This is actually a good question, depends on if you believe in spiritual stuff, or you make things happen. Some people have it easy in life they never struggle and others live through hell.What are the odds that your life is going the way it is just because you made that ONE decision?
Do you think things are predictable or it’s already written down in the big book of your life?
Personally i always work hard for everything I got, my IT diploma, I feel the job I work IT companies I learn not to trust anyone and how humans can be garbage.
In 2006 I saw a chiropractor for back pain, this idiot got me worse, he is a catholic and everyone loved him. But he got me so bad out of shape, he should have lost is license, I complained he got away clean.
2 years ago I saw he was still working in Colorado, he was 70 years old, I sent the medical report to is boss and he got fired and lost is job. For my part is was a small victory after that idiot told me my case fell between two chair and got me on my way.
Does karma exist in life maybe not because lots of people deserve worse but I make my karma happen.
I am now 52 and if I look at my life so far, I always made bad decisions, company I would never work for again, people I trusted that used and abused me. When I bought my condo in St Eustache the last few years where hell in this neighborhood, all of those were bad decision but also life lesson.
I sold my condo and invested the money I made move back with my mother to take care of her, and am now saving for retirement. I learn from my past mistakes. I also been single for the last 11 years, because both long terms relationship I had were more about having pity for the person I was with then love. And once again being manipulated and more.
As I get older I find peace and solace being alone, with my cats that I spoil silly, I have a regular SP that I treat like my girlfriend, and we make love not sex. and to be honest I feel those are the best years of my life, no more stressing over chasing women, or the fact that I am single etc.
Hope this kind of help sorry for the long post