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David Sel et Poivre

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This goes out to the SPs that engage with us here on Merb !

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My dogs were pissed, raining too much for a decent walk. I have a raincoat but don't like the smell and mess of wet dogs ( 3 ).

Imagine how pissed my dog was when the 10min walk under the rain ended at the vet for some bloodwork. Lol poor baby!
 
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Fradi

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Men always want to compete with each other and prove they can get personal infos out of us
Actually I totally disagree with you.
I have worked many years with both men and women and let me tell you women are much worse.
They never forget they are horrible to each other talk about each other’s personal life and will hold a grudge for life. I can’t see SP being any different than other women, and if Twitter is any indication it just proves my point.
Men on the other hand don’t give a shit about each other’s personal life, will get into an argument and 2 days later will have a beer together.

There is no middle ground with women at work they are either totally amazing to work with or someone you want to avoid entirely.
 

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Actually I totally disagree with you.
I have worked many years with both men and women and let me tell you women are much worse.
They never forget they are horrible to each other talk about each other’s personal life and will hold a grudge for life. I can’t see SP being any different than other women, and if Twitter is any indication it just proves my point.
Men on the other hand don’t give a shit about each other’s personal life, will get into an argument and 2 days later will have a beer together.

There is no middle ground with women at work they are either totally amazing to work with or someone you want to avoid entirely.

Strictly talking about my experience in this industry. We don’t make private groups to share photos of clients and where they go to school.
 

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I can sorta understand the photo sharing but why the school part? I just don't get it...

A lot of clients try to find out real life identity. If we blur our face they will share unblurred photos amongst them. They will try to find us on dating apps, some will even try to message us on Facebook.


Some probably don’t understand it’s creepy and others probably know and don’t care
 
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A lot of clients try to find out real life identity.
They will try to find us on dating apps, some will even try to message us on Facebook.
But again... why??? What's the goal here? Also if you really want to know, and this might sound crazy, just ask? :rolleyes:
 
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Strictly talking about my experience in this industry. We don’t make private groups to share photos of clients and where they go to school.
Don’t know why you are bringing up school and photos.
Couldn’t care less about where an SP went to school and she has enough photographs on her web sight so what is there more to see.

Clients don’t/can’t take photographs without an SP permission so I don’t get your point besides there is more than enough photographs available on their web sight, instagram, selfies, pretty much there is an abundance of photographs voluntarily submitted by SP to advertise themselves.or to make $$$$.
 
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Fradi

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Sharing photographs ?
There are so many of you with such explicit photographs and videos on your only fans with stuff in every hole being submitted by yourselves for money.

I have nothing against this it is obviously a money making venture and if you are comfortable with it no problem, but please don’t turn around and complain about photographs being shared,

Basically you don’t want photographs being shared don’t put any on any media platform, it is inevitable that it will be spread all over the place and not necessarily by men.

There are many of you falsely using each others photographs to advertise also ( bait and switch ) lol.

Personally I am not interested in pornographic photographs, I much prefer a lady in a nice tight black cocktail dress with high heels.
 

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it's great that you can't fathom why clients would take and exchange photographs and videos without an SPs permission because it probably means you don't engage in these practices yourself. however, it happens, unfortunately.
similarly, it's great that you personally don't care about digging up and exchanging personally identifiable and sensitive information about SPs. but, again, it happens, unfortunately.

to Lena's point about private groups SPs have to discuss clients and whether they exist, they do. there's one that SPs of an agency use where I supposedly have a funny nickname. from what I understand, they're mostly discussing hygiene and matters of safety but they discuss other things too.
Tell me where do these videos and photos come from if not made and submitted by the SP themselves on one form of media platform or another.
Yes I agree that it is not right to spread this without their permission, but you really have to be extremely naive with your head in the sand to think that it will not be and not necessarily by men,
 

