It's not because people didn't talk about it that it didn't exist.
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I was not born in the 2000. My comment stands. It stands for everything in life, as time moves forward, it’s normal to become more aware of things we once ignored or didn’t notice in previous eras.
You can agree with the ideas of Buddhism in theory, staying detached from strangers’ comments (credit to you for that), but putting it into practice isn’t always easy and everyone has their own journey with that. Telling people how to think won’t get you far.
It doesn't matter to when you are refering to.
Yes people go threw struggles and termoil. But you are gatekeeping. And telling people who are struggling to shut up and smile because someone else is struggling too, doesn't negate the personal struggle they are going threw themselves.
It is beyond just choosing to be happy or not. For many it becomes a complete chemical imbalance in the brain that causes the emotions to be where they are rather than thinking of it as a situational life thing, for most it is a chemical thing in the brain that you can't just will away.
Good for you you got over it. But it also seems you have the most toxic view as to how, and your expieriences seem to have robbed you of any ability to have empathy for others. Seems to me you aren't over it. You just shut it away to use it as a weapon to attack others. (Lack of empathy is just as much a result of what you say you went threw as someone struggling to come to terms with it.)
I would like to add that, ideally, nobody should be able to hurt us. Indeed, our reaction is our own decision, so if a friend is mad at us and throwing plates at us and insulting us, we should remain calm, say we love them and that we forgive them and that we'll be there if they need us always.
This is an ultimate goal. Will everyone of us reach it in our lifetime? Most likely not, but we can work on it. Wisdom is the capacity to let people do their own journey, and be there if they need us.
I am surviving successfully the past 15 years here. Everyday I am fighting with people surrounded with comfort. What I am doing here is equal tomorrow you to take one bag and to go settle your new life in Iran. Do you think that you can handle so much pressure?
I never wrote to people to shut up. The only thing that I wrote was to be careful what and who you can allow to hurt you. Your life your decisions so you can continue to take this personally. Right now reading all these comments I could say that most of you just need validation.
I am saying this with all my respect. It seems that you can not understand my point of view, so I will keep silent.
I never wrote to people to shut up. The only thing that I wrote was to be careful what and who you can allow to hurt you. Your life your decisions so you can continue to take this personally. Right now reading all these comments I could say that most of you just need validation.
I am saying this with all my respect. It seems that you can not understand my point of view, so I will keep silent.
I promise I am doing this for the last time.
He is absolutely nobody. He has zero control over your happiness and emotions. He is just one frustrated lonely man.
He is absolutely nobody. He has zero control over your happiness and emotions. He is just one frustrated lonely man.
He obviously doesn't understand what already booked, and busy is.
Sometimes just giving them a moment to show their true colors is all it takes to avoid a potential problem.
100% agree with you. In french we say the garbage take itself out …He obviously doesn't understand what already booked, and busy is.
Sometimes just giving them a moment to show their true colors is all it takes to avoid a potential problem.
No one here has any idea what any of us went through. This contest of who went through the most pain and trauma in order to determine what's okay to feel hurt by or not is really pointless. Trying to convince sex workers online that the various forms of violence they go through is no big deal might be a trauma response. I hope you heal from the pain you're trying to repress and stop having to deal with horrible life experiences such as girls on leolist not offering real GFE service.
I read this story yesterday, from the sports world:
Source: Fan who taunted Marte banned by MLB
A 22-year-old fan has been banned indefinitely from all MLB ballparks after yelling something about Arizona Diamondbacks second baseman Ketel Marte's late mother during Tuesday night's game against the Chicago White Sox, according to a source.
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You can always repress negative emotions and act like you're superior for being so tough.. the thing is at some point all of this will come out one way or another.
The refusal to accept that escorts have bad experiences is really weird in my opinion. Just be a good client that's all we're asking of you. We're not trying to make anybody feel guilty.
The refusal to accept that escorts have bad experiences is really weird in my opinion. Just be a good client that's all we're asking of you.
We're not trying to make anybody feel guilty.Similar threads
