Seeking Advice: Experiment or Stick to Familiarity?

[De@con]

Greetings,
I'm new to this hobby and have had two experiences so far: one with an independent and another with an agency. I can afford to indulge about 1-2 times a month. My dilemma is whether to explore and try a new SP each time or to revisit the two SPs who have met about 70% of my expectations. My hope is that with repeated visits, our rapport will strengthen and the experiences will improve.
To the more experienced members, what would you recommend? I'm keen on understanding the reasoning behind your suggestions. I initially considered a poll, but I value the insights behind your choices.
Thank you in advance!

 

[De@con]

In the end, only you have the answer to that...

Both answers are good

If you want to avoid disapointments, stick to reviewed sp's

If however you feel like gambling, you can always browse on leolist and take one for the team, but the chances of being disapointed are high...

I think my question did not come across correctly. I am not gonna experiment with LL without proper review. I give high value for reviews and dont want to take risk at the moment. My question is should i continue repeating the sp i met before or go with new well reviewd sp and try different each time?

 

[IamNY]

I always try to find new girls and experiences. If I wanted the same girl over and over again I would just get a girlfriend. But that's me, we are all built differently. And I'm certainly guilty of repeating with a girl if we connect physically. Most of the time, at least for myself, the second time is never as good as I remembered the first time being.

 

[puss1985]

For my self I see it this way. Until I find anyone who I want really to repeat with after a month or more then I will stick to her. Experimenting is good but I’m taking into account the fact that there is always someone better (bigger tits, better body, younger… you name it) and there is no way I’m able to try them all

 

[De@con]

Yes, if you repeat, it strengthens the rapport, sometimes you might get attached too since you're in a comfort zone, keep in mind it is for fun only...

This is something i worry too, since i never had any romantic relationship before , i am completely touch and affection starved( I am 25 years old) . I guess i will go with experimenting with well reviewed ones and once i get more grip of the situation , i will start repeating.

 

[De@con]

For my self I see it this way. Until I find anyone who I want really to repeat with after a month or more then I will stick to her. Experimenting is good but I’m taking into account the fact that there is always someone better (bigger tits, better body, younger… you name it) and there is no way I’m able to try them all

My requirements at this point are pretty vanilla. either ass or tits need to be good and proper dfk or bbbj will make me happy.

 

[Gazoo64]

I prefer to repeat with my ATF and a few other ladies that I have good chemistry with. Over the past couple of years, I saw a few different ladies. But there’s 3-4 ladies that I had good chemistry with and I sensed a good vibe. So I repeat because I know what I’m getting and the service improves as we’re more familiar with each other.
As well, recently I have not had much luck with TOFTT, so I didn’t have any new encounters lately.

But others will say that they prefer to see different ladies each time because the prefer the variety and they like the unknown of seeing a new lady for the first time.
There’s no right or wrong, it depends what you prefer.

 

[xooxxo]

You could do both, just switch between repeating and seeing someone new every other time you book

 

[The Mac]

Greetings,
I'm new to this hobby and have had two experiences so far: one with an independent and another with an agency. I can afford to indulge about 1-2 times a month. My dilemma is whether to explore and try a new SP each time or to revisit the two SPs who have met about 70% of my expectations. My hope is that with repeated visits, our rapport will strengthen and the experiences will improve.
To the more experienced members, what would you recommend? I'm keen on understanding the reasoning behind your suggestions. I initially considered a poll, but I value the insights behind your choices.
Thank you in advance!

I was in the same situation when I first started, what I did was experiment with various ladies and only repeat with the ones I really enjoyed. After a while I had a roster of 3-4 girls I would repeat with and I would try a new girl if her services matched what I wanted. I never was a big agency guy montreal downtown was too far away and I prefer indies so I had a lot of disappointment with LL and other sites but also found some gems so all in all repeat with the ones you like and try new girls would be my advice. Good luck out there friend !

 

[De@con]

I was in the same situation when I first started, what I did was experiment with various ladies and only repeat with the ones I really enjoyed. After a while I had a roster of 3-4 girls I would repeat with and I would try a new girl if her services matched what I wanted. I never was a big agency guy montreal downtown was too far away and I prefer indies so I had a lot of disappointment with LL and other sites but also found some gems so all in all repeat with the ones you like and try new girls would be my advice. Good luck out there friend !

Thanks man, i thought agencies are best bet. did you find experience with indy better? I try to find one and suddenly see their prices atleast 50 percent higher. not complaining about the price, it is upto them, but is it really worth it?

 

[The Mac]

Thanks man, i thought agencies are best bet. did you find experience with indy better? I try to find one and suddenly see their prices atleast 50 percent higher. not complaining about the price, it is upto them, but is it really worth it?

Pre covid indies were the best deal if you could find one you liked I could get 30min for 80 to 120 and 1h for 120 to 160$. Now I think merb agencies are the best bet. I prefer to deal with the lady and not a middle man almost everytime I went with a girl who had a booker I was lied to about what was available and had to either leave or stay and get subpar service.

