform that are coming to ruin provider's reputations, and shills that make people not trust reviews. Right now for indies, it feels like even a few pages of good reviews isn't enough to get you clients consistently. You have to have new reviews all the time to prove your worth. No matter what, as a provider, it feels scary to have such a fragile reputation that can easily be affected by certain comments..

Some members clearly don't use this platform as it's intended to be used. I've seen clients bring out a conflict in the open on a review thread or on a lounge thread multiple times, sort of like a ''call out'', ironically.. The thing is that often others lack the context, and they are just assuming they know what happened, or they trust whatever that other person said blindly, without hearing the other side of the story. Some people are just here to make others look bad and get into arguments, which isn't the same as a healthy and respectful debate.

I understand that people want anonymity on a forum like this, for obvious reasons, but at the same time, a lot of users build a reputation themselves among others and their ideas are trusted more because they post more often and have a certain distinct personality. These users will be booked more easily because we know their opinion will be believed. If a person like this makes a fake account, they could start posting a bunch of nonsense or say things they won't have to be accountable for.

Some providers are just a few clients away from not being able to pay their rent. Or if their reputation sinks, they will be out of work for a while. This isn't like a stable job that guarantees an income for an extended amount of time, or like other types of freelance work.. (usually most freelance workers are allowed to advertise their services out in the open, for instance, and what they're offering is a lot less controversial)
 

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Right now for indies, it feels like even a few pages of good reviews isn't enough to get you clients consistently. You have to have new reviews all the time to prove your worth.
My personal experience seems to be the exact opposite of what you are saying. I get a lot of new clients while seldomly receiving new reviews. Maybe being in this industry for many years helps, but I am not sure how it's perceived for the new clients who begin to dabble in it.
 

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I’d say MERB is more in a comfortable gray area, but I respect your opinion. Hehe. ;-)
It's not an opinion, it's a fact. Merb publishes advertisements that offer sexual services. It counts as a third party..

How many people on this forum have been arrested? Once again.. I am not trying to diminish this concern. but there are complaints about scammers, bait and switch, bad experiences, etc.. yet I have yet to see somebody post here that they have heard about another user having legal issues or about their own problems with the law. The cops know about merb lol they also know about agencies and massage parlors. The information is out in the open online now. You don't easily find websites that are selling meth.. or guns. You do easily find escort agency websites.
 

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My personal experience seems to be the exact opposite of what you are saying. I get a lot of new clients while seldomly receiving new reviews. Maybe being in this industry for many years helps, but I am not sure how it's perceived for the new clients who begin to dabble in it.
I know other providers who have the same experience as me, the more comments about us the more we get clients.. But I have talked to SP's who share the same sentiment as you and get clients despite having very little or no reviews. I do think when you are known as someone who has been in the industry for a long time and who still stays relevant, it definitely helps because you have already built a reputation. The people I know who don't have a lot of reviews or who have none were there before the pandemic..
 
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It's not an opinion, it's a fact. Merb publishes advertisements that offer sexual services. It counts as a third party..

How many people on this forum have been arrested? Once again.. I am not trying to diminish this concern. but there are complaints about scammers, bait and switch, bad experiences, etc.. yet I have yet to see somebody post here that they have heard about another user having legal issues or about their own problems with the law. The cops know about merb lol they also know about agencies and massage parlors. The information is out in the open online now. You don't easily find websites that are selling meth.. or guns. You do easily find escort agency websites.
Yes, I realized that when I ran into trouble with a sketchy encounter; I mentioned it to a cousin who—to my surprise—had a lot of contacts in that scene. He and I spoke to a woman who works with sex workers in Montreal in collaboration with the SPVM. So, on that front, yes: it is well-regulated and tolerated.
 
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Yes, I realized that when I ran into trouble with a sketchy encounter; I mentioned it to a cousin who—to my surprise—had a lot of contacts in that scene. He and I spoke to a woman who works with sex workers in Montreal in collaboration with the SPVM. So, on that front, yes: it is well-regulated and tolerated.
That's the thing.. I believe the police knows the scene pretty well. And many people, clients and workers, know a bunch of employers on first name basis and have seen what they look like, even. Something being illegal is one thing, that law being enforced is another. In Montreal there are so many sex workers and so many people who come to the city to see escorts, get erotic massages and go to strip clubs.. It's kinda part of the city's underground economy in a way. Hotels, restaurants, etc probably make so much money because of us. I suspect it's not advantageous to get rid of this industry, or at least way too tedious... but who knows..
 
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My personal experience seems to be the exact opposite of what you are saying. I get a lot of new clients while seldomly receiving new reviews. Maybe being in this industry for many years helps, but I am not sure how it's perceived for the new clients who begin to dabble in it.

I haven’t had a review in forever and I’m still getting new clients but most of them tell me they have checked my online presence more than my reviews

I don’t think people care about reviews as much as people make it seem
 

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they have checked my online presence more than my reviews

I don’t think people care about reviews as much as people make it seem
It's another type of clientele or due diligence :)
 

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Yeah I think it depends on a lot of things. Different things can attract new clients for sure.

My main point was : unfortunately what is said about us affects our income and how we get treated. Someone saying something good about you online will bring new clients.. Somebody recommending you. If someone says something bad it will impact you negatively. I probably exaggerated and gave a bad example about the recent reviews if it doesn't apply to everyone, but the fact that reputation matters in this industry is true particularly for escorts. That's why a forum like this has to be regulated.
 
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