The case of the missing 20$ - Anyone else got this ?

[CLOUD 500]

Yup but I have the impression that with agencies the booker or someone is not far. So if anything goes wrong the lady can ring that person for help.

I always assumed that Indys got protection. There must be some guy there for her protection. What I noticed is that Indys want trust to be one way and they want to be in full control. One of the reasons I rather agencies, no girl has asked me to pay upfront.

 

[LeDodo]

Yes i agree that is probably why.

Yup and forgot to state the obvious but indies are just by themselves and no safety net in case of issues.

 

[LeDodo]

I always assumed that Indys got protection. There must be some guy there for her protection. What I noticed is that Indys want trust to be one way and they want to be in full control. One of the reasons I rather agencies, no girl has asked me to pay upfront.

Ok maybe not so obvious

Yup and forgot to state the obvious but indies are just by themselves and no safety net in case of issues.

 

[LeDodo]

And I think that's what set apart MP and agencies from Indies because they are independent literally speaking lol

 

[maymay]

Well it happens even when they cut the service short, Nessa from motel chez nous screwed me 30$ cutting the service short paid 45 ended 30 min did not want to give me back 30$, so she is full of shit.

 

[LC18]

Agency girls are ok with being paid at the end because they have security lmao. It’s not hard to understand. They might be alone in the room but they don’t work alone, if someone doesn’t pay she won’t be left alone with the burden…

 

[Cap'tain Fantastic]

Agency girls are ok with being paid at the end because they have security lmao. It’s not hard to understand. They might be alone in the room but they don’t work alone, if someone doesn’t pay she won’t be left alone with the burden…

Security staff are usualy really not far!

 

[Julia Sky]

please allow my eyes to roll my dear they arent attacking you. Are they ? dont just jump on the roof right now
It has never been a question of choosing between losing money or getting raped. If you were with a rapist do you think that making sure you get paid will prevent you somehow from getting raped anyway ? LoL ... You have your ways to get reviews of trustworthy clients because you ask for references ! it s not like you dont , indies sometimes ask 2 to 3 different contact of SPs for references. I guess that does not count ? and uhm I dont think anyone in here disagrees with showing a proof of payment

References aren't 100%, plenty of clients have one good reference so they can use her name and be shitty to everyone else. But yes, it helps. Not every client has a reference, though.

When I said rape I was referring to the fact that not paying constitutes rape in a scenario where payment is a condition for consent.

If you have no issue showing proof of payment then you have no issue with my comment.

 

[Julia Sky]

I always assumed that Indys got protection. There must be some guy there for her protection.

?? This is not the case for the vast majority of indies (unless youre speaking of pimped leolist escorts?)

 

[Sean007]

Agency girls are ok with being paid at the end because they have security lmao. It’s not hard to understand. They might be alone in the room but they don’t work alone, if someone doesn’t pay she won’t be left alone with the burden…

Totally understand the reasons for this I agree with you. Indies generally have less /no protection so must rely on other means. I’m certain that it is a relieving factor for repeat clients that are nice and respectful and the you can put your mind to more interesting topics!!!

 

[LC18]

Totally understand the reasons for this I agree with you. Indies generally have less /no protection so must rely on other means. I’m certain that it is a relieving factor for repeat clients that are nice and respectful and the you can put your mind to more interesting topics!!!

I wouldn’t ask to be paid first if I knew I had some kind of safety net.

Men have trouble trusting women they’re meeting for the first time because they’re afraid they’ll steal their money

Women have trouble trusting men they’re meeting for the first time because they’re afraid they won’t get paid


Both situations suck and will make you feel like a loser but one is slightly worse than the other. Letting a stranger in your body thinking you’ll get paid and the man leaves without paying

 

[Sean007]

I wouldn’t ask to be paid first if I knew I had some kind of safety net.

Men have trouble trusting women they’re meeting for the first time because they’re afraid they’ll steal their money

Women have trouble trusting men they’re meeting for the first time because they’re afraid they won’t get paid


Both situations suck and will make you feel like a loser but one is slightly worse than the other. Letting a stranger in your body thinking you’ll get paid and the man leaves without paying

Yeah I agree with you. Maybe I am too trustworthy but yes I have had that fear but only to a small degree. I guess dealing with reputable indies and agencies has me reassured. So far in quite many meetings I have lost only a deposit. I had cancelled the meeting way ahead of the policies but the cash was with the booker not with the lady so I did not blame her (she has a stellar reputation).