I don’t see escorts to replace having a relationship. It’s a way for me to maintain some sort of serenity until I want a relationship or I stumble upon one.
I’ve been out of the game for a long time now (way before the internet). So meeting people in my social circles gets a bit more difficult. When I was younger going to the clubs or bars and hanging out with a bunch of single friends was a weekly thing, even Weddings were happening almost every week, so there were opportunities to meet single people. These days with the responsibilities that we have and being responsible for little ones makes it even more difficult to ‘get out there’. Doesn’t help that everyone’s married either. Online dating seems to be the only option, but how can you even judge a person by a picture and a bio. I prefer interacting with the living breathing person in front of me.
It’s great being in this lifestyle and having fun, meeting wonderful people. I’ve experienced things that if you told me just 3 years ago I’d be experiencing I would tell you to lay off the crack.
It’s all fantastic but it’s not enough, at least not for me. Once I leave, after the time is up, I want to go back an hour or two later! and not because I enjoyed the play but because I enjoyed her company. I’m far from being a needy person but when I lay in bed at night, when I’m enjoying a cup of coffee on the deck, when I’m sick, having a good day, having a bad day or simply plopping myself on the couch to watch tv, it’s so much better when you have someone there sharing the good and bad moments with you, growing old with you, standing beside you, being there for you, loving you.
There is a lot of effort in keeping a relationship going I agree, there are ups and downs, but hey that’s what relationships are. And as long as your happy with the person you are with, it is soooo worth the effort :smile:
I’ve been out of the game for a long time now (way before the internet). So meeting people in my social circles gets a bit more difficult. When I was younger going to the clubs or bars and hanging out with a bunch of single friends was a weekly thing, even Weddings were happening almost every week, so there were opportunities to meet single people. These days with the responsibilities that we have and being responsible for little ones makes it even more difficult to ‘get out there’. Doesn’t help that everyone’s married either. Online dating seems to be the only option, but how can you even judge a person by a picture and a bio. I prefer interacting with the living breathing person in front of me.
It’s great being in this lifestyle and having fun, meeting wonderful people. I’ve experienced things that if you told me just 3 years ago I’d be experiencing I would tell you to lay off the crack.
It’s all fantastic but it’s not enough, at least not for me. Once I leave, after the time is up, I want to go back an hour or two later! and not because I enjoyed the play but because I enjoyed her company. I’m far from being a needy person but when I lay in bed at night, when I’m enjoying a cup of coffee on the deck, when I’m sick, having a good day, having a bad day or simply plopping myself on the couch to watch tv, it’s so much better when you have someone there sharing the good and bad moments with you, growing old with you, standing beside you, being there for you, loving you.
There is a lot of effort in keeping a relationship going I agree, there are ups and downs, but hey that’s what relationships are. And as long as your happy with the person you are with, it is soooo worth the effort :smile: