The "incel" sub-culture

[Fradi]

I am not going back to my time because it was a whole different world and I never found it difficult to find either casual or lasting relationships.
I have not seen an issue with my children or nephews, or their male friends finding girlfriends/wives either so I am not sure that it is all that difficult for the average guy even today.
Sure you are going to face rejections, but that is not really a reason to give up and rely just on pay for play with either sugar babies or escorts.
I think too many young men think you can just do a google search and find what you need on line, there are plenty of places you can meet women you just need to get out there and try and not give up.
I will never give advise that it is fine to just see sex workers as a substitute for a healthy and loving relationship.
Perhaps I am just an old romantic but there isnt a sex worker alive that can compare to a loving relationship and having a family with a women that is in love with you.
I have an ATF who is gorgeous and much more than just an escort to me, but it will never come close to what you can have when you are young.

 

[CaptRenault]

Phillips said...that she’s working in addition to studying for a degree in journalism.”

Sounds like she has an unrealistic view of her career and earning prospects. She better get to work on finding a successful man to marry, because there are still plenty of desirable girls who are more determined than her and are willing to play the mating game. When she wakes up to reality, it might be too late for her.

The problem for her is that successful men tend to marry successful women these days and she’s not going to have much to offer with that journalism degree. Just being young and attractive is not enough to snag a good mate. And good looks don’t last forever (assuming she is good looking).

 

[Fradi]

Patron,
I think there is a lot of truth to what you are saying, but it is not as bad as you make it out.
Don't forget Merb is probably not the place where people with prior or current great relationships congregate, so their views on the subject of finding an appropriate mate or love May just be skewed a little.
It is probably not where young guys who have no issue with finding women and relationships find a place to call home either.

 

[Fradi]

There never was a beautiful woman for every young guy, just like there never was a hunk for every woman.
Some will have to make do with what they can get and if not there is always the alternative of escorts and sugar babies, that is if they can afford it, however paying for sex is just that, great sex in most cases probably better sex than you will have with that beautiful woman. The majority of which are one hour sessions, if your one hour of sex once or twice a week which is probably what even someone with a decent paying job is all they can afford is all you want out of life then go for it.
The point is even in todays world there is no reason you should settle for anything less than that beautiful woman and what ever you think love is and means to you without trying.
So what if the tenth young woman is fucking some older guy, there always was and always will be a gorgeous young woman who is fucking someone else instead of you, I can remember being envious of that from when I was 15 and feel the same way today.

 

[Fradi]

No Patron it is never that simple.
That always existed that most men wanted that top 30 percent , it is not a new invention, no man ever dreamed of an ugly broad to have as his life companion.
However being men, even when you have managed to achieve that elusive goal, you still get the hankering for different pussy, strange pussy, and perhaps pussy that fucks you the way you want it and when you want it and the list goes on, life just gets in the way, that is why the oldest profession is called the oldest profession.

 

[The Nature Boy]

U forgot hot chubby pussy Fradi

 

[Fradi]

U forgot hot chubby pussy Fradi

Yes I did. Sorry I forgot to include one of your favourites.

 

[EagerBeaver]

TNB is into BBBW type? The type where a layer of stomach folds over the pussy so you cannot see it unless you pull it up?

 

[The Nature Boy]

I like surprises.....no but in all honesty there are a ton of chubby chics who are really pretty, are pretty self confident and fuck like dynamos.

It’s always interesting to read reviews from some of these hyper critical fuckers who are complaining about an extra 15 lbs? Case in point, really popular SP from one of the major agencies apparently put on weight. Guys started saying shit online. When I saw her, to me she looked facially DDG. Wasn’t like a SI swim suit model physique but shit, nothing I’d turn away if she hit on me @ a bar.

There are tons of chic I meet @ work while traveling who are really, really hot but considered chubby. If I can get a freebie I go for it. Like Fradi says, nothing beats being with a chic who wants ur dick because your you. NOTHING

Hypercritical dudes need some self reflection

 

[EagerBeaver]

TNB,

If we all liked the same type of woman , the murder rate would be much higher. Fortunately I like very petite women, with no extra weight and abs as tight as a drum, so you will never have to worry about me throwing you a cock-block.

 

[Fradi]

While I wouldn’t say I am into the BBW scene, I am definitely not a fan of spinners either.
I like a woman with some nice cures and a fabulous rear end.
Yes there is nothing like a chic that wants you and who you are in love with, and If you are lucky enough to find one that enjoys it as much as you do and is also good at it then you have it made.
Unfortunately if I am being honest most girlfriends, while they may have looked great really didn’t come close to the SP I am seeing right now when It comes to the bedroom these professional ladies are far superior they really do know how to please.
The problem is I actually do enjoy the company of a woman for other things as well not just for sex, that however I would never buy , I am not into buying friends and I will never pay a woman to have dinner or lunch with me, it is not about the money.
The cost of lunch or dinner not a problem doesn’t really matter where or what they would like to have.

 

[The Nature Boy]

TNB,

If we all liked the same type of woman , the murder rate would be much higher. Fortunately I like very petite women, with no extra weight and abs as tight as a drum, so you will never have to worry about me throwing you a cock-block.

Yes, but I’m sure ur not hyper critical? I don’t mind petite chics as well?

 

[EagerBeaver]

Yes, but I’m sure ur not hyper critical? I don’t mind petite chics as well?

I am not "hyper critical", whatever that means. I just like what I like, and what I like is lean women. I let other guys have whatever they like. Maybe after you have had 5 or 10 beers it all looks good. I do not operate that way, sorry. If I am not cock-blocking you it should be a good thing, no?

 

[The Nature Boy]

Hyper critical? Expressing beyond excessive disproving judgments. In the context of our discussion, on the physical appearance of a female, more specifically with reference to weight.

It’s got nothing to do with one or 10 beers, and yes, everyone likes what they like, but does it like you back? That is the question.