Voluntary Sexual or Intimacy Bonuses, Perks, and/or Freebies.

[Merlot]

Hello all,

I was just wondering how much of this goes on with Montreal escorts considering indications within posted information on many encounters. This is not about making moral judgments or safety standards of which opinions will vary. I just wanted to gauge how common it is for an escort to voluntarily offer different sorts of free or extra-curricular (outside scheduled meetings) options like those listed in the choices here.

Now, no escorts should be named because of the probability other clients will pressure them for the same favors. Please keep that in mind.

This is a PRIVATE POLL with MULTIPLE CHOICES so no one will be giving up any personal information just by voting. If you wish to post information that it is your choice. So vote freely.

Of course, we can argue all day about what a bonus option is and never completely agree. You can discuss that if you wish, but here are the basic ones. Of course I may not be as informed or creative of some of you. You are welcome to explain any options not covered here as you may.

None of these options necessarily apply to me either.

Cheers,

Merlot

 

[johnmbot]

...any options not covered here...

meet the parents.

 

[Jman47]

Interesting M....

 

[JH Fan]

Un sucon a paparmane ? is that a freebie ?

 

[Doc Holliday]

.....offer of intimacy with the sp's twin sister

 

[CS Martin]

1) Go out and party with her and her friends after work........don't ask.......SPs sometimes confuse me more than other women.....that's saying a lot.....
2) One night this SP shows up at my home in Orlando with her very attractive friend (blond in her 20's, nicely purportioned about a 7.8) from Jacksonville. She promptly informs me that it's 2 for 1 night. I get to do her friend and then get to do her in successive hours at no additional charge. Now being the slut that I am, I couldn't refuse. Seems her married friend was visiting from Jax and just wanted to get laid. Her friend offerred to meet me in Daytona later on for a second meeting at no charge, even suggesting a particular hotel. Now I don't remember whether I was too smart or too dumb to accept, but it never happened. Maybe it was the lone wolf in me telling me to stay away....either way, I'm too old to remember........Like I said, SPs and women tend to corn-fuse me.....

Facinating Statistics........Can someone filter out or consolidate Tony's handles though?

 

[shijak]

.....offer of intimacy with the sp's twin sister

uh what? now how does that work? she saw you, then said "you've gotta bang my sister too... we always do the things we like in pairs?"

 

[Doc Holliday]

uh what? now how does that work? she saw you, then said "you've gotta bang my sister too... we always do the things we like in pairs?"

Close!

(Note that a 'donation' would have been involved)

 

[freezin]

It would interesting if this poll had a "I never any received extras" option.
As is, it seems as though everybody is getting them... which I doubt.

 

[JH Fan]

It would interesting if this poll had a "I never any received extras" option.
As is, it seems as though everybody is getting them... which I doubt.

J'te jure... une fois j'ai eu un sucon a paparmane !

 

[Merlot]

Hello Freezin,

It would interesting if this poll had a "I never any received extras" option.
As is, it seems as though everybody is getting them... which I doubt.

You are right about that, however, I'm sure that anyone who is decent to the ladies has gotten some sort of generosity if they have been around long enough...and it doesn't take very long for that to happen. Significant extra time, for instance, is very common with good independents and agency ladies who don't have to worry about running off to another appointment right away.

.....offer of intimacy with the sp's twin sister

A couple of well known bi-sexual escorts have offered the opportunity to meet their female significant others. I specify female because both ladies I know had male and female SOs...Go Girls...lol. The problem has been my very limited time frame for visiting and the question of the other lady's willingness. If I was a Montrealer a menage-a-trois would have happened for me by now.

meet the parents.

Meet your baby. But I'm not sure if that qualifies as a perk or bonus; it sure as heck won't be a freebie...yikes.

Cheers,

Merlot

 

[johnmbot]

Meet your baby. But I'm not sure if that qualifies as a perk or bonus; it sure as heck won't be a freebie...yikes.

has any of you ever impregnated an sp 'on the clock'?

 

[Aeolus]

The poll results for BBFS seem surprisingly high. I`d expect numbers this high from guys who see lower tier, drug addicted, street corner hookers. The girls I`ve been seeing haven`t seemed dumb enough or desperate enough to offer this - and that makes me feel good!

I was only able to check-off CIMWS and phone number. I did have one SP invite me out on a real date, but regretably I live 3+ hours from Montreal so I couldn`t take her up on the offer in time before she wrote me off as being disinterested. You`ve got to act fast on offers from the pretty ones because it`s not like they have any trouble finding interested men. Stupid me.

 

[hungry101]

Most of the time I do my research and I get good service and that is all. Recently an SP in the USA stayed 2 hours over and offered to take me to an NFL game and told me to choose the home game that I wanted to see. She let me know that she wants to go out. I must tell you that I am torn because I really like our professional relationship (I pay her to come and provide a service and then leave NSA.) I also was provided with Greek one time by an SP that wanted to practice I think. There have been other incidents as well. Some of the extras I have been offered that are not listed on the web sites are due to the fact that I am always neat and clean and polite and I usually do not rush things. I always offer drinks or room service sometime lingerie etc. I believe this makes a difference.

 

[Jman47]

Hello hungry101,

I believe you are spot on with you analysis about being nice. Some would argue or even throw the dreaded "white knight" label around...but I believe being nice, being a Gent and just plain being kind (all things we should always do in the company of any lady anyway) will get you miles further (not necessarily in extras) and treated a whole lot nicer than being a misogynistic, pampas, full of yourself ass...lol...or being a transparent, bullshit slinging idiot...lol...but thats just me. B

Have fun,

Jman

PS Who's playing...lol

 

[Merlot]

Hello all,

The poll results for BBFS seem surprisingly high. I`d expect numbers this high from guys who see lower tier, drug addicted, street corner hookers. The girls I`ve been seeing haven`t seemed dumb enough or desperate enough to offer this - and that makes me feel good!

