The Bitching thread

[mtlspacial]

Please bitch properly

We'll need to designate a formal bitching thread commissionner.

 

[twenty4seven]

I always feel flattered and super honored when I get good reviews, but I don't like when it creates expectations, and when people ask me ''will everything happen exactly like in the most explicit review you've received''.

That's on the client. Some don't know how to manage their expectations.

I've had multiple times when I met an SP for the first time, it was truly amazing. But, as repeat bookings went on, it wasn't as good. It happens... part of the game.

It's wild bc I've gotten DMs after someone says they saw someone I reviewed and insinuating I lied about it bc their session didn't go the same as mine (they didn't do the same, specific acts or positions or there was less chemistry) and I'm like, "why tf would it be the same as mine? That's almost impossible."

Also, I can't recall a repeat visit that was the same or worse than a previous one. All my subsequent sessions end up being hotter, so I'm knocking on wood.

 

[mtlspacial]

It's wild bc I've gotten DMs after someone says they saw someone I reviewed and insinuating I lied about it bc their session didn't go the same as mine (they didn't do the same, specific acts or positions or there was less chemistry) and I'm like, "why tf would it be the same as mine? That's almost impossible."

Also, I can't recall a repeat visit that was the same or worse than a previous one. All my subsequent sessions end up being hotter, so I'm knocking on wood.

Wow. Some people don't understand the YMMV part.

I don't base my expectations too much by reading reviews TBH. I just vet if the SP offers the services I prefer.

It's pretty amazing when you find someone your compatible with and the sessions get even better.

 

[Lexus3]

Maybe it’s time for a review? I’m surprised you got any money back.

Thanks Yumi. As a result of your post we all know... Like your style

 

[Lunaseraphim]

It's wild bc I've gotten DMs after someone says they saw someone I reviewed and insinuating I lied about it bc their session didn't go the same as mine (they didn't do the same, specific acts or positions or there was less chemistry) and I'm like, "why tf would it be the same as mine? That's almost impossible."

Also, I can't recall a repeat visit that was the same or worse than a previous one. All my subsequent sessions end up being hotter, so I'm knocking on wood.

That's also because you are not just lying there and expecting to be pleased and entertained without putting in any of your own energy, or thinking every time you see the provider another time you'll be able to push a boundary / arrive with a bunch of strange baggage to unload on the person.

I know clients expect specific services, but I really don't enjoy feeling like there are heavy expectations on me other than "let's get to know each other and have fun". Feeling like an acronym dispenser or like I have to follow a very specific script sucks. My favorite bookings aren't when it feels like pulling teeth to satisfy a client who wants to get the most in exchange for the bare minimum.

This is reminding me why initially offering the BJ sessions was a relief and a lot of clients seemed to enjoy them and act grateful that I was offering them until somebody decided it was my specialty, ironically my cheapest service, and ppl ask the most questions about it and have extremely high expectations for it...

Same thing with the guy who says I didn't kiss him enough the second time I saw him and acted like we had been seeing each other this whole time even tho 2 years had passed. He didn't want to shower or rince his mouth when he arrived.

Sometimes people are also just not in the same mood. I don't always have the same energy levels particularly when it comes to dealing with clients who I feel are demanding. (And by that I don't mean high energy)