They gave it a name.

[Julia Sky]

Stealthing. It's all over the news. I think it's about time people talk about it. Calling it "new" made me cringe but eh. Let's hope this becomes a well defined sexual crime to the eyes of the law. Not only is this a form of rape but it is also a huge public health concern (STDs...) and can have other consequences like pregnancy and such. Your thoughts ?

http://m.huffpost.com/ca/entry/16209510

EDIT : I'd like to add that this should also apply when a girl pokes holes in a condom. It goes both ways

 

[Doggyluver]

Talk about disrespectful ! This could be with an SP, with a random hook up or with a regular partner. In any case, totally unacceptable ! I have been with partners who knowing that I have had a vasectomy want to have unprotected sex with me (no fear of pregnancy ) but they ask, they don't rip the condom off and force me to have sex without protection. I have had SP's tell me that the cream-pie experience is something clients are asking for more and more. The key is asking ! One girl told me that when a client asks she is then worried throughout that eventually in Doggy he will remove the condom without her knowledge. Where do guys get these ideas anyway ? It has to be consensual or yes this is tantamount to rape. Stealthing..............................it should be called what it is STUPIDITY !

 

[ssj3]

This is utterly reprehensible! If this continues and becomes a problem I can totally see SPs eventually refusing doggy which is a shame since it's one of my favorites. First and foremost though is the level of comfort of the girl..if she's too worried about that then I would be totally fine with skipping doggy.

 

[Julia Sky]

Thankfully there are tricks for girls to make sure the condom is still on while doing this position.

But I have come across one dude who said he "likes the feeling of lube on his dick" so "please put some on before putting on the condom". How about hell no ! That is a sure way for the condom to slide out and lodge deep inside without interrupting the play. I think girls should be aware of this trick because I wouldn't want to know how many fell for it.

 

[SylvainP]

It it is so popular, it is maybe we see it too many creampie movies on different (excuse if it is not well written) video porn sites.
Some men (too many), because they see it on the net, believe taht every woman wants to the that.
It is not because some SP like sododmy that means every SP likes it.

 

[Halloween Mike]

Well i wouldn't call it a new trend, this is something escorts have been having to deal with since pretty much forever... Granted every positions beside doggy is easy to watch for, and in doggy usually the guy will put his hands on your hips/butt or some may grab you by the hair (kinkier style) but usually you can have a feeling where the hands are. If the dick comes out, take it and put it back inside yourself, this way you sure the condom is still on.

Security is important.

And yes it seem creampie has gone in popularity in movies. Not a fan personally, even if i had a girlfriend and we would be both tested and she would be on birth control, i wouldn't do it unless im looking to have a kid her too and she is not on birth control obviously...

But to each there own fetish. They just have to understand you can't do this one with escorts... There is just no way of being sure to be clean 100% or i should say that your partner KNOWS its the case. Even if you where tested 4 days ago and show a test, how can she be sure you didn't saw somebody in between.... Its a fantasy that will never be possible with escorts and peoples have to understand it.

 

[cpp433]

I commonly put on lube b4 a condom, i have NEVER had one even remotely close to coming off, although i do use thin ones which are usually more snug so i cant speak for regular fit ones

 

[Thor Jr]

I wonder what we should call it when a condom comes off and its temporarily lost inside a woman's vagina, which has happened to me on 3 occasions over the years. This is why i always let the ladies put it on, cause when this did happen i didn't want to be accused of anything. From my experience i would think it was put on backwards...

How do you feel when this does happen?

Thor Jr

 

[CoolAmadeus]

It happened to me once. I felt very bad. Even though she knew me for a while and she knew I would never do such a thing on purpose, it was still awkward. The problem was to go get the condom. She was not really tall, had short hands, short fingers, and she couldn't get to it. Since I'm 6'4" with everything else proportional, I have longer fingers. I had to go get the condom myself, deep deep in her vagina. That was quite the experience! LOL

CA

 

[Birds]

It annoys me when some girls are paranoid about it, to the point of making the sex terrible. I am not that kind of man. I would never do that. But some girls are paranoid about it and it ruins the sex. I had girls who insisted in holding the condom with their hand during the whole intercourse. I told them it turned me off, but they would not listen. Then I became soft and left, while being frustrated. This causes terrible experiences.

