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Re: lack of education about STIs
1-800-PUBLIC-HEALTH
Hi, I'd like to report a multi-year increase in STIs. Where is your public health awareness campaign? Where are your ads? You seemed so good at it during the pandemic.
I think we need a department of PUBIC health
I'd only do it if I was in a monogamous relationship with someone and trusted them 100%. Outside of this, I don't do hook ups, and I only have sex with someone I have serious feelings for and I know is trustworthy, condom or not. I don't do short term relationships and multiple partners.
That's exactly it.. A lot of people don't use condoms with random hookups or people they just met and don't trust, and when I was way younger, far before being a SP really often when I started dating someone who was a man, he would pressure not to use one and I'd find out he was also having sex with other girls. A lot of people are liars and manipulators.
No, of course not. My clients are the vanilla hookups of someone else. We're all sexually active in this society and all play together; my job is not why I require a condom.
Well this explains the increase in requests for bbfs.
The moment someone asks for it, the booking stops. I instantly don't trust or want to take the risk with someone I know is or has looked for these services. I go with the assumption that if they are asking it is because they are getting it from somewhere, and I don't want to take the risk of being with someone who has been with An SP who offers this to many people. Their own risk is likely they are a cesspool of diseases then if they are offering it to any client who asks. (Not judging other SPs, but is just how I see it for self-preservation.) I don't even want to risk that this person asking likely has caught something by now, and I know their reasoning is, well antibiotics cures many, but I prefer knowing it isn't something I have yet in life had to deal with, and not looking for excuses. I just do what I can to protect myself.
And yes that nasty comment of going anal not requiring a condom came up many times in the past, before I realized anal was something I wasn't willing to offer to clients when it came down to it.
They seemed to think it abnormal that I would require a condom for anal reguardless, assuming on their own and stating it as a point, rather than asking if it was a possibility. They didn't like hearing there was no pass because condoms are there for my health safty, not pregnancy aversion.
The moment someone asks for it, the booking stops. I instantly don't trust or want to take the risk with someone I know is or has looked for these services. I go with the assumption that if they are asking it is because they are getting it from somewhere, and I don't want to take the risk of being with someone who has been with An SP who offers this to many people. Their own risk is likely they are a cesspool of diseases then if they are offering it to any client who asks. (Not judging other SPs, but is just how I see it for self-preservation.) I don't even want to risk that this person asking likely has caught something by now, and I know their reasoning is, well antibiotics cures many, but I prefer knowing it isn't something I have yet in life had to deal with, and not looking for excuses. I just do what I can to protect myself.
And yes that nasty comment of going anal not requiring a condom came up many times in the past, before I realized anal was something I wasn't willing to offer to clients when it came down to it.
They seemed to think it abnormal that I would require a condom for anal reguardless, assuming on their own and stating it as a point, rather than asking if it was a possibility. They didn't like hearing there was no pass because condoms are there for my health safty, not pregnancy aversion.
I think the increase of requests is connected to the fact that a lot of clients think we are desperate because ''it's the slow season'' or because of the economic crisis. I think it's the same clients who keep asking everyone for them, either because they are trolling, or because they think someone will end up saying yes. I've also had 2 or 3 clients ask me after they booked me a few times, and obviously blocked their number after that. That's also why it's important to avoid seeing the type of clients who push boundaries subtly because they are testing to see if they can get away with more or ask for more...
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My good friend and colleague did a duo with a fellow provider a couple of days ago (not in this province). The other provider told her about how it’s getting scary out there because people have been inquiring about BBFS.
The provider heard about a site / forum that gives people a list of SPs who offer BBFS.
The person signs up to the forum, then pays to have access to the list of SPs.
This is what the confirmation email looks like:
This is to spread awareness - not meant to condone these practices.
Very upsetting and disappointing as an SP.
My good friend and colleague did a duo with a fellow provider a couple of days ago (not in this province). The other provider told her about how it’s getting scary out there because people have been inquiring about BBFS.
The provider heard about a site / forum that gives people a list of SPs who offer BBFS.
The person signs up to the forum, then pays to have access to the list of SPs.
This is what the confirmation email looks like:
This is to spread awareness - not meant to condone these practices.
Very upsetting and disappointing as an SP.
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Are you sure this is not a scam website that steals people's info and photos and require clients to pay for membership? Either way, there are clients paying and signing up for it and this may be why there's an increase in demand.
It’s 100% real.
I posted the link earlier to the actual website but the mods edited my post since they want to avoid posting actual websites that allow for BBFS practices. With understanding!
I have visited the actual website / forum.
That is the email confirmation that my SP friend received because she was wanting to see if it was a scam. It’s not.
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The irony that there is a Sexual Health section on that board, which in all likelihood is being consulted the "day after" by these thrill-seeking dimwits who rawdog anonymous strangers.
The email itself is a scam. And speaking of email scams has anyone been getting the Coinbase scam emails? I think the giveaway is you cannot unsubscribe. Ask your friend if there is any unsubscribe option.
Whether it's BBFS, bitcoins or rare coins being sold, it's just another internet scam.
To me, not very surprising that something like this exists. There is a place for everything no matter how sick/depraved or even illegal somewhere on the internet.
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