You know this may seem like hyperbole but, I am really worried about traveling to Canada and leaving the USA if the election goes to Trump. His threats of mass deportation are scary to a minority like me even though I was born in the USA.
I think it's weird considering the fact that so many people who judge probably watch a ton of porn for free without compensating anybody. A lot of people also have misconceptions about OF and have the misogynistic idea that it's an easy way for women to make tons of money that they don't deserve. I've had an OF for a little under 2 years and only made about 3000$ on it in total, and honestly most of my followers were people who had seen my escort ad. I deleted my OF last february or march I believe, and I still have people tell me they remember it when they book me, which makes me feel kinda strange.
That's partly why I think it's way better for people to pay cam girls or pay for OF. I'm tired of porn with all the barely legal and inc3st shit, among other things. I have nothing against porn but the mainstream porn industry fucks with people's minds a lot
I know. It's like that part. I'm all for ethical and them owning their content. Also, it is not just your provider or pornstar on it. There is a bit of everything for everyone. Want to see an out of town provider but aren't sure or said provider is out of your budget? She may be on OF. You have providers who are face out on OF while face in everywhere else. Your favorite stripper? She most likely have OF and is doing things not allowed in strip clubs or you get to keep interacting with her outside of her work. Cosplayers? Streamers? Same thing. And so on.
My issue now is that a lot of people ask me why I DON'T have an OF and I've had some people complain about it.I know. It's like that part. I'm all for ethical and them owning their content. Also, it is not just your provider or pornstar on it. There is a bit of everything for everyone. Want to see an out of town provider but aren't sure or said provider is out of your budget? She may be on OF. You have providers who are face out on OF while face in everywhere else. Your favorite stripper? She most likely have OF and is doing things not allowed in strip clubs or you get to keep interacting with her outside of her work. Cosplayers? Streamers? Same thing. And so on.
Not everything is behind paywall or you have to tip to DMs or is porn.
I personally enjoyed my favorite who use it to show her new asset during the pandemic/confinement
I deleted my OF personally because I don't like the company, it's really hard to get paid on it and I wanted to use another platform but they don't take my ID. When I get my passport or driver's license I might consider camming and doing online stuff again, but I don't love tons and tons of people having images of me. I hated how during college when I worked for Domino's Pizza delivery, every female at the door expected to see my dick in the box when I flipped open the top to show them the pizza before they paid me. I was like no miss/mam, I don't do that, I only got thirty minutes to get to the next home. Thanks porn for normalizing pizza delivery dick in a box.
And violence: "You will shut the fuck up girl, if you want to be my son's girlfriend you will suck his dick in front of me and I will judge you."
The thing for me about porn in all seriousness is the more accessible it is the less effect it has in my opinion for people over a certain age.
Normalisation of a kink while stripping away the safe part (consent and so) is not ok. So bizarre
Well, at least. Lol
Well, I mean I am not a big drinker and sometimes when I go to a strip joint I just sit at the main bar. The one place I went to in Montreal was a huge disappointment. The bartenders were more attractive than the dancers. I had heard so many stories about Montreal dancers back in the day but, I never went when I was younger. Now maybe because I went on a weeknight or the wrong place. It was called Chez something on St Catherine's I think. Sure I can get a beer at a regular bar but, seeing a pretty woman dance once in a while is nice while having a beer.
It's a very cute nickname, but I don't think it describes me very well.
I get that they don't get paid an hourly and in most cases probably have to pay a certain stage fee or percentage of tips to the place to dance before they make a profit which is why I don't go that often. I think I have been maybe 5 times to a strip joint post covid lockdown being lifted and it is usually a very last second decision if I go in my home area. However, if I go into a strip joint/adult club and the dancers are not attractive to me then I am sitting at the bar drinking my beer and getting out of there, or watching a game on tv. Yeah I will drop a few bucks a dancers way but, if a guest at a strip joint doesn't find a dancer attractive just because they are working they don't have to throw a lot of money at them. I have had the case where I am sitting at the bar in a strip joint on a slow night and seen whatever people were sitting up close leave the main stage because they didn't want to tip the next dancer, and I go up and just put a few dollars on the stage for them and go back to the bar so they don't end there three or four song set with nothing at all. You will sometimes see one dancer who cleans up because she just has a combination of looks and knows how to work the stage compared to everyone else. The atmosphere on the main stage with a good looking dancer takes on a life of it's own like a craps table when the dice roller is going good.
That's kinda cute lol. I would think it's funny if someone called me Lulu
