Stripper proposes sex. Is it a good idea?
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The no kissing rule always been there, but if a girl put her tits on your face and your lips happen to touch the breast i mean ... not my fault lol. This happened to me a few times.
And yes i understand the security aspect but i think IN the booth is way too personal. It could be in the corridor where the booths are but not inside the cabin itself.
Happened once to me at Pigales. Super hot session with a Mexican girl that went crazy when I started telling her how sexy she was in a language she didn’t understand. Things got even hotter when she started grinding her crotch on my face, leading to a serious tongue-lashing. After she came she asked me if I wanted any more dances ! We were both pretty flustered by the surprise escalation, but I wonder where it would have gone if I said yes …
Which clubs have cameras in the booths? I’ve seen cameras at the entrances to VIP areas or the booths (like when you go downstairs at Pigales and enter the booth labyrinth), but cameras focused on the action?! Haven’t been to any on-island clubs in a while, is this actually a thing now?
Salon Bleu and Club 369 has cameras in the booths. I heard that Club Downtown has them also. There might be others. I avoid these clubs.
They do this due to intense scrutiny from the government. They are poking their noses everywhere in every cabin. The government wants to shut down all the clubs and are making it hostile for them. Look at Cleo, no curtains since covid.
Sounds sketchy to me. She knows that you're horny, possibly drunk and have money. Whenever someone suggests going to a second location, it increases the chances of something bad happening. If you want to see an SP, book an SP. If you want a lapdance, go to the stripclub. Don't mix the two together unless you're prepared to potentially be jumped by her partner when you show up at "her place".
Well I assume that the girls at the strip club are young and not experienced. And trying to hook with a stripper might be to get test the waters and have a more "organic" experience.
I’m not sure how much time you’ve spent in the strip club environment if this is your assumption. Some of the most shark-like operators in the entire adult industry ply their trade in the clubs - and age is not often the best arbiter of hustle savvy. I want to say that you just gotta sort through all the BS and good times can still be had, but the reality is that it’s getting much, much harder …. As for ‘trying to hook up with a stripper’, I’d shelve that plan - if something is going to happen organically, she’ll either let you know straight out, or the vibe will be such that a few casual comments on your part will tip the convo into ‘where and when’ land … going with the idea of hooking up is a recipe for disappointment or worse- go for the dances, the potential connections and the atmosphere, not for the a possible hook up. If it ever happens, it’s a bonus.
Maybe I can rephrase my thought which is actually more related to OP and to the comment above saying that if we want intimacy we straighly go to a SP instead of trying our luck with a stripper.
Ones might enjoy a good lap dance. If there is a kind of chemistry between the 2 then there might be an organic experience happening which will not necessarily occurs with a SP.
My comment about the "youthfulness" of the stripper is that she has not the experience of an SP and the "reflex" around it.
Je ne suis pas sûr qu'il y a une question de langue ici - not sure what you mean by ‘reflex’ at all. As for the assumption that a stripper is not-experienced (or ‘youthful’ or whatever other euphemism you want to use for inexperienced) just because she’s a stripper, this is not accurate about the majority of strippers I’ve interacted with. Yes, there are inexperienced strippers, just like there are inexperienced SPs - but in my experience there is nothing that says one line of SW has more or less experienced individuals than the other. I’ve had terrible amateur-hour interactions with SPs, and incredible, where did this girl learn how to do this interactions with strippers, and vice-versa. I’ve left a booth feeling much more intimacy happened than many SP sessions.
Stripping, MP, SP, all in-the-flesh adult entertainment, is a transaction to get your money for a service. The practitioners in each discipline are usually skilled in their trade and facilitating that transaction and getting your cash. The random ‘organic’ actual connection that transcends the transaction you’re referring to can happen with any of the above - I’ve experienced it with strippers, MPs, as well as SPs. In my case at least it’s rare and a special occurrence, but I wouldn’t say that it’s more prevalent with one discipline than the other - to me it’s caused by the human connection when it does happen, and not about the type of service provider.
And I never, ever, go into any interaction with the expectation, thought, or even hope that it will happen, that’s not what the biz is about…
Time for you to whip out the ring and lock her down. This is a once in a lifetime opportunity like buying Bitcoin when it was less than a penny.
