It's a very cute nickname, but I don't think it describes me very well.
Random thoughts: What’s on your mind lately? Part 2
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I get that they don't get paid an hourly and in most cases probably have to pay a certain stage fee or percentage of tips to the place to dance before they make a profit which is why I don't go that often. I think I have been maybe 5 times to a strip joint post covid lockdown being lifted and it is usually a very last second decision if I go in my home area. However, if I go into a strip joint/adult club and the dancers are not attractive to me then I am sitting at the bar drinking my beer and getting out of there, or watching a game on tv. Yeah I will drop a few bucks a dancers way but, if a guest at a strip joint doesn't find a dancer attractive just because they are working they don't have to throw a lot of money at them. I have had the case where I am sitting at the bar in a strip joint on a slow night and seen whatever people were sitting up close leave the main stage because they didn't want to tip the next dancer, and I go up and just put a few dollars on the stage for them and go back to the bar so they don't end there three or four song set with nothing at all. You will sometimes see one dancer who cleans up because she just has a combination of looks and knows how to work the stage compared to everyone else. The atmosphere on the main stage with a good looking dancer takes on a life of it's own like a craps table when the dice roller is going good.
In the USA there is a big difference in the looks of dancers in different regions. In the south in Florida outside of Miami at a place called Cheetahs in Hallandale like every dancer was girl next door pretty to gorgeous tan model looks. They were making money hand over fist. Places up north In New England and New York might have only 3 to 4 dancers that make most of the money and stand out on a weekend night. I went to see Jessa Rhodes one time perform at a club in Mass like 8 years ago and she was sharing her money with the other dancers who were not making as much. She had three scheduled performances and was very aware that people were saving their money for her and she was getting a part of a 20 dollar cover. The better looking dancers are going to make the money.
That's kinda cute lol. I would think it's funny if someone called me Lulu
Last night this girl I matched with on a dating app a year ago and didn't really want to be more than friends with sent me a bunch of messages asking me to have a threesome with her gf. LOL I woke up to these and honestly found it quite annoying and entitled.. Then she was like ''sorry, I was on coke and you're so cute''.......................
Another random thought : I understand that times are tough right now and people don't necessarily have the means to book or financially encourage a SP but sometimes a nice review is appreciated if you had a good time with her.. some SP's here have multiple pages of reviews, and it doesn't actually mean they get more work, because I've had no reviews between february and june or july and I still consistently had clients although I had to work even harder to get them. I haven't had to bump my leolist ad since I started advertising here which is great!! But I know many people here rely on reviews a lot.
Another random thought : I understand that times are tough right now and people don't necessarily have the means to book or financially encourage a SP but sometimes a nice review is appreciated if you had a good time with her.. some SP's here have multiple pages of reviews, and it doesn't actually mean they get more work, because I've had no reviews between february and june or july and I still consistently had clients although I had to work even harder to get them. I haven't had to bump my leolist ad since I started advertising here which is great!! But I know many people here rely on reviews a lot.
People using the word MILF to describe a woman their age :/
I've seen people here describe women younger than they are as MILFs......... honestly not a huge fan of these weird labels
I've always wondered if people used it more as an age indicator or more in the actual "mother I'd like to fuck" sense. It's confusing because younger mothers do exist. I don't love the label either but I feel like it should be "mwilf" mature woman instead of mother to avoid this confusion hahaha
What's on my mind? Halloween!! 
Are you celebrating?
Are you celebrating?
I think it's definitely used as an age indicator more than anything else, and I find that it's associated with certain body types too. I just find words like ''milf'' ''gnd'' etc annoying personally
What's on my mind? Halloween!!
I will celebrate by making homemade Halloween treats for my dog haha
I think it is mostly used as an age indicator.
At least that is the way I would interpret it and I think it is kind of a cringe worthy term to use.
I will take my grandchildren out for Halloween night they love Halloween and already have their costumes, I have a bag full of chocolates and candies for them so they will be on a sugar high and drive their parents crazy( not my problem lol it is my right to spoil them rotten).
I've always used the term MILF in the literal sense, and I use it in my own marketing for that reason, but I occasionally have clients ask me if I actually have children... at the end of the booking. So, I guess it's not as obvious as I thought?
Also: HALLOWEEEEEEN
I use it as a joke on my friends that are moms. They’re young though.
They’re still mothers that most people would like to f****
Definitely an age thing. It's a term we used in our teens and early 20s to talk about mid 30s to late 40s women, sometimes to joke about a friend's mother. I find it quite funny that any man over 30 is still using that term. Quite ironic
God damn the flu this year is nasty. Dead in bed for the past 3 days.
I don't think that it's appropriate to use it in that way. Even to be used by teenagers between them. When my son was 12 to 15 he was playing soccer in a team and my wife and I would always be there to cheer him on. I often overheard his friends telling him that his mom was a MILF. has her husband it was nice to hear that about my wife but also disturbing that teenagers would use this term so young in their life. Specially to my sons about his mom. Maybe I'm wrong?
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