Self-esteem, and The Game

[gamelessdork]

Did you say "gorgeous"? Spare yourself the anxiety, I'll fill in for you!

I doubt she would agree. she's the type of woman that doesn't even want a guy talking to her unless he's been introduced to her by a relative of hers. I'm friends with a relative of hers, he introduced us.. She's kinda flaky too. I thought I blew my chances months ago, but apparently she's interested again, I'm dreading the date, but oh well.

 

[z/m(Ret)]

I doubt she would agree. she's the type of woman that doesn't even want a guy talking to her unless he's been introduced to her by a relative of hers. I'm friends with a relative of hers, he introduced us.. She's kinda flaky too. I thought I blew my chances months ago, but apparently she's interested again, I'm dreading the date, but oh well.

Let me guess, she's either Southern Italian living with her folks in the basement of a duplex in St-Leonard or Lebanese (living with, etc...)

 

[General Gonad]

and I get such bad anxiety that I cannot really go on dates, I'm totally done with pursuing any kind of relationship, so if I saw an SP, it's not because I don't want to deal with going on dates, or getting screwed over, rather than being a gamelessdork, so I wouldn't feel bad at all if I saw an Sp.

Take it from me, seeing SPs is no substitute for a real relationship. Not even close. But I think a lot of guys here fool themselves into thinking it is or that it's even better. It really is like a drug addiction where you need your next 'fix'. Drugs might make you think you are self-confident until you come crashing down.

GG

P.S. I so want to get laid tonight but I am trying to resist temptation.

 

[gamelessdork]

Women like men who are confident and they are repulsed by men who are sexually needy. That's why when you need to get laid the most, women don't want to be with you. And that's where escort services play an important role in society. They help men who need to get laid, get laid. And these men are far better for it.

Copied from: http://sex.perkel.com/escort/index.htm

Ronnie,
Naughtylady

Actually I'm not too sure about that. The opposite can be just as bad. I am the opposite of sexually needy. I have almost no sex drive. I never go out intending on getting laid. In fact, when I have had girlfriends, I would rarely if ever initiate sex because honestly, I didn't want to have sex. I figure they realized they had very little power over me because of this, and realized that I didn't need them, and hence they couldn't get me to do things for them, buy them things, etc. It's not like I was cheap. I would get her gifts, buy her flowers, and she kept on saying she wasn't materialistic, but maybe she was? Maybe she was used to having guys go out and buying jewlery for her or something? Even one of my poorest friends goes and spends virtually every penny he has on his gf, even thought his guy is really suave, good looking, and can pick up women very easily.. Because he's addicted to sex she realizes she can get things, whereas my exes realized that they couldn't with me.

But there must be something to seeing escorts. Several years ago I had seen an escort in Montreal, and afterwards I went to a bar, and started talking to some girl, and when she left she started kissing me. Nothing like that has ever happened. I wasn't very attracted to her, hence why I didn't pursue her or anything, but something like that has never happened to me before, and it happened right after I had seen an escort.

 

[z/m(Ret)]

I so want to get laid tonight but I am trying to resist temptation.

Are you kidding me? You have one life to live. If you can afford it and are free to do it, don't hesitate one second...

The Devil

 

[gamelessdork]

Take it from me, seeing SPs is no substitute for a real relationship. Not even close. But I think a lot of guys here fool themselves into thinking it is or that it's even better. It really is like a drug addiction where you need your next 'fix'. Drugs might make you think you are self-confident until you come crashing down.

GG

P.S. I so want to get laid tonight but I am trying to resist temptation.

I've done the relationship thing. It really sucks, and I love my privacy. I think I would go nuts living with someone. I cannot imagine how I could go #2 with a woman around. It was hell having my gf over.

I must have no sex drive. I don't even think I've ever been horny in my entire life. I only have seen SPs because at the time I didn't know if I was ever going to have sex again. I'm not particular in the mood when I would call up Devilish or whatever. I've gone to Montreal and Germany before intending on seeing SPs and wound up not doing it, despite spending all that money to get there. No way in hell I would even consider doing that in the US.

 

[General Gonad]

Are you kidding me? You have one life to live. If you can afford it and are free to do it, don't hesitate one second...

Holy shit, that is exactly what my little brain is telling me! Must resist, must resist, must resist....oh the hell with it, Chateau Chablis here I cum!!!!

GG

 

[gamelessdork]

Holy shit, that is exactly what my little brain is telling me! Must resist, must resist, must resist....oh the hell with it, Chateau Chablis here I cum!!!!

GG

Wow, I wish I lived in Montreal at times, like when it's not freezing and snowy out.. God, why couldn't I have been born european?

