Yeah the retailers don't lose time putting the Christmas stuff out lol
But skeletons and spider webs until November 1st!
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But skeletons and spider webs until November 1st!
It's not that I want to "judge" like I'm usually a non judgmental person but I remember when I was that age... I also think unless you're dealing with an establishment or platform that checks for ID you don't know how old somebody really is.
Even on my end.. I have an age limit. I'm even thinking of raising it because I'm pretty sure a few young clients have lied to me.
I hate this so much. Please, no......
Random thought but I'm considering posting a "porn movie style" short story here on merb for everyone's entertainment to read.
I already wrote a couple of erotic short stories for a SP i met before and she loved my two stories of her! Lol
I already wrote a couple of erotic short stories for a SP i met before and she loved my two stories of her! Lol
I'm going to need clients to stop trying to give agencies as reference.
The agency booker has not met you, but also, they DO NOT give a fuck about anyone's safety and have zero intentions to help you get laid if it isn't paying them.
Case in point (this is a Toronto agency but Euphoria did the same to me a while back lol) :
The agency booker has not met you, but also, they DO NOT give a fuck about anyone's safety and have zero intentions to help you get laid if it isn't paying them.
Case in point (this is a Toronto agency but Euphoria did the same to me a while back lol) :
Doesn’t matter if you’re hot, doesn’t matter if you’re good in bed, doesn’t matter if you make me laugh. Why would I give you a discount lol? An even better question why would I give you a discount after you asked? That’s such a turn off
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those so called lounges are a waste of money spending hundreds of dollars to wait on your flight?
those so called lounges are a waste of money spending hundreds of dollars to wait on your flight?
I've had agency bookers provide good references for clients who turned out to be awful once or twice. Of course they don't want to lose a client who uses their agency really often by saying that some girls have complained. They might not even know what happens behind closed doors.
Personally I'd rather they don't provide a reference because it's more responsible. A client could act completely different with an independent provider. And it's not because somebody uses the agency's services that they are a good client. Girls may not say anything because they are afraid to or because they are used to something different....
But honestly it happens with indies as well. I'm usually as honest as I can be, but I've gotten nervous providing references recently.
I think it's sort of funny and charming that most of the merbites in my DMs are there to chat about food
Today i learned i've been blocked by 2 ladies (not at the same time) and it bothered me more than i thought it would
It sucks.
Found out randomly when I suddenly realized I don't see some people posts on my feeds for a while or when other people comment on her post and realize I can't reply because I'm blocked.
I had like 2 instances I have no clue why on ladies I was following and interacting with.
And some with ladies I don't follow or interact lol
It bothered me for the former as it was all of a sudden so you don't know what you said, posted, liked or did to be blocked
I think if somebody is blocking you, there is a reason for it. It doesn't mean you're a bad person but there's something to learn. Just like I have learned not to respond to certain things here anymore because there's no point.
I don't often resort to blocking but I think at times there are people who don't realize they are being a bit too much. I know some colleagues don't like it when clients constantly comment on their posts without booking for insurance.. particularly when there's a certain tone.
A lot of reply guys on social media can come across as condescending, rude or even giving unsolicited advice at times. It's also annoying when clients "carrot dangle" or send unsolicited messages. I've had certain people here send me DMs just to gossip about the industry or make inappropriate comments or requests.
One guy asked me to post a picture of my feet in stockings and heels and he blew a fuse when I said I could send one to him if he compensated me for it, said I am unkind and not compassionate and prevented him from booking me lol another sent me a message to "congratulate me on my weight gain".
Interactions with clients have become part of our job but it ends up having a cost energetically. I used to enjoy this aspect of my job more...
I don't often resort to blocking but I think at times there are people who don't realize they are being a bit too much. I know some colleagues don't like it when clients constantly comment on their posts without booking for insurance.. particularly when there's a certain tone.
A lot of reply guys on social media can come across as condescending, rude or even giving unsolicited advice at times. It's also annoying when clients "carrot dangle" or send unsolicited messages. I've had certain people here send me DMs just to gossip about the industry or make inappropriate comments or requests.
One guy asked me to post a picture of my feet in stockings and heels and he blew a fuse when I said I could send one to him if he compensated me for it, said I am unkind and not compassionate and prevented him from booking me lol another sent me a message to "congratulate me on my weight gain".
Interactions with clients have become part of our job but it ends up having a cost energetically. I used to enjoy this aspect of my job more...
That's exactly it.It sucks.
Found out randomly when I suddenly realized I don't see some people posts on my feeds for a while or when other people comment on her post and realize I can't reply because I'm blocked.
I had like 2 instances I have no clue why on ladies I was following and interacting with.
And some with ladies I don't follow or interact lol
It bothered me for the former as it was all of a sudden so you don't know what you said, posted, liked or did to be blocked
In one case i'm not very surprised, it's someone i like but i think there was a personnality clash so i'm not that shocked.
Like you, i was very surprised by the other person cause i really liked meeting her, wrote several reviews as a matter of fact, and i didn't see it coming.
So what bothers me is not being blocked per se cause those things happen and it's ok, you cannot please everyone; it's not seeing it coming that's annoying
It's none of my business but what I find confusing is that you're upset that you were blocked and it sounds like these women are being unreasonable.That's exactly it.
In one case i'm not very surprised, it's someone i like but i think there was a personnality clash so i'm not that shocked.
Like you, i was very surprised by the other person cause i really liked meeting her, wrote several reviews as a matter of fact, and i didn't see it coming.
So what bothers me is not being blocked per se cause those things happen and it's ok, you cannot please everyone; it's not seeing it coming that's annoying
A personality clash is an easy way to say there's a conflict between you and somebody else..
As for the other person, if she blocked you, there's a reason for it. In this economy nobody wants to lose a client unless it's truly a bad match... Or unless this person isn't your client and is just interacting with you for free.
His idea of uploading aesthetic pictures of my feet wasn't bad but he wanted me to take them just for him, using an imaginary crowd of foot loving hobbyists who would supposedly book me if I were to do this. He can refuse to pay for the photos politely without blowing up at me.
The indies who comment here are routinely told to go away and it's always implied that we're mentally ill and unreasonable for not wanting to deal with this sort of thing.
