Random thoughts: What’s on your mind lately? Part 2

[Lunaseraphim]

Lol. Get me worked up enough with the rest, and I'm the one doing the insisting.

But to add to what you are saying. There are men who also suffer with ED, often medication helps, but in some of the rare cases, penetration might be a thing of the past. The other options suggested provides pleasures, reguardless of the ability to get hard or not. Sometimes tricks can be found in the process of discovery, and I have seen what in all intense purposes was a flacid penis, still ejaculate.

These are people who likely would not write reviews, as they want to keep the expieriences of their visits private. Understandably

That but also some men are capable of it and prefer not to. I've had clients who strangely were okay with everything BUT penetration and kissing because they felt that was cheating. Not sure where the logic is behind that lol but if it makes them feel better, that's alright. Some men also can't get used to condoms but still want to see SP, so they opt for sessions that include everything but penetration. The truth is that as SP we have to accommodate a wide variety of sessions within our boundaries.

 

[Lunaseraphim]

My random thought of the moment...

I need to smoke a joint so I stop sounding like a damn sex ed teacher. Dumb myself down a bit so my vocabulary doesn't sound too hoity-toity.

Yeah some people don't like it when we have a vocabulary and an education lol
I found out that there are very realistic looking dolls on the market, but they are more expensive than our sessions. Lovely looking ''ladies'' tho!

 

[Rebaynia]

That but also some men are capable of it and prefer not to. I've had clients who strangely were okay with everything BUT penetration and kissing because they felt that was cheating. Not sure where the logic is behind that lol but if it makes them feel better, that's alright. Some men also can't get used to condoms but still want to see SP, so they opt for sessions that include everything but penetration. The truth is that as SP we have to accommodate a wide variety of sessions within our boundaries.

Lol. This logic falls under the same logic of the restrictions I placed in my relationships when it came to 3somes. If they were never going to be willing for a MFM 3some, then penetration on her was not allowed.
We all 3 got to play freely, but his member was not going to be stuck inside someone else, if I was not going to get to feel someone else inside me as well. For me that would have been the unfair line that would make the relationship a sham, and an instant dealbreaker if he could be inside others, and I only ever feel him. F*CK THAT nonsense. He could only do to her what I could.

 

[jeffmathers]

If he's your friend, than you could just talk to him on the phone, or facetime or zoom.

It's a woman but yeah. I imagine a phone call would be super expensive but there are other options. She's a White American but she taught herself Japanese and moved there in 2015.

 

[jeffmathers]

There are different style of reviews, I've noticed that mine aren't written in detail, which gives me mixed feelings. On one hand, I like the discretion.. I'm not a huge fan of details of my encounters with gentlemen being revealed on the internet. On the other hand, I know some men are worried we won't provide the services we say we provide....

I think you are right, men who want different types of sessions are less likely to write reviews. You're far from the only one who doesn't want penetration during sessions. Some clients are the opposite, they go straight from kissing to penetration.. no bbbj or daty (their choice, probably safety related)

I've realized however that a lot of people have critical thinking and emotional regulation skills and are capable of asking for what they want.

I could give extremely graphic reviews but I doubt any providers here would like that. If someone would like that it would be interesting to see them and give every detail. I feel afraid of saying the wrong thing when writing reviews. I wouldn't want the person to feel objectified. Off topic but

Spoiler

Obviously being a provider is way harder than being a client but it would be so cool if civilian dating was the way it was before one company bought all the dating apps.

 

[jeffmathers]

My random thought of the moment...

I need to smoke a joint so I stop sounding like a damn sex ed teacher. Dumb myself down a bit so my vocabulary doesn't sound too hoity-toity.

You don't sound bad

 

[Lunaseraphim]

Lol. This logic falls under the same logic of the restrictions I placed in my relationships when it came to 3somes. If they were never going to be willing for a MFM 3some, then penetration on her was not allowed.
We all 3 got to play freely, but his member was not going to be stuck inside someone else, if I was not going to get to feel someone else inside me as well. For me that would have been the unfair line that would make the relationship a sham, and an instant dealbreaker if he could be inside others, and I only ever feel him. F*CK THAT nonsense. He could only do to her what I could.

Now that you're explaining this I understand!

 

[Lunaseraphim]

I could give extremely graphic reviews but I doubt any providers here would like that. If someone would like that it would be interesting to see them and give every detail. I feel afraid of saying the wrong thing when writing reviews. I wouldn't want the person to feel objectified. Off topic but

Spoiler

Obviously being a provider is way harder than being a client but it would be so cool if civilian dating was the way it was before one company bought all the dating apps.

That's the thing lol some men like to write graphic reviews but I'd say most don't

 

[jeffmathers]

That's the thing lol some men like to write graphic reviews but I'd say most don't

Really I feel all clients should ask before writing reviews.

I wrote a long reply and then just deleted it. This is an interesting topic.

 

[LeDodo]

Sometimes you feel down and want a bigbang/reset on your life

 

[Lunaseraphim]

Really I feel all clients should ask before writing reviews.

I wrote a long reply and then just deleted it. This is an interesting topic.

I like getting positive reviews and constructive feedback.. I'm not going to go further than that in explaining my complex view of reviews

 

[Doublevie55]

All the experts here. Need your help. I need a good recommendation on a good sex card game which I would like to enjoy with a provider. Kinkier the better.

 

[Enjoying life]

I'm sorry you experienced emotional abuse.

I don't want to talk about this anymore. I thought I was shedding light on something, but it was deflected.

I feel stupid. Honestly I feel pressured to explain myself by detailing personal experiences & things my friends and the women in my family experienced and I don't want to. (And I'm pretty sure you guys don't want to hear these stories, either. Let's stay positive)

I actually feel bad for her as she had a poor up bringing I still talk to her to help her out as she is dating but the guy is not healthy like her though! I have a good heart!

 

[DenisZim]

I was reading some posts. My comment:
Guys, life is short. If something happens just accept it and keep walking.
Now there is a small beach party. I am having an aperol spritz and listening to the song below. August is like the Sunday of the week. So, Guys go out and have fun, because winter is coming.

 

[philonius]

Really I feel all clients should ask before writing reviews.

I wrote a long reply and then just deleted it. This is an interesting topic.

I really enjoy writing reviews bc I write them first and foremost for me to relive and enshrine the memory of our time, but I only write them if asked or if it was really outstanding so I'll never post a negative one. Also, I've never posted a review without sending it to them first for their OK bc I know that sometimes we can get up to things that they may not want shared or they may not do with everyone so they get final say. This gives me the freedom to write them less like checklists of acronyms or recaps and more like non-fictional erotic stories that can dip into graphic as long as they are truthful and entertaining. No rejections (only a couple modifications) from the editors so far and my personal anthology of lewd vignettes continues to grow.