Rating SP by Numbers... really?

[Halloween Mike]

Since i started on the board, i always found that arward...

I mean, review are usefull, they saved me trouble, they helped me choose girls in the part, reviews are great, but the whole number thing? I had an SP saying to me once when she started she saw one of her review and the guy gave her a 7 to "face" , she was like "what wrong with my face" and it really got to her. On my side, would i give number she would be a 10/10.

So i am asking today how can members can give numeral rating, especially based on personal taste. I mean, i did said in my review a couple times "cute, maybe not model-look-a-like but cute GND" and stuff like that, cause yeah since the pictures most of the time dosen't show the face, people want to know how good you TOUGH she look. But that whole numero rating seem like comparing a girl to a video game or something like that. They are humans after all, i think they deserve better than numeral rating.

I think the only thing people should give a number to is the attitude, how friendly he found her. Cause the whole look, body and such, is way more on a personal level.

This is just my opinion of course, you do what you want.

Whats important for me in a review...

1) How was her attitude, one of the most important thing.
2) How was her hygiene, cause for exemple as a non smoker, bad cigarette breath would be a total turn off for me...
3) Was she looking like the pic(weigh gain or hair color changing for exemple)
4) Where the service mention on the menu, or if the agency dosen't list them, what did she offered.
5) Physical description, how her boobs look(picture could be done with a wonderbra) , tatoos, piercing not on picture, stuff like that.

All this can be done without giving numeral ratings.

 

[man77777]

When a guy who made 5 reviews and more, give a number, you can compar to other girls he and you have seen, so you have a good scale to estimate how cute she is.

Ok it's bad to rate SP by numbers, but well, it's bad to cheat our wife and it's really bad to encourage prostitution or to say it's a "hobby" to see these girls...

And i would be curious to hear why you feel it's ok to tell a girl that she just has a girl next door's face (ouchhh my gf wouldn't love to here this !), but not to tell ok she is 7/10 which is far above the average...

We need to help each other to make good choices, and rate is really useful... If these beautifull and lovely girls that I respect, don't want to be judged by men, they haven't chosen the good job..

 

[aramis]

Tis post is not in the right section but I sure agree with Man77777. Rating is rating, and it is useful. Numeral rating for face looks has been quite useful to me in the past, even more so when I use a specific member history rating values as a reference.

 

[Merlot]

Hello all,

When a guy who made 5 reviews and more, give a number, you can compar to other girls he and you have seen, so you have a good scale to estimate how cute she is.

Ok it`s bad to rate SP by numbers, but well, it`s bad to cheat our wife and it`s really bad to encourage prostitution or to say it`s a ``hobby`` to see these girls...

We need to help each other to make good choices, and rate is really useful... If these beautifull and lovely girls that I respect, don`t want to be judged by men, they haven`t chosen the good job..

Getting to know and trust several frequent reviewers is probably the best way to know the kind of lady you might be dealing with. My best results this year came from knowing both Cloudsurf and another very respected veteran hobbyist who chooses not to post or be known any more, but is still active and in contact with me. But whether it`s reading between the lines of a story or comparing numbers, it`s very helpful to understand the value scale and what it means from specific hobbyists.

BTW...I was thinking how much we could use a GFE 1 to 3 or GFE + scale to differentiate between those who...meet minimum standards...are very skilled...create a great personal connection.

I experienced a huge contrast in genuine GFE experiences between ladies this year with some who meet all the required options one could expect for GFE, and the rare lady who is really a true sensual and loving companion.

But no, I am not serious about this GFE rating scale thought. Like every other rating system it`s too subjective, opens up exploitation possibilities, and still depends on knowing the person...and it`s so pedantic.

Cheers,

Merlot

 

[man77777]

Like every other rating system it's too subjective

Yep, you're right, but reviewing is a subjective activity. So MERB is a subjective website where you post 2000times...

And no... Boston Bruin can"t be Stanley Cup Champions as they lost against Canadien after a glorious 7th match... Anyway, could you imagine Chiara with the Stanley Cup trophey in hand after what he did ? Noooo there's a Justice in sport, sir...

