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Julia Sky

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I woke up this morning and remembered that a woman I had a duo with gave my personal Instagram name to a client
????? why are people like this. You would expect a colleague to know better. I'm sorry someone did that to you
 

urquell

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????? why are people like this. You would expect a colleague to know better. I'm sorry someone did that to you
You would expect anyone to know better, colleague or not, including the client. Fortunately, as far as we know nothing bad has been done with the information yet. This is like every guy out there that has gone through a screening process and to whom nothing bad has happened (so far). The anxiety is real, the info is out there and no one knows what will happen with it. Still, it was a really shitty thing for someone she knew personally to give out confidential info she had no business giving out
 

Julia Sky

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You would expect anyone to know better, colleague or not, including the client. Fortunately, as far as we know nothing bad has been done with the information yet. This is like every guy out there that has gone through a screening process and to whom nothing bad has happened (so far). The anxiety is real, the info is out there and no one knows what will happen with it. Still, it was a really shitty thing for someone she knew personally to give out confidential info she had no business giving out

This is... not the same. Clients who choose to book escorts who screen willingly give their information to the providers they book. It's not the same as a duo partner giving your real life social media and name to a client without your consent. The equivalent would be if a provider was to give a client's real name and Instagram account to other clients or something...
 

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This is... not the same. Clients who choose to book escorts who screen willingly give their information to the providers they book. It's not the same as a duo partner giving your real life social media and name to a client without your consent. The equivalent would be if a provider was to give a client's real name and Instagram account to other clients or something...
I said I wouldn't say anything about LC's case, and I won't.

I will say one thing generally, and then I'll shut up about it, because we have a whole other thread dedicated to this, in part. For me it is the same. I don't care about the mechanism that gets you to that point, whether it's a clinical betrayal or a personal betrayal, to me it all leads to the same path, and the end result is the same. Whether a personal trust or a professional trust was the vehicle is immaterial to me in a practical sense, if not in an emotional sense. Of course you're going to feel a different sort of way about it depending on the route you took to get there, but you placed some form of trust in someone else to safeguard your info and it wasn't respected. I understand why SPs feel differently about this, and a whole bunch of other stuff that again can be read in the security thread, but as I said I don't make the distinction. To me the important thing about this is that the information is out there and not necessarily in the hands of someone who should have it. That's it. That's what it boils down to for me. It's why I'm so careful about who gets any of my info. It's also my particular take on the matter. Everyone else can be as different as they like. That's their prerogative. That's also the end of my contribution to this on this thread. If anyone wants to bat it back and forth on the appropriate security thread then I'm happy to do so.
 

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Took a long run around my town the other day and really enjoyed the beauty of natural creation while also seeing the fragility of all human constructs. It has lingered in my thoughts since then.
It has helped me stay focused on enjoying the present, and being mindful of my environment
 
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When I close my account, a lot of threads will be gone. This one for instance
I've seen you talking about the end of your career a few time now. Je tiens à t'écrire un mot avant que cette fin ne se concrétise.

J'ai adoré lire tes interventions à travers les différents sujets. Toujours pertinente et insightful. Je te souhaite une fin de carrière en douceur et que tu puisses passer à la prochaine étape de ta vie l'esprit en paix. Merci encore d'avoir partagé tes points de vues avec nous.
 

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Waiting for my pubic hair to turn grey like my scalp hair, but amazing it’s not caught up at all and remains grey free.
I look 20 years younger down there
I have grey creeping into my beard but not my mustache. Grey on my legs/arms, but not my pubes. So, clearly, the magic elixir is pussy juice. It's the only common denominator those parts touch.

I have found the Fountain of Youth, and it's located between a woman's thighs!
 

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I have grey creeping into my beard but not my mustache. Grey on my legs/arms, but not my pubes. So, clearly, the magic elixir is pussy juice. It's the only common denominator those parts touch.

I have found the Fountain of Youth, and it's located between a woman's thighs!

That's a good boy... now get down there and make my day. :p
 

Julia Sky

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I said I wouldn't say anything about LC's case, and I won't.

I will say one thing generally, and then I'll shut up about it, because we have a whole other thread dedicated to this, in part. For me it is the same. I don't care about the mechanism that gets you to that point, whether it's a clinical betrayal or a personal betrayal, to me it all leads to the same path, and the end result is the same. Whether a personal trust or a professional trust was the vehicle is immaterial to me in a practical sense, if not in an emotional sense. Of course you're going to feel a different sort of way about it depending on the route you took to get there, but you placed some form of trust in someone else to safeguard your info and it wasn't respected. I understand why SPs feel differently about this, and a whole bunch of other stuff that again can be read in the security thread, but as I said I don't make the distinction. To me the important thing about this is that the information is out there and not necessarily in the hands of someone who should have it. That's it. That's what it boils down to for me. It's why I'm so careful about who gets any of my info. It's also my particular take on the matter. Everyone else can be as different as they like. That's their prerogative. That's also the end of my contribution to this on this thread. If anyone wants to bat it back and forth on the appropriate security thread then I'm happy to do so.

One is a betrayal and a breach of consent. The other is someone willingly providing their own information, they consent and choose to do it. Worlds apart, unless you'd also argue that a woman holding her "friend" against her will while her neighbor rapes the friend is the same as a person willingly choosing to have sex with their friend's neighbor. The example is extreme but this is about consent is my point.

An escort revealing a client's personal info for no reason without consent is not okay either - but that's not the comparison you made. You compared an actual tangible breach of consent with the vague and nebulous idea that one might potentially happen.... As if swimming and drowning were the exact same thing.
 

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Instagram isn’t as serious as IDs. My legal name isn’t even on my Instagram and I barely show my face but I still felt violated because I show my private home, friends and family. That’s not Lena’s instagram it’s mine and I really don’t know what made her believe it was ok to share it.

She sent me the screenshot and it didn’t even add anything to the conversation. I wish I had kept the screenshot, now it’s too late to do anything about it. All I can do is refuse any duo request from her in the future

I hope you have enjoyed your last days of summer, it’s officially Fall now
 
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