The Bitching thread

[bodick7]

to ask for a discount

Unless it's good for both parties. I got a favorite which we agreed share room expense.
This way I can see her more often.
I got another who at first wanted a whole hour. Now she told me it's ok for half an hour for about the same reason (a special project).
I wouldn't go for this kind of deal at first encounter.

 

[Lunaseraphim]

Unless it's good for both parties. I got a favorite which we agreed share room expense.
This way I can see her more often.
I got another who at first wanted a whole hour. Now she told me it's ok for half an hour for about the same reason (a special project).
I wouldn't go for this kind of deal at first encounter.

I sometimes offer discounts and I have accepted certain things with regular clients, sometimes I'm fine with it, sometimes not. It depends. I feel like it's disrespectful to ask for a discount for a gfe service personally.... If somebody offers the discount, good for you, or if you have an arrangement with someone that is fair for both parties, good for u also! But it has to be fair.

 

[Lunaseraphim]

concerning thought of the evening : seeing my coworkers amazing reviews makes me feel really self conscious i feel sometimes like what i have to offer isn't really appreciated or isnt seen as enough because i dont do pse...

 

[AirBo]

concerning thought of the evening : seeing my coworkers amazing reviews makes me feel really self conscious i feel sometimes like what i have to offer isn't really appreciated or isnt seen as enough because i dont do pse...

I really think it takes much more than an extended menu to deserve amazing reviews. Some of your coworkers do not offer PSE, while others offer different levels of PSE, yet all deserve glowing reviews because they're professionals and amazing people. I'm sure you'll do just fine as you are

 

[Lunaseraphim]

I really think it takes much more than an extended menu to deserve amazing reviews. Some of your coworkers do not offer PSE, while others offer different levels of PSE, yet all deserve glowing reviews because they're professionals and amazing people. I'm sure you'll do just fine as you are

thank you! a lot of reviews i see really focus on pse type action which is not my forte. I am capable of handling certain things, particularly when i'm at my incall space or in a hotel room and not at home where the neighbors could hear things if you see what i mean...hehe. otherwise, i think a lot of clients appreciate a truly gfe type experience with me, with all the fixings and cuddling and pillow talk. i'm not a porn star and i never claimed to be.. but it's hard to compete with those who offer a performance that is something you'd see in a hardcore adult film haha

 

[AirBo]

it's hard to compete with those who offer a performance that is something you'd see in a hardcore adult film

Indeed... never try to compete with Julia Sky

 

[Lunaseraphim]

Indeed... never try to compete with Julia Sky

we've done duos together it's nice because our styles are different but complementary. i'm not trying to compete with anyone at all, but i want to have a good reputation

 

[Julia Sky]

we've done duos together it's nice because our styles are different but complementary. i'm not trying to compete with anyone at all, but i want to have a good reputation

We are like night and day together and it's what make the charm of our duo, in my opinion You're great and perfect the way you are, friend <3

 

[Lunaseraphim]

We are like night and day together and it's what make the charm of our duo, in my opinion

i agree 100%

 

[DouMan]

concerning thought of the evening : seeing my coworkers amazing reviews makes me feel really self conscious i feel sometimes like what i have to offer isn't really appreciated or isnt seen as enough because i dont do pse...

Oh my, do not go down that road. Do not start comparing what others offer or seem to offer with your services. Be proud of who YOU are what YOU offer.

If you start offering services that you are not comfortable with you will rapidly face a downhill road of unease and customers will feel this.

Reviews will come don't worry. Remember not all clients know merb.

In the meantime, once again, be proud of who YOU are and offer.

 

[Lunaseraphim]

Oh my, do not go down that road. Do not start comparing what others offer or seem to offer with your services. Be proud of who YOU are what YOU offer.

If you start offering services that you are not comfortable with you will rapidly face a downhill road of unease and customers will feel this.

Reviews will come don't worry. Remember not all clients know merb.

In the meantime, once again, be proud of who YOU are and offer.

that's very true.. i don't really have issues getting clients regardless of reviews or this forum in general except sometimes. a lot of clients don't like to go on merb or don't know it

 

[DouMan]

that's very true.. i don't really have issues getting clients regardless of reviews or this forum in general except sometimes. a lot of clients don't like to go on merb or don't know it

It all depends on your perception of "sometimes". Many look at "stats" on a daily basis which can often lead to discouragement. Today could exceptionally be slow but tomorrow completely booming.

Base yourself more on a weekly basis which is much easier on oneself. Chances are you will see you are much more successful than you thought.

Allow yourself the privilege of a little downtime once in a while for yourself... your worth it.

 

[jjohnston422]

I pinched a nerve in my neck over a week ago. I haven't slept more than 2 hours in a row or 3 hours in a full day since then. I don't like to complain but if I am every going to contribute to this thread, I think now is the time

 

[Cap'tain Fantastic]

but it's hard to compete with those who offer a performance that is something you'd see in a hardcore adult film haha

If you’re one who feels that it’s competition, you should try to stick to your category of providers for proper comparison . I think there’s as many clients seeking your type of services than the ones looking for PSE experience. Maybe try to read threads about girls who offer GFE services and you will see that there is a high demand for them.

 

[Lunaseraphim]

If you’re one who feels that it’s competition, you should try to stick to your category of providers for proper comparison . I think there’s as many clients seeking your type of services than the ones looking for PSE experience. Maybe try to read threads about girls who offer GFE services and you will see that there is a high demand for them.

yeah, that's definitely what I intend to do! i just have a lot of potential clients ask me for PSE type services even tho my website and ads clearly state that i'm a gfe sp.. and sometimes act surprised & disappointed that i don't offer certain things

 

[Sylar]

yeah, that's definitely what I intend to do! i just have a lot of potential clients ask me for PSE type services even tho my website and ads clearly state that i'm a gfe sp

I think the definition of GFE vs PSE is pretty fluid, so that might be another reason.

 

[Lunaseraphim]

I think the definition of GFE vs PSE is pretty fluid, so that might be another reason.

yes definitely and certain things that can be part of my services or extras can qualify as PSE, but overall if you are looking for a very extroverted PSE provider with an impressive performance that could be seen in a hardcore porn movie i am not the right person to offer it i'm more on the shy and soft and sensual side. a lot of clients enjoy that tho

 

[Cap'tain Fantastic]

yeah, that's definitely what I intend to do! i just have a lot of potential clients ask me for PSE type services even tho my website and ads clearly state that i'm a gfe sp.. and sometimes act surprised & disappointed that i don't offer certain things

When putting an advertisement you should emphasize that before contacting you, potential clients must read your entire website as you won’t answer any questions about stuff that are clearly visible on your website.

 

[LC18]

When putting an advertisement you should emphasize that before contacting you, potential clients must read your entire website as you won’t answer any questions about stuff that are clearly visible on your website.

You have a lot of faith in your peers.

Most men don’t read, it doesn’t matter in which language or size we type it. They don’t read

 

[Sylar]

I've been feeling like shit since Sunday