Repeat after mediocre review?

[luvdozer]

Would you ever consider repeating with a provider after you wrote a mediocre review of your first session with her?

I would never go back to any provider after a bad session regardless of whether or not I wrote a review. However, I have been with a few providers where the session was just so-so for some reason. In some cases the girl is gorgeous and has a long list of glowing reviews from other hobbyists, but there was something in our session that was just off.

I can imagine giving a girl another shot especially if I liked her looks and she has very good reviews from others, but I would feel awkward if I had posted a review saying that the first session was only so-so. I try very hard to make sure my reviews are never personal or mean and I also try to consider the chances that if there was a problem it could have been my issue. If I was a provider and I knew a booking was with a guy who had already left a review that wasn't great, I would be confused and annoyed.

Has anyone ever done this? Was it something you discussed with the provider? How did it go the second time?

 

[TheDon]

I never expect my experience to be the same as the ones I read in the reviews.

Doing so would just set me up for failure and unmet expectations.

If a get a so so experience I don't give her a second chance no matter what other peoples opinions are.

I find alot of reviews tend to be overblown.

 

[clark_larson]

Learn to move forward(wherever that leads you) without looking back. I won't see a girl after writing a bad review. What motivates you to go back to see a girl you've writen a bad review is that little voice in your head that says "what if I'm missing something." I don't believe we miss anything in life, there are just things that are not meant to be.

 

[Carmine Falcone]

Doesn't matter if I went on record with a review or not. If the experience was mediocre or could have been better, then I won't see her again. There are too many choices.

 

[luvdozer]

Learn to move forward(wherever that leads you) without looking back. I won't see a girl after writing a bad review. What motivates you to go back to see a girl you've writen a bad review is that little voice in your head that says "what if I'm missing something." I don't believe we miss anything in life, there are just things that are not meant to be.

Yeah that is the voice in my head - I don't feel that way after a bad session, but if the girl is really hot and the service is just so so, I can't help thinking that if I go back to the well, things might be different.

I also think that it would be different if I lived in montreal and therefore saw girls on a more consistent basis. I think I wouldn't care as much either way. Since I only come to montreal a few times per year, the stakes are higher and I want to maximize the chances of each session being excellent.

 

[Cruiser777]

Would you ever consider repeating with a provider after you wrote a mediocre review of your first session with her?

Why, why would you go back... bad, mediocre review or not ? The encounter was bad, period.

Here is a "Real Life" experience, that may or may not suit to your situation.

Since I tend to keep and repeat with regulars who are good looking babes with excellent service, some of my
friends (Part time hobbyists) when they find out about them and hear my rave reviews they try to jump in on the bandwagon and hook up with them.

When one of those friends hooked up with one of these, excellent service provider, he came back and said
it was a bad session, she wasn't feeling good... so he tries again, and again bad service, another medical reason
that she wasn't feeling good etc etc.

The week after I hook up with her again and as usual, excellent service, so while we were discussing things, she asked me to tell my friend not to book her again (She had some personal reasons), so if this guy had tried
100 times again, it would have been bad service while others were having very good time with her.

Also, I like to note that I have experienced some similar situations myself where a girl is described as WOW with some good reviews but it was disaster with me, didn't even bother to write a review and just moved on. The good thing about Montreal is that after a bad encounter, the next they you can hook up with a provider that you know 100 % that it will be a good encounter.

I also think that it would be different if I lived in montreal and therefore saw girls on a more consistent basis. I think I wouldn't care as much either way. Since I only come to montreal a few times per year, the stakes are higher and I want to maximize the chances of each session being excellent.

Then definitely you have to see some new ones, too many good ones here in Montreal to take a chance and
possibility of another bad encounter.

 

[Numerati]

Would you ever consider repeating with a provider after you wrote a mediocre review of your first session with her?

If it was mediocre I wouldn't even write a review let alone repeat. Doesn't mean she is some terrible creature or anything if she was sincere and put in the effort. It just means the chemistry was not there and I got things wrong. It happens. Not much in Montreal but it does happen.

 

[Halloween Mike]

I feel personality its my "duty" to write a review, good or bad. Good to give the SP the good feedback she deserve and even tough i know my word may not be the go to for every member (lol) i like to believe after many years here my reviews do matters a bit.

Bad because i need to "warm" the community. Granted it rarely happen to me as im very carefull on who i choose to see, especially these days compare to a few years ago, but it may still happen. Of course im taking everything into consideration from chemistry to circonstances, if its just an ordinary meeting because chemistry was not there, ill say so.

I try to be very honest in my reviews.

Now would i see somebody after i made a mediocre review? No. Not cause of the review, simply cause if it was mediocre the first time, the chances to be awesome are almost non existent for a second time. It could be better, maybe she didn't had a great day or whatever, but i highly doubt it would go awesome. There is so much great ladies in MTL, and i don't have stockpiles of money to put on the hobby, so ill go try my luck elsewhere.

If i was uber rich, then MAYBE if she was super hot, giving her a second chance, but in my situation nop.

 

[Thor Jr]

I have had some bad experiences , this is for sure, and i wont repeat with these ladies, but i will repeat with a lady who i had a bad session with if the fault was mine. How can we always blame the girls for the bad session, i am not perfect, i make mistakes, sometimes im just not up to it or im in a bad mood to begin with, or im tired and just not very sociable but horny as hell and maybe this is why i called in the first place, where i should of just grabbed a magazine and taken things into my own hands and afterwards filled a bowl with ice cream, watched a movie off to bed we go.