 

[Halloween Mike]

And i would be curious to hear why you feel it's ok to tell a girl that she just has a girl next door's face (ouchhh my gf wouldn't love to here this !), but not to tell ok she is 7/10 which is far above the average...

Well you misunderstood what i meant by that. GND dosen't mean she is not super cute, its more of a state. For exemple at my favorite restaurant in my town there used to had a waitress that was your typical pornstar look, fake blonde, fake big tits, lots of make up, and on top of that she was actually a bit dumb... (my best mate worked there in the kitchen, and he said to me a couple things on her, how sometimes she seem very stupid) so i would class her as your typical blonde bimbo...

On the other hand, on the convenient store(i think its how you call "depanneur" in english) there was that super cute girl, she was a brunette, all natural of course, had that bubbly attitude, always dressed as a regular girl(no store outfit there) , thats what i would call a girl next door type... Both where super hot, but in there own way.

Anyway, you get the point, it dosen't mean one is hotter than another, more of her type of look.

And im sure you guys use the numbers for something, if your taste are similar than one guy who see SP very often, it can be helpfull... But i just tough it was disrespectfull to rate a woman like a car or a video game... Sure they work in something where there look is important but still... numbers... arkward to me

Ok it's bad to rate SP by numbers, but well, it's bad to cheat our wife and it's really bad to encourage prostitution or to say it's a "hobby" to see these girls...

Yes its totally bad to cheat your wife, and i don't think im allow to say what i think of cheaters... you have the luck to have a wife or a GF(something i don't) then respect her, if you want to go freelance and sleep here and there, get single... On the other end i would say there is nothing bad into encouraging prostitution... Sex has always been more taboo than the rest, but honestly whats the different between the prostitute that fuck for money, and people working at massage place(not the ones that do sex stuff, the regular one) or the model who pose almost naked(or naked) for art or lingerie or whatever. Or even actress that go naked on screen when its obviously not nessary(most scene could be shot without you seeing anything and the movie would still had the same impact)

All of those are profession, and i would even go to the point saying an escort who get pay 100$ the hour(since the rest go to agencies) do more than 600$ a day when some guy who in total dirt, very physically, make this in a week busting his ass off doing 50 hours in it... So well... all of this to have sex. Even if not all client are good looking, its not that bad at all.

They choose this style of life, nobody force them, they could probably be hired at the local mcdonald and work at 8 bucks the hour if they want, but they want the big money, and they are willing to accept what comes with it, without having to pass 6 years in university.

Im not trying to be harsh or anything here, even if i know it could look like that if readed quick. Actually its the opposite, personally i respect the escorting profession and see it as what it is... a JOB. Im not even hiding the fact that i see escort from the people i know. My friends know it, my familly knows it, even my mother and grand mother knows it. They sure are not too kind on escorts, especially my grand mother who come from a time where fucking was to make baby....lol But bottom line i tell them without any problem, cause for me its a regular job. She need the money, i need to get laid(and cant get it the normal way) so i pay them to work with me. Not worst than being too lazy to make dinner and going to the restaurant.

Hope i don't shock anybody by saying this, but thats how i see it.

 

[man77777]

Mike,

Behind prostitution there is not only girl's choices. I think you know what I mean, so encouraging prostitution is clearly a worst thing than just rating the girl in MERB after seeing her...

I think that reviewing is a sort of rating. Giving numbers or words is the same thing for me and I think it's more disrespectful to describe the way you fuck her, the position etc... Than rating her...

My opinion is that reviewing (with or without rating) a sexual relationship is always disrespectfull for the girl, but that's MERB and it's very useful !

 

[Halloween Mike]

well there is nothing wrong in describing position.... you just say what you did... its like listing services, its part of the job. I don't know, maybe its just me that see this weirdly, but in the escort business i think of the girls are very cute, so when i see numbers like 7 i think really?

 

[Siocnarf]

I don't think numbers are disrespectful. (Hockey players are always compared by their numbers and statistics and they don't complain). But for escorts I find descriptions are more useful then numbers.

