Sad story of abuse

[2fast2slow]

I found Sacha's post to be very informative (not to mention compassionate), I decided to translate it.

"When I hear stories like this, it builds up in me such an anger, such a rage, and a feeling of injustice…. They made choices ... to be all bastards! I don't think they are animals!

Easy to say after the fact but .... ideally, the best thing to have done would have been to go to the hospital and have a forensic test kit performed.

Collect all the elements that can identify the attackers while documenting her story, her version ... especially in gang rape with rape drugs. Take blood samples. A doctor will also report on his observations during the clinical examination: genital, bodily, anatomical, psychological and cognitive lesions, all documented.

At this point, she is not required to file a complaint. But this 14-day report can feed the sex crimes investigative sergeant as evidence if a complaint is made, to bring before a judge to see if charges are laid. If the perpetrator is already known to the police, it will be even easier.

You told us that it happened Friday evening! For the kit to be valid in court as objective scientific evidence, the kit must be done within 5 days of the date of the sexual assault. She can also ask for protection, because it was gang rape and as she cannot recognize them all due to the effect of the drug, she may fear reprisals from one of the rapists.

With the kit testing, she can also meet a social worker and a psychiatrist who can bring her some respite from her physical and psychological pain. And not to trivialize what she experienced ... "it's my fault with the job and the environment that I frequent"... self-esteem! etc. Afterwards, I don't know her life, her past, her inner resources, the environment and support that she can find such that it does not affect her for the rest of her life, like trauma or post-traumatic shock.

Or make a at-home forensic kit ’Social Info (emergency distress)" at 811

1 888 933-9007 Toll-free hotline, information and referrals for victims of sexual assault

CAVAC https://cavac.qc.ca/
And compensation for IVAC https://www.ivac.qc.ca/Pages/default.aspx

Of course, not to forget the great work done by Stella

Ouch ... it's now that she must be well surrounded!

Really a bunch of bastards to destroy people's lives!

I wish her that she would have the courage to file a complaint so that this bastard stops hurting, and being well surrounded to cross this horrible…. No word to describe…

Sasha​

"

 

[Sol Tee Nutz]

To OP, you seem to run into quite a few women like this, bad luck for you too see the amount of abused escorts. I have only met one and that was in Ft.McMurray, and she was just tricked into full GFE which she did not prefer to do.

 

[Doggyluver]

Being exposed to this incident has made me question my involvement in this hobby. I spoke to this young woman again after the post here and referred her to Stella and as a result of her contact with them she told me she was returning to her home to be with family and re-evaluate her life. Sad that it took something like this to cause a re-evaluation but perhaps it will be a positive for her going forward, here's hoping.
I have never treated an SP with any disrespect and I do believe that this has a lot to do with my upbringing. I would encourage anyone who might have treated an SP with a degree of disrespect to look in the mirror and reconsider your actions, they are fulfilling a service, period, be respectful. These women are someones sister, daughter or friend and they are human beings, treat them as you would expect to be treated and you can't go wrong.

 

[TigerWould]

Once again, why are we NOT exposing this creep???

 

[cederhum]

Je suis bouleversé et sous le choc de lire cette triste histoire.

Je ne suis pas violent de nature mais lorsque je lis ou j'entends ce genre d'histoire. Il me vient qu'une seule pensée par rapport à ces brutes et c'est la suivante : je les immobiliserais et leur découperais leur pénis et leurs couilles avec une lame de rasoir et de manière très très tranquillement et sans anesthésie. Devinez la suite!!!!!

Désolé pour ceux que je peux offenser avec cette image crue!

Ced

 

[Halloween Mike]

Being exposed to this incident has made me question my involvement in this hobby. I spoke to this young woman again after the post here and referred her to Stella and as a result of her contact with them she told me she was returning to her home to be with family and re-evaluate her life. Sad that it took something like this to cause a re-evaluation but perhaps it will be a positive for her going forward, here's hoping.

We can only be us man. When seeing somebody, even if she is known to be more into kinky stuff or such, i will ALWAYS make sure to tell her, if for some reason you feel incomfortable with anything, just tell me.

For a good chunk of my time as a client i was too shy to ask, too shy to do anything, was always very vanilla minus cim/cof wich was easy to ask first (i mean the answer is clear, its yes or no).

Now at times i may be willing to try some stuff, but i will always make sure the person im with is fine with it and if for any reason its being "too much" for her i will stop right away (never happened so far). I actually been told i was a 2 on a scale of 10 of the kinky ladder .. but those providers were really into kinky stuff.

My point is me, you, i think we are good clients. So we shouldn't be ashamed of doing what we do. Its the old debate of prostitution, like that governement dude Arnold whatever is name is that said every women who work in the sex work has to be forced into it, trafficked, so false.

Its possible to do this hobby in an healthy way on both side.

But the guy (and his "friend") cited in this exemple is obviously the wrong part. Its the part of this business that shouldn't exist.

I mean hell we shouldn't even have to mention this, the asshole used drugs... to pass any consent, thats not only wrong but illegal !!!

 

[CaptRenault]

...Yes I see SP's on a regular basis but I have always treated them with the respect they deserve as human beings.

...I have never treated an SP with any disrespect and I do believe that this has a lot to do with my upbringing...

Good for you. No one here has questioned your virtue, so you don't have to keep reminding us what a good person you are.

...I know some of you think these women are not deserving of respect and you view them as less than human beings well.....fuck you ! People who treat others as this SP was last night are animals !
End of my rant !

...I would encourage anyone who might have treated an SP with a degree of disrespect to look in the mirror and reconsider your actions, they are fulfilling a service, period, be respectful...

You have no reason to call out "some" members of MERB about their behavior toward escorts. There's no reason to associate MERB members with the incident that you recounted. You have cited no evidence that the individuals involved in your story have any connection to MERB or are even aware of its existence. If you have a problem with a MERB member who has written something disrespectful, then you should either respond to that person or report him to the mods.

Being exposed to this incident has made me question my involvement in this hobby...

Perhaps you should take a break from seeing escorts.

 

[nicknickolas]

What a piece of a shit, i have a friend who s a cop and spoke to him about this situation. Even though the lady in question is a sp ,they will still investigate the situation, and they will take this seriously. He also said that if she is worried dont mention anything about the sp part. Just say you met a guy in a bar, one way or another this animal will still get picked up. But she needs to seek medical attention asap,blood work and and the hole nine yards. And maybe if a lady from this forum can reach out to her and help her out?

 

[Doggyluver]

I don’t think the fact that I’ve seen this up close and personal a few times that I am unique. I believe others have come across similar situations and have not posted their experiences. I have to say that this most recent experience has really made me question continuing to dabble in this hobby . I have not been tempted to see anyone since this and will definitely take a long break. I wish her peace while back with family and would love to see other young women NEVER to have to experience the abuse that comes along with this life. Continue to support the women and give them the respect they deserve as human beings this will reflect who you are .

 

[jalimon]

Patron to tell you the truth I probably see 80% non merb indy, 20% agency. The only time I heard about bad client/stories is at agencies. I mean some indies did told me about some disrespectful client but usually they kick them out and that's that.

Not scientific data just my observation over the last 5 years.

 

[IanMoone8]

This is awful to read. I believe MTL police would take a case like this seriously. It doesn’t matter that she’s an escort. People eat animals but it’s still against the law to abuse them. She shouldn’t be afraid to seek medical & legal advice.