Gentleman (and Ladies), just this weekend, thanks to Shana of WildTime, I experienced the perfect blowjob and I’d like to share with you what she did and what I learned, on the chance her technique will work for you.
One of the amazing things I’ve learned in this “hobby” is that you can continue to explore your own sexuality and learn new tricks even into your fifties and sixties if you’re paying attention. I must say that I’ve long since outgrown the thrill of “banging hot chicks” and have uncovered the much greater pleasure of sexual exploration and taking pleasure to new and thrilling levels as I’ve met some remarkable sexually open and adventurous (and yes, quite attractive) younger women.
A number of years ago, I was made aware of the work of the renowned sex therapist, Barbara Keesling, who among other things, defined the levels of arousal leading up to orgasm. From her, I also learned that there’s a huge difference between orgasm and ejaculation and that they don’t always occur at the same time, ejaculation being the simple act of discharging semen, which while both pleasurable and leaving one feeling quite relieved, is only a local experience of the genital area. Orgasm, on the other hand, is a full body experience that leaves you gasping for breath, your heart pounding. I’ve also learned that if you learn enough control of your body (which, by the way, I haven’t yet) that one can orgasm without ejaculation, and experience what the girls do: multiple orgasm.
Here’s how Keesling describes the levels of arousal: At levels 2 and 3, you feel mild twinges of arousal, but arousal is not really constant. Levels 4 and 5 are constant, low levels of arousal, and levels 6 and 7 are steady, moderate arousal. At levels 6 and 7, you really feel that you don’t want the stimulation to stop. At level 8, if you had to talk, you would sound somewhat out of breath. You are aware of your heartbeat and you feel the blood roaring in your ears.. Level 8 corresponds to Masters and Johnnson’s plateau phase of the sexual response cycle. Level 9 is the feeling that you are very close to orgasm. Anything beyond level 9 is the feeling that orgasm is inevitable.
From the MP Dani, I learned a few years ago the thrill of tantric massage as she worked me up the arousal scale, holding me between 7-8, taking me to 9, and raising and lowering, back and forth until finally finishing me off with an orgasm of an intensity unlike anything I’d ever felt before.
From Molly, I learned the thrill of prostate massage. Oh, if I’d only learned that so many years earlier.
And Friday night, Shana, the debutante at WildTime, treated me to what I can only describe as the perfect blowjob, one I can now hope to have repeated as I share her technique with other present and future lovers.
Let me try to break down the differences for you between the common blowjob (cephalophagous ordinaire) and the perfect blowjob (cephalophagous ohmyfuckinggodicus). Most common blowjobs, whether well performed or not so well, have the same structure, lips wrapped around the shaft, the performer bobbing rapidly up and down. There might be some ancillary stuff, some bls, maybe some rimming, some spitting, the hand may or may not be involved, but it all centers around the rapid in and out motion. As enjoyable as I find that, it is rarely mind-blowing.
Now to this past Friday night when, with Shana at the controls, I experienced cephalophagous ohmyfuckinggodicus. Here we had an artist at work. She caressed me, licked me, played with me and sucked ever so gently, nursing me through the levels of arousal, her energy increasing with my arousal. Occasionally she pulled and inch or two away, holding me in her hand, a thin strand of saliva connecting her mouth to the tip of my cock, which, while not adding to the physical arousal, was visually stimulating. Every so often I’d open my eyes to find her looking into mine. As I approached levels 8 and 9, she read me and increased her pace ever so slowly until finally, as I reached the edge of eruption, my heart now beating rapidly, she increased the pace and I finally exploded into her mouth, and collapsed.
While I've experienced elements of the perfect blow job in the past, Shana's performance as a whole was something entirely new and, again, mind-blowing.
One of the amazing things I’ve learned in this “hobby” is that you can continue to explore your own sexuality and learn new tricks even into your fifties and sixties if you’re paying attention. I must say that I’ve long since outgrown the thrill of “banging hot chicks” and have uncovered the much greater pleasure of sexual exploration and taking pleasure to new and thrilling levels as I’ve met some remarkable sexually open and adventurous (and yes, quite attractive) younger women.
A number of years ago, I was made aware of the work of the renowned sex therapist, Barbara Keesling, who among other things, defined the levels of arousal leading up to orgasm. From her, I also learned that there’s a huge difference between orgasm and ejaculation and that they don’t always occur at the same time, ejaculation being the simple act of discharging semen, which while both pleasurable and leaving one feeling quite relieved, is only a local experience of the genital area. Orgasm, on the other hand, is a full body experience that leaves you gasping for breath, your heart pounding. I’ve also learned that if you learn enough control of your body (which, by the way, I haven’t yet) that one can orgasm without ejaculation, and experience what the girls do: multiple orgasm.
Here’s how Keesling describes the levels of arousal: At levels 2 and 3, you feel mild twinges of arousal, but arousal is not really constant. Levels 4 and 5 are constant, low levels of arousal, and levels 6 and 7 are steady, moderate arousal. At levels 6 and 7, you really feel that you don’t want the stimulation to stop. At level 8, if you had to talk, you would sound somewhat out of breath. You are aware of your heartbeat and you feel the blood roaring in your ears.. Level 8 corresponds to Masters and Johnnson’s plateau phase of the sexual response cycle. Level 9 is the feeling that you are very close to orgasm. Anything beyond level 9 is the feeling that orgasm is inevitable.
From the MP Dani, I learned a few years ago the thrill of tantric massage as she worked me up the arousal scale, holding me between 7-8, taking me to 9, and raising and lowering, back and forth until finally finishing me off with an orgasm of an intensity unlike anything I’d ever felt before.
From Molly, I learned the thrill of prostate massage. Oh, if I’d only learned that so many years earlier.
And Friday night, Shana, the debutante at WildTime, treated me to what I can only describe as the perfect blowjob, one I can now hope to have repeated as I share her technique with other present and future lovers.
Let me try to break down the differences for you between the common blowjob (cephalophagous ordinaire) and the perfect blowjob (cephalophagous ohmyfuckinggodicus). Most common blowjobs, whether well performed or not so well, have the same structure, lips wrapped around the shaft, the performer bobbing rapidly up and down. There might be some ancillary stuff, some bls, maybe some rimming, some spitting, the hand may or may not be involved, but it all centers around the rapid in and out motion. As enjoyable as I find that, it is rarely mind-blowing.
Now to this past Friday night when, with Shana at the controls, I experienced cephalophagous ohmyfuckinggodicus. Here we had an artist at work. She caressed me, licked me, played with me and sucked ever so gently, nursing me through the levels of arousal, her energy increasing with my arousal. Occasionally she pulled and inch or two away, holding me in her hand, a thin strand of saliva connecting her mouth to the tip of my cock, which, while not adding to the physical arousal, was visually stimulating. Every so often I’d open my eyes to find her looking into mine. As I approached levels 8 and 9, she read me and increased her pace ever so slowly until finally, as I reached the edge of eruption, my heart now beating rapidly, she increased the pace and I finally exploded into her mouth, and collapsed.
While I've experienced elements of the perfect blow job in the past, Shana's performance as a whole was something entirely new and, again, mind-blowing.