 

[Halloween Mike]

I don't think numbers are disrespectful. (Hockey players are always compared by their numbers and statistics and they don't complain). But for escorts I find descriptions are more useful then numbers.

yeah but its how the system work, i mean if the guy scored 34 goals... he scored 34 goals... If he is -12 in season, he is -12, thats fact, not opinions. But when it comes to an SP, beauty is to the customer opinion.

 

[man77777]

Lot of sport magazines are rating players performance after their match and that's subjective too... And they never complain..

 

[Halloween Mike]

ah ! didn't knew that...

But i guess rating a performance and a look is 2 different thing... Anyway thats just my opinion, not fact lol

 

[Siocnarf]

I know Hockey statistics and escorts reviews don't compare. That was more like a little joke since you seem to love Hockey.
I would just add that I don’t think there’s anything immoral about supporting prostitution (in principle). I wish the industry was perfectly legal and clean like construction. But there are a few pretty bad promoters in the sports and music industry too and nobody’s going to call you a creep for going to a game or a show.

 

[man77777]

Ask to a woman or a feminist if it is worst to rent a girl for 1h to have sex with her OR just to rate a woman's face...

She will tell you that the first is 10000000000000 worst...

 

[Siocnarf]

Ask to a woman or a feminist if it is worst to rent a girl for 1h to have sex with her OR just to rate a woman's face...

She will tell you that the first is 10000000000000 worst...

The only opinion that should matter should be the working girl's opinion. Many people don't like their job and many people are being exploited in different kind of jobs. That's a real problem but it does not mean that the job itself is bad. Do janitors enjoy cleaning toilets all day? Is it rewarding or fullfilling? No, its just a way of making a living. I wish there were "certified fair-trade" agencies but I see nothing immoral with the act of exchanging sex for money.

As for rating faces I don't think its bad either. Mine is 5/10 at best.

 

[man77777]

I'm agree with you. If i wasn't, I wouldn't see SP.

I'm just saying that it's a bit special in one hand to wonder if it's a good thing to rate woman's face which is not considered to be such a serious disrespect for women, if in an other hand you rent girls for sex which is most of the time considered to be a real attack to women being...

 

[Siocnarf]

Ah, I see. But people are not just grading the woman’s faces for the fun of it, but to decide if the ladies are worth having sex with. People who are against prostitution would find this even more degrading I guess. But for us and for sex worked themselves it should not be considered disrespectful. Of course nobody likes getting bad reviews so I think its best to give explanations when we give grades.

 

[muffinbuffer]

Ask to a woman or a feminist if it is worst to rent a girl for 1h to have sex with her OR just to rate a woman's face...

She will tell you that the first is 10000000000000 worst...

Bullshit.

My wife is a) a woman and b) a feminist. She does not think it's ten trillion times worse to pay a woman for sex than to rate her face. She doesn't have any problem at all with the former and isn't very comfortable with the latter.

Not all sex workers are women, but all the ones I've had sex with have been. They don't think it's bad for me to pay them. A number of feminists are current or former sex workers and many feminists think that prostitution is honest and straightforward work with which there is nothing wrong.

 

[RobinX]

I used to include number ratings in all my reviews, until I asked this same question on another board. The providers who replied were unanimous in saying that they hated being rated with numbers. A lot of the hobbyists who replied also felt that number ratings were subjective and therefore useless. Since then I no longer include number ratings in my reviews.

 

[man77777]

Bullshit.

My wife is a) a woman and b) a feminist. She does not think it's ten trillion times worse to pay a woman for sex than to rate her face. She doesn't have any problem at all with the former and isn't very comfortable with the latter.

Not all sex workers are women, but all the ones I've had sex with have been. They don't think it's bad for me to pay them. A number of feminists are current or former sex workers and many feminists think that prostitution is honest and straightforward work with which there is nothing wrong.

Sorry, I will not start my answer by "bullshit"... Maybe a question of respect..


You can always find exception (we all know you have a special relationship with your wife who reads all your MERB's reviews), but for 90% of women and feminist, it's far worse to rent woman for sex than to rate her face.

We all know that fight against prostitution is one of the biggest feminist concern...