 

[ssj3]

While driving to work I was listening to a morning show on the radio and the hosts brought up the same article that Julia posted. Apparently they think it's "fake news" and that it doesn't really happen much.

 

[Doggyluver]

It annoys me when some girls are paranoid about it, to the point of making the sex terrible. I am not that kind of man. I would never do that. But some girls are paranoid about it and it ruins the sex. I had girls who insisted in holding the condom with their hand during the whole intercourse. I told them it turned me off, but they would not listen. Then I became soft and left, while being frustrated. This causes terrible experiences.

Pun intended : Better safe than sorry I would rather an SP who is careful than someone (and they are out there ) who says, "Don't worry I'm clean, you can fuck me without a condom if you like, for $20. more !" Try putting yourself in the girls place, she's paranoid, not because of the respectable guys like you but because of a couple of assholes who have tried to remove the condom. She is worried about disease and her life, I respect her attitude.

As far as the idiots on the radio, what do they really know about this part of the real world.

 

[Julia Sky]

Wow Lily you are so aware, I'm impressed. I'm interested in hearing what people think now. I never actually thought about it, will have to pay attention, you got me curious.

 

[Julia Sky]

While driving to work I was listening to a morning show on the radio and the hosts brought up the same article that Julia posted. Apparently they think it's "fake news" and that it doesn't really happen much.

It is fake news, but it's because it does happen much and this, since way longer than 2017. lol

 

[cloudsurf]

The reason it stays sometime inside the lady is if the gentleman do not get out right after the deed,most gents will of course ''shrink'' so when he does get out the condom stays in...

Ilily you are absolutely right.
It also happens if the guy stays inside and gets soft but then after a few minutes starts getting hard again and starts pumping with the condom off....that's why its a good idea to check in those situations.
Non latex condoms also have a tendency to come off accidentally .
A rare reason is that some girls contract their pussy walls after each orgasm and after a few orgasms they have your cock in a vice and you can only retreat by leaving the condom behind.

 

[heliragedeleted]

The reason it stays sometime inside the lady is if the gentleman do not get out right after the deed,most gents will of course ''shrink'' so when he does get out the condom stays in...
It happens...or if it was not the right size to start with...

And i noticed something over the years,not sure if it is true or just an impression,maybe the gentlemen here can concur?
It looks like if the first time my date needs a size L for the encore the fit is better with a M? Is there truth in my observation?
Because if I use a L for the second time I feel it is to big? Not enough to lose it per se but not as snug?

Yes, I believe that is true: L first time and M second time particularly in the older gents. In a twenty something probably first and 6 th time the girth will be the same. In older gents the neurotransmitter at the smooth muscle venous vascular sphincter has a longer turn over time, I believe ( any experts?).
Some guys don't go limp after an orgasm or have a delayed reaction. I guess if your capable continued pumping will delayed the détumescence. Then I think it's ok to just pull out gently right after, guys should be thinking of the lady in question also.

 

[Sol Tee Nutz]

Some guys don't go limp after an orgasm or have a delayed reaction.

Cialis will do that to you, for me anyway.

 

[Birds]

The reason it stays sometime inside the lady is if the gentleman do not get out right after the deed,most gents will of course ''shrink'' so when he does get out the condom stays in...
It happens...or if it was not the right size to start with...

And i noticed something over the years,not sure if it is true or just an impression,maybe the gentlemen here can concur?
It looks like if the first time my date needs a size L for the encore the fit is better with a M? Is there truth in my observation?
Because if I use a L for the second time I feel it is to big? Not enough to lose it per se but not as snug?

When I cum, it stays hard for a few minutes, so there is no danger for me. A dick is supposed to always be the same size when erect, but I suspect that there are guys that have trouble keeping it hard on the second time so it becomes smaller. It's harder to stay hard when you do it twice in a row.

 

[Doggyluver]

Obviously this story is gaining more traction as evidenced by the article in todays JDM
http://www.journaldemontreal.com/2017/05/01/le-stealthing-une-tendance-sexuelle-inquietante

 

[robvya]

It is much well known among gay communities, stealthing is their thing apparently... guys love it :O