I loved my long term GF and mother of my one year old until while I was driving she punched me in the head. Didn't feel it but it sure as fuck killed the love. Ffw a year or two and the wild attacks and scratches, the screaming. The cops taking ME away when I was covered in marks and didn't lift a finger. Then a few months later she was taken away when the neighbors called the cops for a second time. Or throwing a knife at my back, luckily it bounced off. Nothing for a few years then recently trying to attack me when I had the baby in my arms. I'm a body builder, she's an ex-cheerleader and (physically) beautiful. Yeah it ain't always what it looks like. Took until now for something to give and it's me booking SWs in secret, looking to get a peid a terre for my own rendezvous.
This is terrible, I'm really sorry to hear that. That's definitely an abusive relationship.. I'd be trying to get out of it as well. Definitely try to find help and legal options to keep your child because that baby is not safe with her, either.
It isn't always what it looks like. I have a friend who's 40 now, when he was 26 he dated a 17 year old girl which he shouldn't have, the interesting part is that she was the abusive one, so sometimes roles really are reversed. She was traumatized and really unwell mentally, and physically stronger than him. She would hit him and actually forced him to have sex with her really often, to the point where he was turned off by sex for 5 years.
So yeah, I believe these stories.
What I said earlier in the thread was about statistics, women are commonly victims of domestic violence but it happens that men are the victims as well and they need the same amount of care and help. I hope no one felt invalidated.
