Luna. You misread me. And I apologize for not being clearer
I meant a regular date
Not an SP date
Yes. They are two very very different things
Also. You are not being paid for nothing. We pay for your time and companionship and anything else that happens is between 2 consenting adults.
But. It is much less work to be paid to go out. Eat. Talk. Then it is to suck a dick and fuck someone.
Both a social date and a fuck date can be pleasant with the right person.
But the social date is probably easier than a fuckfest with someone who you do not like. I can only assume.
Which makes it EASIER money. Which is what I said
Okay now I understand that you assumed he was talking about a civ date. And thank you for recognizing my work.
But I just want to say that I also disagree that it's necessarily less work.. For a lot of SP, it's more difficult to spend a lot of time with someone than to have sex for an hour and then move on to something else.
Remember, you have to come up with conversations, you have to keep a smile on and be entertaining, you have to be diplomatic if the client says something you don't like or offensive etc. I am an escort I am not just casually hanging out with someone on a social date, I have to orient the conversation and avoid certain topics, I can't show if I'm not in a good mood, I have to carry myself a certain way and dress a certain way, I can't show every aspect of my personality and I have to stay faithful to my escort persona (yes I am myself as an escort, but I can't be 100% myself). Sometimes during social time we have to listen to someone who's not happy or who is incompatible with you and has 0 in common with you, maybe deal with socially inept behavior, and we have to stay bubbly and fun.
It's not just the sex part of being an escort that is work. Alright, here's an example : once I had a dinner date with someone who talked to me about his childhood trauma about his sister killing herself when she was 11, the whole time. How is this easier than if I had just had sucked his dick?? Also even during ''normal bookings'' most clients who book me aren't trying to fuck the whole time. There's usually a moment when we are talking. I also once had a client I didn't have to fuck and I didn't have to suck his dick. He wanted me to jerk him off for 2 hours and during the breaks he was talking about his teenage son who had recently overdosed and passed away in his basement. That was one of the hardest bookings I've ever had.
There are reasons why people book escorts that aren't just pure sex. This is the reality of it. A lot of SP have told me that they actually don't want to do long bookings, dinner dates and social time because it's too mentally and emotionally exhausting for them.. They prefer shorter incall bookings. I feel the same way about overnights and multiple day bookings, they are lucrative but they are too much for me to handle most of the time, even if little to no sex happens.
@LeDodo is a cute and charming and funny client (I'm doing free screening for him lol) but not everyone who books longer dates is like that. That's all I had to say.
