Brilliant! Groundbreaking! I’ve never thought of not using my real name to escort….
If you think using a fake name is going to keep you under the radar you’re really naive. They can link your ads to you whether you use your real name or not
SP asking merb to remove there reviews ?
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Brilliant! Groundbreaking! I’ve never thought of not using my real name to escort….
If you think using a fake name is going to keep you under the radar you’re really naive. They can link your ads to you whether you use your real name or not
SP's are well within their rights to request a "no review policy" for whatever reason. And as clients, you can infer whatever reason you wish, and make decisions based on those assumptions. It's pretty simple really.
That doesn’t really hold true for most ladies seeing as many have web sights, photographs, advertise on Twitter and many other social media so if they want to refuse them at the border they already have more than enough information on them the easiest being if they have face out photographs that makes their job extremely easy with facial recognition.
That being said I can understand that not all would want to be reviewed it can be very dehumanizing and even traumatic. Men can sometimes be very cruel with reviews and many times it is not the ladies fault at all.
Personally I will never write a negative review unless it is an obvious scam, bait and switch, or you are actually in danger of being robbed or hurt.
If it is a case of just not having chemistry, that can easily happen and it could be that I am doing something inadvertently that she doesn’t like.
It wouldn’t be fair to both insult her and hurt her reputation and business.
I just simply won’t see her again.
Luckily I have never had an experience with an escort that I would have needed to write a negative review.
There are also ways to get your point across without being cruel or dehumanizing in a review if you do write one be that positive or negative.
This. But also, this is a MERB problem, because people here interact with SPs on the site and SPs here as clients have input into how they are presented here. Most sites don't have this type of engagement and the SPs have no say in whether they are reviewed or not. Apart from what Jaxan said people that are going to engage on this site have to adapt to the culture of MERB and live within the rules and customs of the site as well. Within the walls of this site no one has the right to insist that the ladies support reviews of themselves, although they can choose to. Likewise no one has the right to tell the guys how they should choose to spend their hard earned dollars, and if they choose to see a no review policy as a red flag then so be it. These are all individual decisions but again everyone has to bear in mind that these are not monger rules, these are MERB rules. There should also not be any expectation that the rest of the world is going to see and agree with the customs practised here, because mostly they don't. In that sense MERB is both more respectful of the ladies and less useful to the guys at the same time. YMMV.
Actually no not the way I understand it.
This is what Merb Rules say on NRP.
“EDIT 1: It seems the change was never clearly stated here but, since quite a while, it`s been MERB policy not to grant NRP for escorts, unless there`s a direct verifiable threat to her safety or unless she permanently leave the business. This is still in effect.“
They can have all of their reviews deleted and they can no longer be reviewed if they are no longer active as an escort or they can prove that it is a threat to their safety.
Otherwise how would it make sense for them to advertise on an escort review board and then the clients not be allowed to review them this would make the whole review board redundant.
Basically why have a review board if the escorts can decide that you can’t review them.
This is my point exactly.. Some clients here and on other review boards seem to get off on writing very cruel or very detailed and graphic reviews. And I believe that's a major reason why some SP's choose a no review policy. I considered it at some point, but I changed my mind and now I want to have positive reviews. I also think constructive criticism can be interesting in any field, but it has to be done in a respectful way, and I rarely see that here. Often also clients complain in reviews that a SP didn't offer a certain service, which she never claimed to offer. I also feel like often negative reviews stem from the client acting in a disrespectful way which leads to a negative experience for both parties.
I personally think that despite of the rules of this forum, SP's should have the right to have a no review policy.
I understand you and can sympathize with you but….
It makes no sense to have a review board if the escort can decide not to be reviewed.
What purpose would it serve and who would bother to participate on such a board.
I wonder how many scam artists, SP that have horrible service even ones that are dangerous etc… would allow themselves to be reviewed
Reviews boards are the clients way to screen and keep each other safe.
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I started a thread on Merb a while back about a certain provider. It got up to about 5 pages in reviews, all were very good reviews as she provided top-notch service.