 

[General Gonad]

I must have no sex drive. I don't even think I've ever been horny in my entire life. I only have seen SPs because at the time I didn't know if I was ever going to have sex again. I'm not particular in the mood when I would call up Devilish or whatever. I've gone to Montreal and Germany before intending on seeing SPs and wound up not doing it, despite spending all that money to get there. No way in hell I would even consider doing that in the US.

You need some hormone therapy. They will extract it from my body and infuse it in yours.

GG

P.S. It's called asexual and 5% of the population is asexual. Hell, many SPs are asexual.

 

[gamelessdork]

You need some hormone therapy. They will extract it from my body and infuse it in yours.

GG

P.S. It's called asexual and 5% of the population is asexual. Hell, many SPs are asexual.

not really asexual. I just have no motivation or drive. Women look really good, but I think I'd rather just spank it. I had to learn to live not getting laid until my mid 20s. I think you just have to shut it off to survive.

PS: I think I have madonna-whore complex, presuming I understand that correctly. I really felt like shit having the rough sex my ex wanted, well, i wouldn't want that with an SP either.

 

[General Gonad]

not really asexual. I just have no motivation or drive. Women look really good, but I think I'd rather just spank it. I had to learn to live not getting laid until my mid 20s. I think you just have to shut it off to survive.

Spanking it is cheaper and recession proof. But sometimes you need the sound effects of hearing that ass getting pounded as you thrust them in the doggy position.

Must resist, must resist, must resist...why do I still live here?

GG

 

[gamelessdork]

Spanking it is cheaper and recession proof. But sometimes you need the sound effects of hearing that ass getting pounded as you thrust them in the doggy position.

Must resist, must resist, must resist...why do I still live here?

GG

Thing is, my hand has never failed me, whereas women sometimes do... Though a BJ surely is far superior. My girlfriends had used those only as weapons. If you are good, you get one, otherwise you don't Then again, I had this discussion with my ex before, I I was going off on how easy women can have it in life and complain, and she agree, she then said, "at least you don't get a mouth full of cum" and I agreed that's probably not the best.

 

[General Gonad]

Thing is, my hand has never failed me, whereas women sometimes do...

The hand always achieves TC!!!!

My girlfriends had used those only as weapons. If you are good, you get one, otherwise you don't

All women use sex as a weapon. Get use to it...it's part of their genetic makeup.

Then again, I had this discussion with my ex before, I I was going off on how easy women can have it in life and complain, and she agree, she then said, "at least you don't get a mouth full of cum" and I agreed that's probably not the best.

Did she swallow too? If so, I understand why you are down in the dumps.

GG

 

[gamelessdork]

The hand always achieves TC!!!!



All women use sex as a weapon. Get use to it...it's part of their genetic makeup.



Did she swallow too? If so, I understand why you are down in the dumps.

GG

I've never really cared what the hell they do with it, but she did. Kinda difficult to look at your gf's mom in the eye the morning after the gf was on the kitchen floor giving me a BJ. I think she must have watched porn or something. She performing crazy shit in those genres that I've never liked, errr. what is that cmpany, like Diabolic or something like that..

 

[General Gonad]

She performing crazy shit in those genres that I've never liked, errr. what is that cmpany, like Diabolic or something like that..

Do you mind hooking me up with her? I got some self-esteem issues.

GG

 

[gamelessdork]

Do you mind hooking me up with her? I got some self-esteem issues.

GG

She's a very dishonest person. I pity any man that gets involved with her in any way.

 

[z/m(Ret)]

She's a very dishonest person. I pity any man that gets involved with her in any way.

Oh that's all right, I'm used to the kind.

 

[Ichi]

Wow. I joined MERB just recently now. I have to say, this thread is, by far, the most interesting I have read until now. I find it to be very insightful, even if the last post was 9 months ago. Many thanks to YouVantOption who started it.

Change for me is not easy

Self-Esteem and The Game.
I know about these.
Everything is possible.

 

[Regular Guy]

Amazing to say the least!

Wow. I joined MERB just recently now. I have to say, this thread is, by far, the most interesting I have read until now. I find it to be very insightful, even if the last post was 9 months ago. Many thanks to YouVantOption who started it.



Self-Esteem and The Game.
I know about these.
Everything is possible.

Well I must say that this is impressive. I assume that to find this thread you have gone through every thread posted for the last year? How much time would a project like that take? Kind of boggles the mind. Definitely have to give you an "A" for enthusiasm. Don't know if I would have that kind of patience.

 

[Lilly Lombard]

Would have been amazing had this ZM dude not stuck his goddam nose in the discussion.

pfffuuaaa....

Yeah that dude, he just loved pushing people's buttons and trying to seek further into what people would say, twisting it, even though, that's not what they were saying. Someone should have thought of creating a drawing board so we could draw him a nice picture. Thank God he's retired.