And i am speaking of my own experiences, not of anyone else session, so don't throw stones at me. I am just stated a scenario here, but can you remember your bad session and can honestly say it was the girls fault, each and every time? I know i cant.

 

[jalimon]

You go to a restaurant and it turns out bad.

Either the food was bad. Service was bad. You choose the wrong thing. You did not feel well. Any reason your fault or restaurant fault you mostly will not go back. Because Montreal has a reputation of having the best restaurant in North America

Cheers,

 

[EagerBeaver]

You go to a restaurant and it turns out bad. Either the food was bad. Service was bad. You choose the wrong thing. You did not feel well. Any reason your fault or restaurant fault you mostly will not go back.
Cheers,

It's true. I can vividly remember the worst meal I ever had in Montreal. It was in 2006, I believe. It was a rainy April day, and I was staying at the Delta on President Kennedy. I was going to go out and grab something to eat but when I saw how hard it was raining, I decided to bag that idea and I ordered a pizza at the hotel restaurant. It was disgustingly bad, and because I managed a pizzeria for a while when I was in my 20s, I had a very clear picture of what good pizza should taste like. Ironically, although it was terrible, I was so hungry I managed to eat two slices of a small pizza and then sent it back to the kitchen. Did not ask for a refund. Never ate there again. The waiter asked me if it was okay and I said, "no, it tastes like shit, take it away."

It's true, when you have a meal at a restaurant that is mediocre, especially if you are a tourist in Montreal, you are never going back. On the other hand, I have never had a bad meal at Deville Dinerbar and have been back there every trip in the last 3-4 years.

With escorts, whether the experience is good or bad depends a lot on personal chemistry.............which is similar to food in the sense that are taste buds and appetites, whether for women are food, are all different and in some respects unique. One man's 10 is another man's 7, both in escorts and restos......

 

[luvdozer]

You go to a restaurant and it turns out bad.

Either the food was bad. Service was bad. You choose the wrong thing. You did not feel well. Any reason your fault or restaurant fault you mostly will not go back. Because Montreal has a reputation of having the best restaurant in North America

Cheers,

Actually I have no trouble imagining a scenario where I would go back to a restaurant after a mediocre meal. If the restaurant had just opened and the service was poor but the food was good, I would absolutely go back later on the assumption that they ironed out issues that are common in a new place. Likewise, if I had a subpar meal, but then I read glowing reviews - particularly if the reviews mention a revised menu - I would consider returning.

That is kind of the scenario I was driving at - not a bad session, but a subpar one from a provider who normally has a good reputation.

 

[luvdozer]

I feel personality its my "duty" to write a review, good or bad. Good to give the SP the good feedback she deserve and even tough i know my word may not be the go to for every member (lol) i like to believe after many years here my reviews do matters a bit.
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I feel the same way. I try my best to be fair and to give the benefit of the doubt, but I also feel an obligation to be honest because I rely on the reviews of the member so this board. I don't take every word as gospel, but the sum total of multiple reviews is so incredibly helpful when it comes to making choices.

 

[luvdozer]

Well no, I definitely do not mean an experience where everything was bad. I think my original and subsequent posts make it clear that I am talking about an experience that was subpar, but not bad.

I don't find reading reviews to be fruitless at all. We all have different tastes but when you read the details you can get a sense of how a reviewers specific tastes compare to my own.

I have no idea what an Eskimo acquaintence is.

 

[luvdozer]

Even after reading the definition I have no idea what Eskimo acquaintences has to do with reviewing SPS and deciding whether not to see one again. I think I am missing something.

 

[luvdozer]

Yes I understand that point. But what does that have to do with an Eskimo acquaintance - 2 people who have had sex but not intercourse? I don't get the connection.

 

[Kawasaki]

If I had a bad meal in a restaurant I would never go back to give them a chance to give me another bad meal!

 

[RoyBatty69]

I usually don't repeat after mediocre session unless there is some compelling reason the believe that the first encounter was skewed somehow. For example, these was one SP that is super hot. I saw her on her second day when she started. She was a bit restrictive because she just broke up with her boyfriend. Then three months later, after some positive reviews, I decide to do another session with her and it was like night and day. She gave me a PSE session to remember. Now all my sessions with her are wickedly awesome and I am totally addicted to her. Hopefully she won't get back with her ex bf anytime soon.lol.

 

[Willgill]

Shawn made a nice case on repeating after a mediocre session. I think this leads to OP's original question: if after a mediocre session and you still want to give a second shot, would you write a mediocre review, or just keep silent afraid of ruining the second session because of the review.

For me I definitely would keep mouth shut. But I am a selfish dude...

 

[luvdozer]

Yes that is the crux of my point - I am not talking about a bad experience, just a middling one. There is a current thread in outcall section of a girl who has several pages of very positive reviews. One guy posted a review where he said his session was ok, but she seemed tired and they didn't connect. So if I am this guy and I think the girl is gorgeous (my type in appearance) would it make sense to roll the dice on another session if I had reason to think I might have just caught her on an off day?

It seems like most people are of the opinion that since there are so many gorgeous girls in montreal who provide great service that you are better off just moving on. I can understand that, but when I see a girl who really pushes my buttons in terms of appearance, I am tempted to be just a bit more open.