Seeing a stripper at a hotel is far more safer then Leolist. With a stripper you get to know the girl and see the vibe. I been offered many years ago a take out from a stripper who was clearly the scamming type, these ones I avoid. But most were honest. The advantage is you get to know the person before, unlike a Leolist ad who is a total stranger, the pics are often fake, and who knows there is a guy waiting,
It has happened to me a few times; most are escorts trying to find a client. I had one girl i met and she ended up giving me her number. She basically told me she want to do it with me. I was her type but she wasn't really mine. I met another who was really good at her job. If I was a fool I would have believed she loved me and truly wanted to sleep with me. Sincerely, she was excellent at her job. Another girl I met took a liking to me because I was telling her about some of my life problem. She resonated with what I was telling her. Its less that she wanted to sleep with me persay but was interested in me.
I dont go to strip clubs to get a girlfriend or to sleep with the stripper. Alot of these girls are no different from what you will meet in reality. Some are sane and intelligent, while other girls are emotional and speratic or crazy. Is it really that sane for a girl to want to sleep with you when you met her 30 mins ago? Probably not. Is the arrangement proposed an extension of her job at the club? Is she an genuine person who clearly isn't a facade of a personality? Point being you have to ask yourself these questions before you decide to see her outside the club.
I dont go to strip clubs to get a girlfriend or to sleep with the stripper. Alot of these girls are no different from what you will meet in reality. Some are sane and intelligent, while other girls are emotional and speratic or crazy. Is it really that sane for a girl to want to sleep with you when you met her 30 mins ago? Probably not. Is the arrangement proposed an extension of her job at the club? Is she an genuine person who clearly isn't a facade of a personality? Point being you have to ask yourself these questions before you decide to see her outside the club.
The problem with many strippers who are open to the idea of providing sex to a client outside of the club is that they expect to charge a premium for their services. They know that guys fantasize about meeting a girl outside the club, because it's a challenge to convince the girl and the client has had a sneak preview of what she's like. The girl knows that providing sex is not the usual practice for a stripper and she may not even be familiar with the prevailing rates are for escorts. So strippers often suggest a rate that can easily be double what a normal rate is.
If a normal agency girl in Montreal gets $280/hour, then expect a stripper with decent looks to ask for $600 or more. She thinks this is reasonable because she is already making good money most nights while dancing so why shouldn't she ask for a lot of $ for a special service outside of normal working hours. They also will suggest that they can meet you when they get off work at 3AM.
At least this has been my experience the few times that I have discussed meeting a stripper for sex. I never followed through because it never made sense--too costly and too inconvenient. It's so easy to book reasonably priced escorts in Montreal that it's not worth it trying to convince a stripper to provide sex.
There is also a kind of natural attitudinal divide between strippers and escorts. Strippers are naturally exhibitionistic and comfortable with showing off their bodies in public, but they may have a hard time crossing the line into full intimacy with a stranger ("I couldn't have sex with someone I don't even know!"). Escorts, on the other hand, can't imagine parading naked in front of lots of men ("what if someone I know sees me!") but they are cool with having sex one on one with a stranger and no one else knows about it. Two different mindsets.
If a normal agency girl in Montreal gets $280/hour, then expect a stripper with decent looks to ask for $600 or more. She thinks this is reasonable because she is already making good money most nights while dancing so why shouldn't she ask for a lot of $ for a special service outside of normal working hours. They also will suggest that they can meet you when they get off work at 3AM.
At least this has been my experience the few times that I have discussed meeting a stripper for sex. I never followed through because it never made sense--too costly and too inconvenient. It's so easy to book reasonably priced escorts in Montreal that it's not worth it trying to convince a stripper to provide sex. There is also a kind of natural attitudinal divide between strippers and escorts. Strippers are naturally exhibitionistic and comfortable with showing off their bodies in public, but they may have a hard time crossing the line into full intimacy with a stranger ("I couldn't have sex with someone I don't even know!"). Escorts, on the other hand, can't imagine parading naked in front of lots of men ("what if someone I know sees me!") but they are cool with having sex one on one with a stranger and no one else knows about it. Two different mindsets.
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