Single moms work as sp to support their kids

[forever newbi]

So I have been in. This hobby for some time now. It’s shock to seem how many SPs are single mothers

The hint is that they are really good at what they do and they work a lot. Every one of them turn out to have a kid and, of course, the father is no where around.

So where is the baby daddies???

I don’t know why I bring this up but I just feel bad for these ladies

 

[PSEfreak]

I prefer to look at it as the daddies cant satisfy their lady and the SP's look to get it elsewhere and get paid for it.

Just my point of view .......

 

[Fradi]

I very much doubt that all these ladies are turning to escorting because they can’t get enough sex from the father of their children.

More likely that he is nowhere to be found a total asshole and now these ladies have to make the best out of a bad situation, both mother and children need to eat and survive, and escorting maybe the best solution.
I hope they all end up with a ton of money and are able to provide a great life for themselves and their children, they are all very brave women.

 

[jalimon]

Agree with you Fradi.

It always amazed me that you need to pass a written and technical exam to drive a car but any morons can father a kid...

 

[kkrack]

I remember visiting a girl on pie-9. When I arrived I decided just to talk and not do anything because I didn't find her attractive. When the half hour ended someone knocked at the door, she told me not to worry it was her son. WTF?!?!

 

[forever newbi]

A while back I was wanting to see these sp, but she had to stop. Saw her best friend, turn out the baby daddy threaten to cut her off if she continues, meantime the dude was never on time for child support...

 

[hungry101]

You nailed it Fradi.

In case there are any girls or any parents of girls that are at an age where their children are sexually active - get on the pill and use condoms. Try to avoid bringing a kid into this world before you are more prepared but if you do than make the best of it like Fradi said. One thing Fradi - it just could be that the boys that impregnate them just don't have a clue because they were less prepared than the ladies. Wear two condoms because you are legally obligated to take care of this child.

 

[DrJ_TheGhost]

As much as it sucks for the lady to raise the kid by herself, and I know sometimes they do not know the man is a deadbeat father, some I do not feel bad for. I feel sad for the ladies that had a good man and he changed when the kid came along, and they could not tell he is a deadbeat father. I do not feel bad for the people that know and have all the signs that he is not father material and is already a deadbeat boyfriend, but they think he will be better with the kid and that the kid will reinforce their relationship. I know women that decided to have a kid with a jobless drunk who does hard drugs. Turns out, the father bailed and does not pay any child support (surprise, surprise).

 

[rollingstone]

Every SP I got to know well usually started sexual activity at 14-16. The ones that did not have children recall their mother or doctor being pretty good with making sure they were on the pill. Its not a long term solution but it works when the guy will not wear a condom and the girl is too young to have the confidence to deal with that.

 

[Fradi]

Hungry,

You are 100% correct.
Any idiot can impregnate a woman especially if they are both negligent and irresponsible, or just plain stupid.

Unfortunately it takes a man to own up to it and take responsibility and be a parent.
Every child deserves the love and care of both parents, and being one should be a lifetime job.

These young women that take on this responsibility all by themselves and turn to escorting to survive are some of the bravest.
I have nothing but the highest regard for them, and hope that they meet the best of clients, who hopefully will treat them with kindness and respect.

 

[Sol Tee Nutz]

About 5 years ago a called an escort in Drummondville, drove to the address and it was the house of one of my sons friends ( before he had a license and dropped him off there many times ). I did not enter, called her and said I had car trouble. Many single mothers turn to escorting for extra cash I am guessing.

 

[vavavoum!]

...and now these ladies have to make the best out of a bad situation, both mother and children need to eat and survive, and escorting maybe the best solution.
I hope they all end up with a ton of money and are able to provide a great life for themselves and their children, they are all very brave women.

+1

...These young women that take on this responsibility all by themselves and turn to escorting to survive are some of the bravest.
I have nothing but the highest regard for them, and hope that they meet the best of clients, who hopefully will treat them with kindness and respect.

