When "smelly client ass" is trending on merb it's time to take a break.
Random thoughts: What’s on your mind lately? Part 2
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I cannot tolerate or have empathy for people that are always self deprecating. It’s annoying and unattractive. Have some kind of confidence or fake it, idk
I opened that thread once, noped out of it and decided to never click on it again. Major turn off. I don't come on merb to read detailed discussions regarding smelly butts and bidets lmfao.
Glad you had a crack at it
I will admit to being guilty of that sometimes (not always). It's often a sign of low self-esteem (cough, cough). I still think it's better than being a narcissist
self deprecating humor ✅
self deprecating ❌
A guy I know at work is always self deprecating and complaining no one wants to date him or hang out.
I try and be a friend by giving him an honest reading from outside. Pointed out that the sincere self deprecation and constant complaining that he's alone IS the thing that's pushing people away.
Women (and friends) don't constantly wat to feel like their being charitable for tolerating you.
Just simply STFU about it for like...a month...then notice how people don't FLEE you.
literally ANY comment made in front of him about a date or activity with friends prompts him to sigh and say shit like "Sounds nice having a girlfriend, no girl wants to date me...".
I wish I could slap it out of him for a month, other than that he's not dumb, not ugly, not smelly, etc. he'd do quite well....
I agree with this. I love to make fun of myself, but it doesn't mean I don't have confidence.
EDIT: Actually my confidence took a hit today, as a bougie classist called me "medium quality".
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I like humour but the people saying things like: you probably won’t want to see me
Just make me want to say “you’re right” and block them
Why do you think it is bragging?No matter how often a client brags about not paying for dinner dates and social time, other clients will. (my random thought of the evening)
I don’t do it because it is something that is against what I believe in and it has nothing to do with money.
I don’t mind paying for dinner and I don’t care which restaurant or how much it costs, I do care about paying for the time to eat it that just doesn’t sit well with me.
Call it ego call it whatever you want it doesn’t matter to me, I don’t care what people think, we all have different boundaries and different things that are important to us.
If other people do it and enjoy it, great, money is meant to be spent on something that makes you happy.
It's okay if it's against what you believe, I just don't see the point in shaming other clients for doing it. I've seen someone call such clients "simps". It's okay if you don't want to pay for dinner dates, nobody has to. I'm just saying insulting other members of the community for doing so won't prevent it from happening.
I want to take a step back from this part of the forum for a while. It's been really nice exchanging and having a lot of fun and productive discussions, and a lot of laughter.
Happy new year.Happy New Year Luna!!!!It's okay if it's against what you believe, I just don't see the point in shaming other clients for doing it. I've seen someone call such clients "simps". It's okay if you don't want to pay for dinner dates, nobody has to. I'm just saying insulting other members of the community for doing so won't prevent it from happening.
I want to take a step back from this part of the forum for a while. It's been really nice exchanging and having a lot of fun and productive discussions, and a lot of laughter.
I hope 2025 brings you happiness and health and all the things you wish for.
Blocking, deleting and ignoring people can be a good thing for your mental health
Yes it can. Or it can be perceived as childish behaviour when you don’t get your way you throw a tantrum.
agreed, especially on social media, it was affecting my moods at some point. So i'm out of Facebook and only use Twitter for specific uses and rarely interact with people there but you probably don't have that lucury since you probably use it as a marketing tool
I find it more mature to ignore than to insult. Everyone’s different so if to your it comes across as childish that’s fair
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