Random thoughts: What’s on your mind lately? Part 2
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My random thought : It's been a month since I started advertising here.
I've had pleasant surprises, a warm welcome, a lot more visibility and clients. I'm super grateful for that! I'm wondering however how healthy it is for me to read certain threads and contribute to discussions and if it's hurting my career as a provider rather than helping it.
Maybe I should just stick to selfies and advertising for the time being..
I've had pleasant surprises, a warm welcome, a lot more visibility and clients. I'm super grateful for that! I'm wondering however how healthy it is for me to read certain threads and contribute to discussions and if it's hurting my career as a provider rather than helping it.
Maybe I should just stick to selfies and advertising for the time being..
C'est à toi d'y voir. Néanmoins, tu es une belle bouffée d'air fraisMy random thought : It's been a month since I started advertising here.
I've had pleasant surprises, a warm welcome, a lot more visibility and clients. I'm super grateful for that! I'm wondering however how healthy it is for me to read certain threads and contribute to discussions and if it's hurting my career as a provider rather than helping it.
Remarque que de fois, moi aussi je me demande si devrais fermer ma grande gueule...
A lot of people do that and chime in from time to time when the topic is particularly interesting to them.
To constantly post on here really isn’t for everyone. A lot, both clients and providers take breaks.
Well you said it yourself being here has increased visibility, now is it advertising is participating in threads (gives a glimpse into your personality) it is probably a bit of both. You are certainly not obligated to post on every thread and you are not obligated to answer or debate every comment, if you feel a topic becoming contentious you avoid or stop... it's not that serious as the saying goes.My random thought : It's been a month since I started advertising here.
I've had pleasant surprises, a warm welcome, a lot more visibility and clients. I'm super grateful for that! I'm wondering however how healthy it is for me to read certain threads and contribute to discussions and if it's hurting my career as a provider rather than helping it.
Yeah, I see your point and sometimes sense your anxiety buildup. It’s a double edged sword, some can handle it better than others.My random thought : It's been a month since I started advertising here.
I've had pleasant surprises, a warm welcome, a lot more visibility and clients. I'm super grateful for that! I'm wondering however how healthy it is for me to read certain threads and contribute to discussions and if it's hurting my career as a provider rather than helping it.
Might drive away some, but I'd prefer to know the woman a bit more than just a pic before meeting up. At the very least, it shows that your a real person and not some scammer or bot.My random thought : It's been a month since I started advertising here.
I've had pleasant surprises, a warm welcome, a lot more visibility and clients. I'm super grateful for that! I'm wondering however how healthy it is for me to read certain threads and contribute to discussions and if it's hurting my career as a provider rather than helping it.
A lot of people want that and will start texting us or asking 3672848 questions pre-booking. It’s not appreciated.
Some of us offer texting packages for those who want to text us. You can probably just read the website to get to know them more or better yet, Twitter
I am very happy today. I woke up in an excellent mood.
I’m also lazy, don’t want to leave my place but I will make the effort because it looks beautiful outside.
I’m also lazy, don’t want to leave my place but I will make the effort because it looks beautiful outside.
I feel like going swimming in a river somewhere up north, now that the mosquito and black flies season is over!
It is a double edged sword and I feel a bit like I'm walking on eggshells when it comes to certain topics. I'm realizing that some like how genuine I am, but for others there is such thing as being too candid and genuine.
I think I'm going to tone down my use of the forum because it does make my anxiety higher and the clients who found me here booked me because of my ads and selfies and not my contribution to discussions, and none of these gentlemen are big posters.
I enjoy engaging with my clientele (and potential clients) a lot, but this context isn't ideal and I tend to prefer one on one discussions (as long as my time isn't being wasted)..
Well, I just think it's not that hard to figure out that someone is real or not.. If somebody is part of a collective, has 3-4 ads, has a social media presence, etc, chances are they are real.. And you guys don't know, somebody's assistant or whoever could be behind their posts on this forum.
Says who? I won’t lower my head because suddenly a pretty lightly dressed woman just appears in front of me. I’m the kind to look at them and smile like I do with any ongoing person that crosses my path and makes visual contact.
You’re allowed to look at women. It’s just not welcomed to sexually harassed them on the street and no matter how short they dress, consent is important.
If posting here increases your anxiety, and especially if it's not helping you professionally, then "toning down" makes good sense. I for one, though, appreciate your candor and thoughtfulness, and I've never found anything you post to be off-putting. So thank you for all your contributions to this forum!
I don't find that women are dressing sexier than they did 5-10 years ago.
No one said you can't look at women, but gawking and staring isn't great.
Thank you for the compliment
I appreciate it. Like I said I do enjoy engaging with the clientele and I am curious to learn about people's thoughts, but I am not sure if contributing as often as I've been is bringing me more clients. (aside from when I've posted selfies and bumped my ad) .. I tend to get over zealous when it comes to social media and it's not always healthy.I'm sure that question has been studied from many perspectives (feminist and others), but why do most young women nowadays wear extremely revealing or tight clothes? I'll give you an example that I witnessed recently: a cegep student with very visible cleavage on the bus was uncomfortable that a man (not me) was looking at her cleavage and discreetly asked her friend to shield her from the man. But why is she showing that much cleavage? Is it to attract men or something else. I really don't understand.
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