The Bitching thread
- Thread starter AirBo
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I forgot why or don't know the random thoughts 3 thread was blocked or was deleted.
But I can't post one right now
Can someone tell hotel room designers that a bathroom without a real door isn’t sexy
The bathrooms with transparent glass doors... lol
I went to a place where it was just a curtain, no actual door
Ahh you meant the access to the bathroom. Thought it was the bath/shower access lol
Here's my frustration of the day.. I have a lot of clients and I don't think anyone should be forced to write reviews. But I think it's weird when clients tell me (without me asking) that they will publish a good review for me since they had a good time, and they never end up doing that. It happens pretty often.
That sucks. I think it's all a matter of expectations management. Better not promise something and something happens rather than promising without respecting it.
But it's best to keep own's promise ...
They don't really promise anything, but don't say you'll do something if you don't intend on doing it. I've had more than one client (not regular or repeat clients) tell me something sassy along the lines of ''I would leave you a good review cause I had a good time, but you already have some and I don't want it to get to your head if you get too many compliments''.
In reality if I think of most regulars and repeat clients I've seen since I entered the industry, almost none of them left a review for me because they don't like this website or don't have time for it. It doesn't help my credibility but I don't want to force anyone to do something they don't want to do. Yet a lot of them actually found me here and wouldn't have booked me if I didn't at least have a few positive comments..
I just assume people want to keep me as their little secret and that’s why they don’t review me
I’ve only met a handful of ladies who requested that no review be written & this usually happened prior to the action. I would tell them no worries that i will never review a lady who requested that i don’t post one. I would point out the positives of a review. That a positive review is good for business. I would also mention that many times it’s the agency who encourages reviews. That i’d often get a call from an agency after a lady has left & they’d ask me how it went & that they wished i wrote a review. Sometimes it happened before the date. I’d always reply that i’d likely post one but it would be a 100% honest review. I’d post the positives and the negatives (if there were any). I never had a complaint except for one time when the agency owner (a female) contacted me to tell me that my review was way too sexually explicit & it lacked my usual class. But that’s another story altogether. Lol.
Anyways back to the ladies who told me not to review them. 90% of the time they’d tell me before leaving that i could review them if i felt like it because they felt we had a great time. I’d reply “No it’s ok. I don’t mind. I won’t write one.” Their reply would be like “No! I want you to post a review! I want one!” Lol. A few times they’d contact me later & ask me “Hey, why haven’t you posted a review of our encounter yet?” I’d reply that they’re the ones who insisted not to be reviewed. They’d reply “I changed my mind.”
A couple of times such reviews would be removed by a moderator & the moderator would contact me to explain why they had removed it. That the provider in question had a no-review policy (NRP). I’d reply “I’m aware of this but she’s the one who gave me permission to write & post a review. She even contacted me to ask me why i hadn’t posted one!” Later that day he’d contact me again to inform me that he had re-posted my review after getting permission to do so from the lady in question. Lol.
When I entered the industry I didn't want reviews because I had a traumatic experience with being doxxed through people's DM's.. and a popular user saying something HORRIBLE about me that left me crying for days. When you look at a lot of reviews here, a lot of things that are really hurtful are said.. So it's kinda understandable that people wouldn't want reviews.
At this point however, I can tell 90% of clients I see enjoy our time together and they come back unless they prefer variety or don't do this often. What I'm talking about here is specific.. Multiple instances when clients in the past 12 months told me they would write a positive review for me, without me asking for it, and they never do. Sometimes they even ask ''would you be okay if I reviewed you? I want to encourage you'' and they never end up doing it.
Last week something really weird happened on my review thread and some dude complained that I was the only one who replies to my own reviews, which is false. There are many trolls who follow my review thread and it's extremely frustrating because I've never met any of them. That could explain why people don't want to say anything, because recently every time someone posted a positive review somebody I don't know replied something sarcastic as a response. Since I've had this thread I've had to contact the mods over 3 times to clean it up.
The other day I had a client tell me ''I would write a positive review for you, but I feel like I'm encouraging something negative in society if I praise escorts''.. I was shocked. Why see escorts if you think they are doing something bad for society?
