I don't know about that Bogart. I know plenty of decent-looking blue collar guys who do alright especially outside the urban cores. One of the problems in those circles is alcohol, pot and hard drugs. It's not that well-off dudes don't have substance abuse problems, but generally they don't have time for it. The obnoxious trust fund babies can buy a tub load of cocaine and decorate their home with coke sluts.
Some here are projecting their own biases with some hints of misogyny on the thread. We couldn't get hot chicks because they are superficial, materialistic bitches who hang out at expensive nightclubs and bars hooking up with only the rich guys. First, most young guys don't have a shot at hot chicks. Second, SolTeeNutz' wisdom is exactly what young men should do.
Quoting Mr. STN: "My son and his friends tend to have females around with no shortage. They stay away from the clubs, where the people they do not want to meet hang out. Pool halls, the small town car races, weekend camping, places where you be yourself."
The mating game was never easy for anyone especially mediocre, young men. I assure you, if you look at this from the other side, there are many frumpy girls who never go on dates and only socialize with other women. The hot girls in their 20's usually don't invite their frumpy friends to go out with them when they're hunting for guys.