 

[De@con]

Pre covid indies were the best deal if you could find one you liked I could get 30min for 80 to 120 and 1h for 120 to 160$. Now I think merb agencies are the best bet. I prefer to deal with the lady and not a middle man almost everytime I went with a girl who had a booker I was lied to about what was available and had to either leave or stay and get subpar service.

I guess i am 4 years late to the party lol.

 

[neverbored]

Why not both? Repeat with one, and try new 1-2 times. But in the end, really depends what your kick is.

Personally, the variety is what I enjoy. When I was younger I couldn't stand the idea of repeating within the same month. The "discovery" process was part of the rush for me. Today with how things are with the ads etc... I consider myself lucky finding a girl I truly enjoy my time with.

Edit: but 100%, if you're vibing well with a girl, that needs to account for something. I would just say, make sure you can tell the difference between true vibe and paid vibe.

"The grass isn't always greener...", sometimes it really is.

 

[Obvio-0bvio]

From my perspective, every member has their own unique pursuit when it comes to repeating or seeking out new perspectives on service providers. As for me, I find great joy in venturing into uncharted territory and discovering exceptional service providers that I can share my experiences with on this platform. I eagerly anticipate the opportunity to relay a positive encounter through the merb platform. Merb proves to be an invaluable resource in uncovering these top-notch service providers and expertly guiding you to your desired match. Nevertheless, repeating with certain service providers can be quite enjoyable, as it allows you to bypass the introductory phase and dive straight into the main course without having to reiterate your preferences and the service provider's restrictions. This creates a sense of ease and adds to the fun of repetition. However, it is important to acknowledge that each member draws their own conclusions when it comes to repeating or trying new service providers. If I were in your shoes, a newcomer to the industry, I would wholeheartedly encourage you to venture out and try new service providers. Enjoy the journey, my friend.

 

[De@con]

From my perspective, every member has their own unique pursuit when it comes to repeating or seeking out new perspectives on service providers. As for me, I find great joy in venturing into uncharted territory and discovering exceptional service providers that I can share my experiences with on this platform. I eagerly anticipate the opportunity to relay a positive encounter through the merb platform. Merb proves to be an invaluable resource in uncovering these top-notch service providers and expertly guiding you to your desired match. Nevertheless, repeating with certain service providers can be quite enjoyable, as it allows you to bypass the introductory phase and dive straight into the main course without having to reiterate your preferences and the service provider's restrictions. This creates a sense of ease and adds to the fun of repetition. However, it is important to acknowledge that each member draws their own conclusions when it comes to repeating or trying new service providers. If I were in your shoes, a newcomer to the industry, I would wholeheartedly encourage you to venture out and try new service providers. Enjoy the journey, my friend.

Thanks man!

 

[donbusch]

This is something i worry too, since i never had any romantic relationship before , i am completely touch and affection starved( I am 25 years old) . I guess i will go with experimenting with well reviewed ones and once i get more grip of the situation , i will start repeating.

Seeing as you are affection starved - DO NOT REPEAT with any escort, u’ll send up falling in love with the escort because us guys r wired poorly that way and it mostly likely won’t end well. Agencies are much better deals given your limited funds.

Enjoy the paid sex but try to find anyone and I mean, anyone to have a non-paid relationship with. Of course, after fucking the best of Euphoria & Vog, most available girls will seem plain and even slightly repulsive but don’t be picky, after all personality counts too right? Free sex is a whole different experience and will compensate for any shortcomings with yr new girlfriend’s looks.

 

[Flyingby]

See this thread
Thread 'Is it better with your atf or with a new girl'
https://merb.cc/xenforo/threads/is-it-better-with-your-atf-or-with-a-new-girl.200922/

 

[Thor Jr]

I agree with lots that has been written in this thread, since you are just starting out, you may need to play the field for awhile till you get into a groove. Your ATF may not be within your first 4 or 5 experiences or will it? If you meet one that fires you up, see her again to see if the fire is still burning, but i suggest you see someone else in between just to get some kind of comparison. And try to not always let your hole filler do the choosing, ATFs deserve a place in your heart, and also some the ones you encounter on your way to meeting an ATF. (Wow, hallmark moment)
As for me, I do have ATFs, but not as many as i thought i had. I get bored very easily and always move on, hence why this is one of "many many many reasons" why i have stayed single. With so many choices out there, how can we limit ourselves to just a few chosen ones.

Just saying...Live, love and enjoy till the end.

 

[De@con]

Your ATF may not be within your first 4 or 5 experiences or will it?

Yes, makes sense. I will go new every time for next 5-6 sessions and see how it is working for me.

 

[gaby]

Well i used to see 2 sps/month......most of the time une que je connaissais et qui me plaisait...et une nouvelle que je voulais découvrir.....c'est une agréable façon d'élargir ton harem....et te combler au fil du temps....lollll....mieux vaut en avoir en réserve car il y a
beaucoup de mobilité dans cet univers....my 2 cents.