Let me come back on some of your affirmations that are definitly not true and understand that you are interacting with humans that still have the right to decide if they want to give you the access to their intimity or not when you try book a date with them.
It makes sense that as a client, you want to know what you will get, but the reality is that a lack of hygiene or disrespectful behaviors might deprives you of some practices that we would be willing to offer to a client does his part. Actually, when you are nice with people you receive more in any circumstances. For exemple, I once missed a medical appointment and the professional allowed me to not pay the fee. I know it's because I was respecting all our previous appointments. The same thing happened to me for dental treatment. I had to delayed the beggining of it and even they started the process, they didn't charge me any extra fee because I was doing my best to start it asap. Most of the time, I receive good services no matter were I go. Before accusing sexworkers of beeing unprofessional look at the services you receive in other field too and question your own behaviors. Paying for a service doesn't allow you to mistreat people and acting like a spoiled child.
You are so assuming that we are having doctor salaries when a lot of our salary is reinvested in our business every year, plus most of us are being companion as a side job. Your are saying that our job requires low skills and low education. Most providers I know have university degrees and sexual experience that matters. Have you ever received anal or given deepthroat? Our job are intellectual AND manual and yes it requires skills. Also, our marketing is not done by itself. We are spending hours doing it.
My opinion is that you approach sexworker so badly that they answer with their worst attitude. Some providers are having bad attitude toward clients and I am aware of it, but not the majority. Your general statement makes me think your are the problem in your interactions with sexworkers. Before trying to contact any of us again, I would recommand you to educate yourself about the reality of sexwork. You should also look at some very helpfull treads that are listed on MERB.
The secret recipe to receive good customer service :
** Read our sites before contacting us (follow our process)
** Be nice and consider we are humans
** Accept a date refusal
While I agree with a lot of what you are saying let me try to give an answer to your post.
Yes we are all human beings and how we approach each other and the respect and kindness we show will always make the difference in each encounter.
I think an explanation of what a lady offers on her web sight is helpful on a client making a decision, but like you say it always depends on hygiene respect and understanding.
So far I have only had one experience where I would say I was kind of disappointed and it was purely because of not knowing what she offered or the MP scene.
This was not her fault but mine as I went to an MP place to see someone that I had always thought was stunningly gorgeous.
She was just as I had imagined, absolutely stunning and a nice intelligent young lady, unfortunately it was not what I was expecting and I was a bit disappointed.
I am still glad I had met her in person and not just always wondered what it would be like to be with this gorgeous lady but had I known in advance I probably would not have.
As far as doctors salaries, well whoever doesn’t want to pay those salaries is not forced to, we all work for money and all of us like and expect to be paid what we think we are worth.
I don’t begrudge any lady whatever she decides to charge, I can either afford her or not.
As far as skills, obviously an SP must have skills that are in demand otherwise she wouldn’t be able to sustain that kind of pricing and I for one appreciate the skills of the gorgeous ladies that I am seeing. They are fabulous women and I am lucky to have them in my life.
Bottom line nobody is being forced we are all free to chose who appeals to us and what we can afford and on the ladies side the ones that do well are the ones that keep that client coming back, they are more than smart enough to know what that takes.