I was only able to check-off CIMWS and phone number. I did have one SP invite me out on a real date, but regretably I live 3+ hours from Montreal so I couldn`t take her up on the offer in time before she wrote me off as being disinterested. You`ve got to act fast on offers from the pretty ones because it`s not like they have any trouble finding interested men. Stupid me.

https://merb.cc/vbulletin//poll.php?do=showresults&pollid=63

There have been a couple of other polls specifically about BBFS. The link above shows numbers in one poll on those who have had BBFS that are much like the numbers here. Another poll asking only if members have had BBFS or not, which I cannot find right now, showed up to 34% had BBFS according to the voters. So the numbers here are probably fairly representative of what`s going on.

Most of the time I do my research and I get good service and that is all. Recently an SP in the USA stayed 2 hours over and offered to take me to an NFL game and told me to choose the home game that I wanted to see. She let me know that she wants to go out. I must tell you that I am torn because I really like our professional relationship (I pay her to come and provide a service and then leave NSA.) I also was provided with Greek one time by an SP that wanted to practice I think. There have been other incidents as well. Some of the extras I have been offered that are not listed on the web sites are due to the fact that I am always neat and clean and polite and I usually do not rush things. I always offer drinks or room service sometime lingerie etc. I believe this makes a difference.

Very true. All you really have to do is treat the ladies respectfully and they can be appreciative in a number of generous ways fairly often. Escorting must be a hard and sometimes or often a frightening life. I can only then surmise they must be comforted to find a decent and kind guy to deal with. Of course being good to the ladies doesn`t mean you will get anything extra. Being a good client is how it`s supposed to be after all and obviously it`s her choice to grant more. But from time to time there are bonuses...and more.

Cheers,

Merlot

 

[Jman47]

Very true. All you really have to do is treat the ladies respectfully and they can be appreciative in a number of generous ways fairly often. Escorting must be a hard and sometimes or often a frightening life. I can only then surmise they must be comforted to find a decent and kind guy to deal with. Of course being good to the ladies doesn't mean you will get anything extra. Being a good client is how it's supposed to be after all and obviously it's her choice to grant more. But from time to time there are bonuses...and more.

Well said Sir Merlot!

Have fun,

Jman

 

[hungry101]

Funny story Jman and Merlot, the last SP I was with was an Indy and had only a couple of reviews and one review was not too bad but warned ``do not expect and DFK.`` When I met the SP and I told her of the review she said something like that guy looked like he had never brushed his rotting teeth in years and smelled etc. She put him on her DNA list which is ``Do not answer`` when he calls. She gave excellent service. I also talked to a agency owner about a particular girls unspectacular review and he said that he questioned the girl and she said the guy had the worst B.O. ever and refused to shower. I said I shave down there and I do everything i can to be clean and respectful and i provide drinks and sometimes room service etc. and all he said is that you are doing the right thing to get the best service. Incidently, I asked the agency owner if he gave the guy feedback about his body odor and he said ``No. It`s not my place.`` They are too polite down south sometimes.

 

[Jman47]

Funny story Jman and Merlot, the last SP I was with was an Indy and had only a couple of reviews and one review was not too bad but warned ``do not expect and DFK.`` When I met the SP and I told her of the review she said something like that guy looked like he had never brushed his rotting teeth in years and smelled etc. She put him on her DNA list which is ``Do not answer`` when he calls. She gave excellent service. I also talked to a agency owner about a particular girls unspectacular review and he said that he questioned the girl and she said the guy had the worst B.O. ever and refused to shower. I said I shave down there and I do everything i can to be clean and respectful and i provide drinks and sometimes room service etc. and all he said is that you are doing the right thing to get the best service. Incidently, I asked the agency owner if he gave the guy feedback about his body odor and he said ``No. It`s not my place.`` They are too polite down south sometimes.

LOL...stories like this continue to sometimes just amaze me. If a guy smells that bad and his oral hygiene is that awful...doesn`t the lady have the right to say...gee, thanks, but have a great day...here`s your envelope, I have to go now...??? I have heard some of these kind of stories before and frankly they disgust me. If someone does not have enough decency to wash, then I have to ask myself what else could he/she not be taking care of? Anyway...my 2 cents...

Have fun - clean and safe fun,

Jman

Hav

 

[Merlot]

To members...and notably the mods,

LOL...stories like this continue to sometimes just amaze me. If a guy smells that bad and his oral hygiene is that awful...doesn't the lady have the right to say...gee, thanks, but have a great day...here's your envelope, I have to go now...??? I have heard some of these kind of stories before and frankly they disgust me. If someone does not have enough decency to wash, then I have to ask myself what else could he/she not be taking care of? Anyway...my 2 cents...

Have fun - clean and safe fun,

Jman

Hav

I was just wondering if it would be possible, and of some value, if there was a system where the escorts could post their bad client stories where neither the escort or client would be identified? It would be an anonymous section containing only the story of Client X where no names are used on either side, but would be available as a means of better understanding the problems within encounters and a lesson for all. The stories would be sent to the mods by the escorts (sorry, not really trying to increase your workload) and approved for relevance and anonymity. The anonymity would save everyone from a flame war while providing better insight into conditions, what not to do, and what to expect. No agency, escort, client, location names or other identifications allowed.

This way the escorts get some input and the chance to improve encounters without fear of repercussions, and no client has to fear personal attacks.

To avoid over-working the mods ( as if not already...lol) only distinctly different incidents would be posted...not a repetition of alike stories.

Interest???

Merlot