Some person amaze me ... text you will never expect

[bodick7]

that anger is really difficult for me to deal with, because i feel like it's not my fault, you know? but in those moments it's like i become the main target of that person's malice and anger (other SPs too) and i'm not sure what i did to deserve this

I really don’t understand…you are so sweet with everybody…

 

[LC18]

Whenever I receive texts messages like these I think about the man on here that I said I didn’t have to make everything “about race” all the time

 

[talkinghead]

This thread should be required reading for anyone who wants to complain about SPs' rates.

 

[LC18]

One of you…mind you

 

[MasterPat]

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Sorry this happens to you. I only interracted with you on MERB, but from what I saw, you are a smart beautiful woman. Don't let those people drag you down, their aren't worthy of your time.

 

[LC18]

Sorry this happens to you. I only interracted with you on MERB, but from what I saw, you are a smart beautiful woman. Don't let those people drag you down, their aren't worthy of your time.

I was actually on the subway when I received it and I had a hard time trying to hide my laughter. It’s so random and why did he message me just to tell me that


But also thanks for saying I’m skinny ❤️

 

[DenisZim]

Let's not juge.
A lot of lonely people outside. Everybody is fighting a battle that nobody knows nothing about.

 

[Lionelmessi]

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How does he know you have a brother?

I guess someone watches too much family affair category on porn hub

 

[LC18]

Let's not juge.
A lot of lonely people outside. Everybody is fighting a battle that nobody knows nothing about.

Yeah no, I will judge

 

[LC18]

How does he know you have a brother?

I guess someone watches too much family affair category on porn hub

What if I’m a unique child

 

[Guido Vendetta]

...? I don't understand..

We are all lonely and fighting battles that nobody knows nothing about. It's not an excuse to abuse people. This isn't about you, unless you are harassing women, saying racist things to them, pressuring them to do certain things etc.

People like this are cruel and sadistic, they are not ''lonely''. I understand that not receiving the friendship, love and tenderness we need and feeling ostracized can create feelings of anger, but taking them out on other people is unacceptable.

I totally agree. Completely unacceptable. There are many times to not pass judgement... the person asking for change at the metro station, the person walking down the street shouting nonsense, the person having a pee behind the dumpster in the alley... This is not one of those. Harassing, intimidating, threatening others is never acceptable regardless of what that person is going through. Full stop.

 

[LC18]

But hold on, I should feel bad for the man randomly insulting me on a beautiful Saturday morning? I should be empathic and say: poor dude he probably had a rough day I’ll be his punching bag ❤️

What’s next? I should give him the N word pass to make his day better?

I will judge because that’s completely ridiculous. It didn’t make me cry or hurt my feelings because unfortunately with this job I’m used to receiving spiteful messages

I’ve shared it because I think a few of you truly don’t know what it’s like to handle our phone and why so many girls retire without any warning

 

[riuseiken]

This thread definitely makes me think and get more awareness about many situations SPs have to deal with.

Recently one SP shared with me a story about a client that was refusing to take a shower as he already took one, killing completely the connection and turning off the mood in the rest of the encounter.

I think from a human perspective, we cannot expect good chemistry with a SP if we don't put at least some effort from our side to create a win-win situation.

Now I cannot imagine how anxiety, frustrations and disrespect and insults can lead to a positive outcome while texting a SP.

Remember that first impressions are important and even though we make businesses there's still a human factor involved between customer-SP.

Let's make love, not war.

 

[bodick7]

Now I cannot imagine how anxiety, frustrations and disrespect and insults can lead to a positive outcome while texting a SP.

Reminds me a US president…

 

[DenisZim]

...? I don't understand..

We are all lonely and fighting battles that nobody knows nothing about. It's not an excuse to abuse people. This isn't about you, unless you are harassing women, saying racist things to them, pressuring them to do certain things etc.

People like this are cruel and sadistic, they are not ''lonely''. I understand that not receiving the friendship, love and tenderness we need and feeling ostracized can create feelings of anger, but taking them out on other people is unacceptable.

Hello Luna,
Recently I mentioned that I am not from here. This unique life experience allows me to divide important from unimportant things. Based on what I saw in the past and what I see now, trust me here in North America nobody should complain for nothing.
It's really up to you would you allow this to abuse you. When it's absolutely clear that it's not on your level to answer such a person and to accept his behavior as an insult, you just simply allow him to abuse you. Life is too short to allow yourself to be disappointed by people who simply couldn't be anyone else.

 

[LC18]

It's really up to you would you allow this to abuse you. When it's absolutely clear that it's not on your level to answer such a person and to accept his behavior as an insult, you just simply allow him to abuse you. Life is too short to allow yourself to be disappointed by people who simply couldn't be anyone else.

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Edit: let me just put this person on ignore and carry on with my day.

Stay hydrated folks it’s gonna be hot

 

[DenisZim]

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Edit: let me just put this person on ignore and carry on with my day.

Stay hydrated folks it’s gonna be hot

Your life, your decisions. However, life's too short to invest time into should you ignore or answer him. As a man, I can tell you that the greatest punishment for a man is silence.

 

[EagerBeaver]

As a man, I can tell you that the greatest punishment for a man is silence.

100%- any response to messages like that dignify them - never feed the trolls just like you don't feed bears, otherwise they will be back for more

 

[DenisZim]

I understand where you're coming from, we are lucky in North America and privileged, but I don't think your experience is an excuse to be dismissive of people telling you they are getting harassed and degraded and insulted. Would you say the same thing if one of us was physically attacked? "Don't let him his punch in the face abuse you"


That however is the truth. That's why posting about it here doesn't get us any sympathy.

What is being shared here is the tip of the iceberg only. I was a victim of domestic violence & other things I won't mention before and it really breaks my heart to see someone tell me that if someone is verbally, physically or sexually abusive it's my choice to let it affect me or not. I'm probably going to delete my comment here but I kinda hope someone will remember to be careful. We are not spoiled princesses complaining for no reason. But honestly I don't really have any reason to believe anyone cares really.

Hello Luna,
When I was young I was sexually abused by a man for a long time. These days I have the opportunity to choose whether to live in happiness or with the burden of the past. Everything in this life is a matter of choice.

 

[LC18]

Do what’s good for you always. No one should tell you how to feel about your own life experience especially unsolicited