One day about 6 months ago she contacted me PM and asked me to remove the thread. I complied, no questions asked, out of respect for her and her privacy. The thread is now gone.
She has not been able to associate my handle with me in real life. Rare as most providers know who I am when I post.
One day about 6 months ago she contacted me PM and asked me to remove the thread. I complied, no questions asked, out of respect for her and her privacy. The thread is now gone.
She has not been able to associate my handle with me in real life. Rare as most providers know who I am when I post.
I would have no problem removing a thread or a review if a provider asked me to or not to even write one provided it wasn’t written because of a scam or that someone wouldn’t be in danger to see her.
I would never write a review if everything was fine and she wanted to protect her privacy. I don’t write that many reviews anyway because I see the same ladies and they have more than enough positive reviews already.
But to have a no review policy for any active escort that doesn’t want to be reviewed just makes no sense on a review board.
I know what you mean, but the escorts I know who have a no review policy are definitely real and not scam artists. One could just say yes this person is legit and not a scammer and doesn't allow reviews. We are advised not to look at reviews and review boards by people who work for organizations that help sex workers, even. Because it can be so unhealthy. Not everyone is respectful like you. Also a lot of SP's don't even know review boards exist and that they are talked about, or they don't care. I don't believe everyone is going to start asking for a no review policy if it's allowed, because reviews can really help our business. Just saying someone is legit and not a scammer, is enough if someone doesn't want to be reviewed. Also, good or bad service is subjective. It's not like buying a cell phone or a computer and everyone has the same technical issues with it.
I've asked a thread to be removed about me when I first started because I was horrified by a review written by someone who was really not well intentioned. Now I understand that not all reviews I get are going to be good, and I want to be well reviewed and offer a good service. But I also know that intentions behind reviews can be manipulative, as we've discussed in other threads before.. Or it can lead to conflicts if a client feels like they weren't treated the same way as someone else. For example if somebody is comfortable offering a certain service to a regular, and he discloses that, but this SP doesn't do it with everyone..
Obviously I'm here on this forum to advertise and show who I am and I encourage my clients to write positive reviews about me if they enjoyed their time with me. But I also worry sometimes a little bit, and I understand why some SP's don't want to be reviewed or don't want to participate in review board culture. A lot of the gentlemen I interact with here are actually really reasonable and conversations are productive, but when I look at certain sections of the forum.. I don't feel so good.
A review could be made but within the lines, no bashing nor disrespect of the SP booked. Its true that no one likes to be scammed, I made a review of the last SP I saw last month the positive she was a very beautiful women with a great body but the negative had to be said to that nothing advertised in her ad happened, but I stayed polite and did not trash the SP I said what happen at that was it. But in the end even if I was with an extremely beautiful women for that time spent I did not get the advertised service and wasted my money.
There are so many reasons why sps do not want a review thread that Lena and Luna have already touched on extensively. Not all of it has to do with bad service etc, I myself have requested merb to remove my agency review thread as I am a frequent traveler to the United States and don't work anymore except with regular clients in a sugar type basis
1. From my discussions with other escorts as mentioned some clients are graphic, very picky about body types. Imagine your recovering from an eating disorder in a healthy body weight athletic even and someone has the audacity to call you fat, if you have an eating disorder is this fair and kind? Some spinners I have know have been labeled big I mean c'mon, if your going to be that fussy just buy a realdoll.
2. Some escorts I know have even gotten bad reviews because they refused bbfs, it happens more than you think. I remember every shift I worked at least one client will ask for that service even the married ones, one gave me a bad review as I refused bbfs and I became very upset, raised my voice etc. I reported him to the agency I worked for which banned him and merb. This is not isolated but several escorts I know have been threatened with bad reviews if they don't provide this service, it happens more than you think.
2. Travelling yes, reviews can impact travelling big time, I am a permanent resident of Canada. I always get questioned extensively at the US border when I drive across.I even been pulled aside and had my phone searched, that is traumatic and imagine if your travelling with family members or friends that don't know your other work exists. If they have a hunch, that your "shady"they will try to find this information on you. I think because I worked in another field it helped, I also have a separate phone I use to contact regulars. But the border can find this information about you. If you drive or air travel there are many disclaimers that they will search you, go through your electronics if they have a hunch.
