Self-esteem, and The Game

[Regular Guy]

Sigh!

pfffuuaaa....

Yeah that dude, he just loved pushing people's buttons and trying to seek further into what people would say, twisting it, even though, that's not what they were saying. Someone should have thought of creating a drawing board so we could draw him a nice picture. Thank God he's retired.

Yeah, have to admit it was at times a challenge trying to get him out of his penchant for shallow thinking. Personally I think he was making great progress. I took it pretty hard when he retired. Best pupil I ever had. (Had enough? Ready to come out now? )

 

[Lilly Lombard]

Oh my god! Here's Pot calling Kettle black once again.

What can I say, I never admited it but Ziggy was my hero! There's only luv... Ziggy, il s'appelle Ziggy, je suis folle de lui...

(I got complimented on my French writing and compared to HIM! YEAAAHH!!!)

 

[Lilly Lombard]

What Game? Two escorts just advised me there's no such thing as a ''Game'', that it's all for real (I almost miss She-Who-Must-Not-Be-Named )

You call those 2 escorts bigots and it's you who only understands what you want.

From what I remember, we never said that... why does everything have to be black or white?

OR is it all just a game you are playing.

 

[Lilly Lombard]

Repeat.......

https://merb.cc/vbulletin/showpost.php?p=386254&postcount=40

 

[Lilly Lombard]

Flattered ... by the attention you are giving to my posts... IN REAL TIME. Thank you.

It's a helluvalotof LUV!



Trèves de conneries... j'abandonne!

 

[metoo4]

J'en manque des bouts moi!

 

[jackd1959]

J`en manque des bouts moi!

It has to do with this thread:


https://merb.cc/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=43503

IMHO I find that some on hear (MERB) feel that because they ONLY enjoy sex with Escorts they think those who prefer a more intimate encounter are being played by SPs who offer GFE services at higher prices...(the game). I think some of it may be honest regarding how THEY feel about it, which is fine, as they have the right to their opinion. I think some of it is petty jealousy because they can`t afford the higher prices or just don`t want to pay them, so they have to tear others down to make themselves feel better.

For me personally, I haven`t found any of the ladies I`ve been with "playing" me. Having the companionship of an escort for an extended date (overnight and weekends) is much less complicated than carrying on an affair.... I can afford what it costs me...and enjoy their company...I haven`t any misgivings about what it means.

To each his or her own

 

[oralover]

Thank you for the opinions related here in my life sp`s have played a major role in keeping me sane and happy.There have been many bad experiences but there were magical ones also I tend to remember only those At 61 today I have been a hobbiest for close to 40yrs married twice (happily) I always felt the need for more than one women at a time this led me to meeting probably hundreds of sp's some are still friends today after 40yrs...although not working any longer...The one thing I would suggest fellow hobbiests is to always treat the ladies as you would like to be treated...They have the same responsiblites as we all do and it is not because we give them a few bucks that they become slaves....The years pass very quickly so live it up love it up and try not to hurt anyone along the way





we are here not for a long time but a good time

 

[Special K]

The one thing I would suggest fellow hobbiests is to always treat the ladies as you would like to be treated...They have the same responsiblites as we all do and it is not because we give them a few bucks that they become slaves....The years pass very quickly so live it up love it up and try not to hurt anyone along the way
we are here not for a long time but a good time

You hit the nail on the head with this statement oralover, I just wish more people would abide by it.

SK

 

[metoo4]

+1 OraLover!

 

[jackd1959]

Although cases of abuse exist, that wasn't my point at all.

In a nutshell, the point I expressed had to do with one's sense of limit of the GFE service in regards to his abilities and motivation to deal with real relationships. The point was clarified further earlier tonight.

Maybe but that has nothing to do with the discussion that you have referred to. As far as I'm concerned, the money aspect has zero impact on my decision at one point not too indulge too deeply in the GFE lifestyle. Whether 'she' charges $180, $250 or $500 is not really what I'm concerned about.

p.s.

I made no judgement on what you said in the post for which I supplied a link...I simply pointed out that what was said in that link is what was "missing" regarding the comments from Lilly and Divina in this post.

To me you seem quite defensive...so maybe what I said "in general" refering simply "to some on MERB" hit a little too close to home for your taste and you see your reflection in the mirror.


Unlike Lilly and Divina...I won't waste any additional time arguing a point with you.