Repeats: Why some do? Why some try to avoid it?

[harwell1690]

I like people.
Whole people.
People are complex.
Everything can be seen as 'better' or 'disappointing'. A lot is just my POV on it.
But, mostly for me it always is getting better.
Hence, I repeat. More than many of you, apparently. (But not always.)

Hell, every car works a bit differently and it takes me a few rides to figure out the car.

Women are far more complex and more wonderful.
Lots to explore.
In general, as a woman gets more comfortable, she brings out her full bag of tricks. (Not a perfect metaphor, but you get the idea.) She let's it happen. She 'relaxes'.
Usually that makes it better and more fun.
It is not just the 'electricity' of the sensation. It's how many different places or buttons she hits inside you. Or being with her hits within you.

That's my POV.

 

[letsrock2012]

hummmm... I believe I fall in the naive-romantic-why leave an excellent experience behind type.
So YES it's repeat for me. Although I fully understand GentlemanJon's point of view. Perhaps more then I'd care to admit.

 

[PopeDover]

In general, as a woman gets more comfortable, she brings out her full bag of tricks. (Not a perfect metaphor)

:nono: absolutely not

it's a perfect metaphor

 

[Lily from Montreal]

Repeats sex are better because I already know you are real and the anticipation enhance the level of intensity from the start while some moments in a new encounter are awkward , the second time my date already know I am ticklish, firm pressure please, and that my ears are not to be licked and I know how much time you need before an encore...

 

[johnybird]

Repeats sex are better because I already know you are real and the anticipation enhance the level of intensity from the start while some moments in a new encounter are awkward , the second time my date already know I am ticklish, firm pressure please, and that my ears are not to be licked and I know how much time you need before an encore...

I'm going to have to wholeheartedly agree with Miss ForYou!

 

[shakenotstirred]

Repeats sex are better because I already know you are real and the anticipation enhance the level of intensity from the start while some moments in a new encounter are awkward

Agree all the way.

 

[tiannas]

I love repeat visits. There's a chemistry that builds with familiarity, and the comfort level can allow you to really let go and express yourself more fully than with a brand new partner.

Having said that, I am also addicted to the thrill of a new encounter. From the anticipation of that first face-to-face, not knowing who you will meet, to the excitement of actually having sex with a stranger.

Both encounters are hot in their own way.

 

[SylvainP]

J'aime rencontrer les mêmes femmes, surtout quand un lien se crée. Nous savons à quoi nous attendre de l'autre. Et si les deux partenaires sont d'accord, on peut vouloir essayer quelque chose de nouveau!

 

[Toxic1979]

I tell myself Im going to repeat. Then I tell MERB the girl is repeatable.... then I arrive at the candy store and I want to try all the new candies! mmmm !

 

[talkinghead]

To repeat or not to repeat, that is the question

This post is just a quick nothing to express the simultaneous joy and frustration of the Montreal scene. My time and money are limited and so attention must be paid and choices must be made. The last time I was in town I had an amazing night with an amazing woman; I don't just mean good, I mean the best. I'm hoping to come back to town soon and I need to plan. On the one hand, I would be an idiot not to see her again. On the other hand ... well, it's hard to look over the Indy website and read the reviews of the beautiful agency girls and not dream. So on that first hand, what if I repeat and it's not transcendent? And back to the other hand, why would I go fishing for something that might be good but not amazing?

It's a great choice to have, but I sometimes feel helplessly buffeted by the winds of desire. Poor, poor, pitiful me....

Obviously this situation arises for anyone without unlimited time and unlimited resources. What is a poor boy to do?

 

[Mithridate]

Hi
This is a very personal choice, it depends how was your connection with this lady, and iff she is still around, in 2004 I saw my first SP, I saw her another time, last time i saw was last year so about 8 times in 12 years.
The good point is you made a connection that grows over the time, there is no bad points, except that sometime you want to see another star, but you start an all new connection if there is one.
I did that, I met some wonderful persons, but being a shy and anxious guy, and being 62, time is running, so you see it is very personal, curiosity vs stability.
Qapla
M.

 

[Stockton]

My biggest reason to repeat is that there's a chance she can quit at any time. If you don't repeat now when you can, two-three months from now or whenever your next trip is that option might not even be available to you.

 

[Killbill007]

Always faithful to my ATF for almost 3 years and never deceived

 

[Frankberg]

Of course yes... Why not?

 

[talkinghead]

Message received--and good advice everyone. It's just so tempting looking at all the options...

(Mods: sorry for repeating a thread on repeating with an SP)

 

[Frankberg]

Why not? not to say why it was spent 200 300$ for this purpose Ostie, Tabarnak de Calisse de St ciboire !!!!!!! https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9sniMbSEzsg

........:eyebrows:

Sasha

:noidea: Lol

 

[Numerati]

I would repeat if that first experience is great but not amazing. That means there is room to grow out of further encounters. The next encounter(s) would most likely be dinner. Can't really explain why I would repeat. Yet I know when I see it.

Why would I not repeat? Well if I can't make a connection with her. That doesn't mean she is "terrible." Of course not. Yet on the extreme end of the spectrum I would not repeat if the encounter was out of the world amazing. Like everything is so damn perfect where I am absolutely awed. Reason as so is that I am afraid that further encounters would not be so amazing and would not like to ruin that amazing initial experience. They don't happen often though. Only two in my case. Naomi of Satin Dreamz/MSC and Emanuelle of MGF.

 

[Pierre Woodman]

Repeat - You know what to expect. New place - ....................into the unknown.

 

[2458p]

Always faithful to my ATF for almost 3 years and never deceived

The same girl you saw hundreds of times I believe? That's a great story.

 

[Killbill007]

The same girl you saw hundreds of times I believe? That's a great story.

Yes that right but i should said more than hundred times