Also, this is not just isolated to escorts. If you frequently visit merb this can result in a 10 year if not more ban from the United States. Case in point I had a regular I seen at an incall when I was working. He travelled alone to the United States/Vermont border but for some reason they banned him as he has a handle on merb, he does not know how they found out this information. Mind you he did not have merb on his smartphone open but they can obtain this information. Your reviewing history can also possibly result in a ban.
3. Of course the others, bad service, not reliable etc
These are just facts I touched on from personal experiences.
1. From my discussions with other escorts as mentioned some clients are graphic, very picky about body types. Imagine your recovering from an eating disorder in a healthy body weight athletic even and someone has the audacity to call you fat, if you have an eating disorder is this fair and kind? Some spinners I have know have been labeled big I mean c'mon, if your going to be that fussy just buy a realdoll.
2. Some escorts I know have even gotten bad reviews because they refused bbfs, it happens more than you think. I remember every shift I worked at least one client will ask for that service even the married ones, one gave me a bad review as I refused bbfs and I became very upset, raised my voice etc. I reported him to the agency I worked for which banned him and merb. This is not isolated but several escorts I know have been threatened with bad reviews if they don't provide this service, it happens more than you think.
2. Travelling yes, reviews can impact travelling big time, I am a permanent resident of Canada. I always get questioned extensively at the US border when I drive across.I even been pulled aside and had my phone searched, that is traumatic and imagine if your travelling with family members or friends that don't know your other work exists. If they have a hunch, that your "shady"they will try to find this information on you. I think because I worked in another field it helped, I also have a separate phone I use to contact regulars. But the border can find this information about you. If you drive or air travel there are many disclaimers that they will search you, go through your electronics if they have a hunch.
Also, this is not just isolated to escorts. If you frequently visit merb this can result in a 10 year if not more ban from the United States. Case in point I had a regular I seen at an incall when I was working. He travelled alone to the United States/Vermont border but for some reason they banned him as he has a handle on merb, he does not know how they found out this information. Mind you he did not have merb on his smartphone open but they can obtain this information. Your reviewing history can also possibly result in a ban.
3. Of course the others, bad service, not reliable etc
These are just facts I touched on from personal experiences.
This is a good point and shows once again how people are stupid, I started training a few months back go et fit more cardio there is a women at my job early 30 who as been putting a lot of work trying to lose weight, she eats right walks and I even shared a weight training program with her, with some core training, In all her effort a moron at my job went to her and said she was fat. This is how idiot people are theses days. This point I am 110% with you.
Curious how been an escort with a website , and using a false name can be an issue, for Homeland Security if they have no criminal record ?
A lot of the SP's I have met, go south on regularly basis for some RR.
Am I missing something ?
It’s not legal there. They can deny you access if they want to. If you pass without any problem that’s pure luck.
Some people have never posted unblurred photos and they still got denied entry
It's basically playing Russian roulette. I've heard of those who simply went for vacation with their SO, got denied entry.
There are reasons why girls are saying to scrub everything before thinking of entering said country. It even comes with a how to list and that may or may not work
There are reasons why girls are saying to scrub everything before thinking of entering said country. It even comes with a how to list and that may or may not work
I am usually a optimist in life, and find it hard to believe this. Being a past frequent traveller.
Legal or not, seen SP's all over the world, including the US, and major cities, which include Las Vegas, NY, New Orleans, Los Angeles, Chicago, Boston..and more
My 2 cents , could be wrong, but hard to believe from what I know.
I don't understand what you think is hard to believe. That Canadian SWs are frequently spotted and banned from entering the US for 10 years?
He saying as a client its no way for them to know, I agree with him it just doesn’t make alot of sense.
Being a sex worker is enough for them not to want you on their territory, let alone the fact you can't work in another country without a visa. I know at least 50 providers who have been denied entry and flagged, or banned, from entering the US. It's a known fact, not a myth. Many providers have talked about it and their experience on their Twitter, it's available information. Many clients here can confirm that it happens.
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