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1. not every SP has an onlyfans or similar (nor does every SP engage in the bait and switch), so let's not generalize.
2. even for the SPs that have an onlyfans or similar, they still have property rights over their content that should be protected and enforced (e.g., against the unauthorized resale and distribution of it), and that's irrespective of moral judgements over the content itself (unless we're talking about things that violate OF's T&C, in which case it's irrelevant to this conversation).
3. you're right that it would be naive on the OF producers part to assume that the content will never be shared and that said property rights in this domain can ever be perfectly and absolutely enforced.
4. in a later post you ask where "videos and photos come from if not made and submitted by the SP themselves on one form of media platform or another". some may come from social media or OF while others may be a hidden camera a client has set up in the room, a sneaky camera shot, etc.... sometimes, the photo and video may even be consented to by the SP or sent by them, but in most cases, the distribution of it is not as it's intended for the client's private use only.
Oh please hidden cameras give me a break, it may happen .000001% of the time.
Most photographs videos are made by the SP themselves for advertisement or for sale for money as nudes or to view.

Yes you are perfectly right that their rights should be protected but it is very naive to think it will ever be on todays free for all media platforms.

You don’t want any photographs or videos of yourself floating around don’t make any and don’t put them on the internet, pretty simple.

I love the women I see and think they are gorgeous and amazing but that doesn’t mean keeping my head in the sand and that I dont live in the real world.
 
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I think this is a big part of it. another part of it I think is that some clients think of a session with an SP as some kind of conquest over another person, a feather in their cap or a scalp collected, and they get an ego boost out of certain details (attendance at some prestigious university, coming from a privileged background, career in biotech, etc) that inflate the value/allure of the SP (their prize or trophy) in their mind, so they dig around/stalk for it. other clients, particularly newer ones to the industry, may want to learn more about who it is they just had sex with because maybe it feels unnatural to them to have sex with a total stranger (doesn't make stalking any more okay). and then there are the particularly repugnant stalkers who try to dig up stuff with which to blackmail SPs into receiving free sex.
All excellent points which explains the stalking, but not she sharing. Anyway, I am not sure I want to go down that rabbit hole, as I do not partake in these kind of activities. If I want to know more about an SP, I will simply ask her and keep that information for myself.
 

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The people that text me “I’m going to book you soon” are going to be so surprised when I retire. What is the saying? “You snooze, you lose”

You've been sharing a lot of grudges lately. It's a strange feeling. Please don't retire ever.
 

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A lot of clients try to find out real life identity. If we blur our face they will share unblurred photos amongst them. They will try to find us on dating apps, some will even try to message us on Facebook.


Some probably don’t understand it’s creepy and others probably know and don’t care
That sounds an awful lot like a person who can stalk. If they are not content to know you for the transactional nature you are engaged in and are seeking to know more about you and your personal life......it is a fine line that is being inched toward and your personal and private life is at risk. Some people are not well.
 
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Oh please hidden cameras give me a break, it may happen .000001% of the time.
Most photographs videos are made by the SP themselves for advertisement or for sale for money as nudes or to view.

Yes you are perfectly right that their rights should be protected but it is very naive to think it will ever be on todays free for all media platforms.

You don’t want any photographs or videos of yourself floating around don’t make any and don’t put them on the internet, pretty simple.

I love the women I see and think they are gorgeous and amazing but that doesn’t mean keeping my head in the sand and that I dont live in the real world.
Fradi said:
There are so many of you with such explicit photographs and videos on your only fans with stuff in every hole being submitted by yourselves for money.

I have nothing against this it is obviously a money making venture and if you are comfortable with it no problem, but please don’t turn around and complain about photographs being shared

I am super happy for you Fradi that you are living the dream seeing the three or four same providers all the time and that your experience in this industry couldn't be better! But please, coming here to say clients filming us and sharing photos and videos without our consent rarely happens is upsetting. It is not because you are unaware that it's not our reality. It's also not because I choose to share some photos of me on the Internet that clients can film me and share whatever they want about me, this is a ridiculous argument to bring to the discussion.
 
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