+1

 

[No_Church_InThe_Wild]

^^^^
Children ideally need a Father and a Mother, that much we know. But a lot of young men are selfish , immature and end up abandoning the girls after getting them pregnant as they don’t see it as their duty . Then you have the ones that stick around but are unfit . In the end what matters is the children to have a loving environment. As long as there are people that give love and support, be it a grandmother, an uncle or any other close family members etc. then all is good

But for those single Moms without any support life can be very tough out there . Working as SP’s gives these ladies the financial means to better take care of their children. Many did not seek out to be single moms but their making the best of it . Some are excellent mothers doing a job meant for two , so like vavavoum! and Fradi I also have much respect for them and hope they do well +1

 

[2fast2slow]

my favourite sp is exactely as described in the opening post. she works hard and is really good at what she does (a little too good). But in her case she is a widow. She has 2 young kids. Sometimes i feel bad for her, but then i think how she is actually probably a lot stronger of a person than me

 

[Howards Johnson]

Agree with you Fradi.

It always amazed me that you need to pass a written and technical exam to drive a car but any morons can father a kid...

I have met two 18-19 year old fathers that had a kid or two. They believe having kids make them a man, better than the next guy that does not have children. After a few years of low end jobs and any money they can make doing dirty deeds they usually flee the scene and leave the kids with the young mothers. This scenario seem to play out often with young lower class Quebecois guys that knock up their GFs.

 

[katsrin]

So I have been in. This hobby for some time now. It’s shock to seem how many SPs are single mothers

The hint is that they are really good at what they do and they work a lot. Every one of them turn out to have a kid and, of course, the father is no where around.

So where is the baby daddies???

I have no idea what the proportion is, but there is no doubt some of the missing baby daddies are clients who are unaware that they fathered a child. There are many articles online about escorts who found themselves in this situation.

 

[Fradi]

I have no idea what the proportion is, but there is no doubt some of the missing baby daddies are clients who are unaware that they fathered a child. There are many articles online about escorts who found themselves in this situation.

I would think this is highly unlikely, I haven’t met an escort yet that offers unprotected sex, and I wouldn’t want to.
Perhaps there are some drug addicts who will do anything for a fix, but I can’t see this happening too often if at all with the escorts that most of us visit.
Most would be from deadbeat boyfriends who don’t want the responsibility or the financial burden of raising a child.

 

[vavavoum!]

...but then i think how she is actually probably a lot STRONGER of a person than me

+1 (I agree...I agree in that I think single mothers who work as sps are very strong).

 

[ShyMan]

I concur with all positive comments in this thread. These ladies are some of the strongest, smartest and caring people I've had the fortune of meeting. I'm glad escorting has enabled these single moms to earn a decent living while raising their kids as the only bread-winner. And these ladies have enriched the lives of their clients immensely.

Here's another sensible voice from a lady who helps exploited children:

https://www.cbc.ca/news/canada/mont...urvivors-expand-indigenous-outreach-1.5392992

[FONT=&amp]"What about women who are not ready to get out of [the sex trade]?" said Jessica Quijano, the co-ordinator of the Iskweu project, which works to reduce and eradicate the number of missing and murdered Indigenous women and girls of Quebec. [/FONT]
[FONT=&amp]"My issues with these programs is that it's always about getting out of it and having these success stories." [/FONT]
[FONT=&amp]"It creates a lot of stigma and taboo for women who are not ready necessarily to get out of the industry," she said. "We should be supportive of those women, regardless of whether they're doing sex work or not."

Society and government programs should help improve the working conditions and safety of sex workers and help enhance their self esteems. I've had the fortune of meeting escorts who happen to be single mothers, and they were some of the most wonderful people I've ever met in my life. Oh, we had lots of fun too. [/FONT]

 

[J.A. Prufrock]

Agree with the general sentiments here.
I got into the game three years ago, right about the time my life had hit rock bottom following a long-time marriage that dissolved. I truly believe it has saved my life. I'm more motivated and productive at work because I look forward to semi-regular sessions with MPAs in GTA and annual mongering trips abroad. I'm exercising more than ever, have lost much weight, in great shape and take more pride in my appearance than ever before because, being in my mid-50s, I want to be as desirable as possible to these women. I have no desire to date or enter into another relationship.
I will forever be grateful to the ladies that provide this service for guys like me. That is why I treat them with the utmost respect and wish them well. They have a limited window in this profession and I hope they earn a lot of money and are smart with it.