What did they do before they bcame MPs SPs and nude dancers?

[J. Peterman]

I once knew a nude dancer that worked at the Chisties cookie factory, she became a nude dancer because the money is better. One day she gave me a goodbye dance and told me that she was going to have a baby.
There seems to be quite a few MPs that have come from the beauty and esthetics biz. So what have the MPs SPs and nude dancers told you they were before changing careers, what careers did they change to after the biz?

 

[metoo4]

Oliver, these women still come from somewhere, whatever we believe what they tell us or not is irrelevant: they still have a background. Some might be truthful so, dismissing the question isn't going to make them "story-less". We believe what we want, not all of them came from the ditch.

 

[John_Cage]

I find this distrubing... Lots of young girls (16-25) actually thinks that being a stripper (or escort) is a symbol of status (of how "hot" they are).

It's true ! I was so shocked when one of my friends told me that she would be a stripper if she had bigger breasts (I am sure she was joking, but it led me to believe that many girls see the job in very different light than guys).

Being an escort isn't like being Prom Queen...

Edit: This girl was working as a waitress in a bar when she said that.

 

[Rook01]

mostly bartender and waitress is what I keep hearing.

 

[Techman]

A gf of mine had her own business with a friend before becoming a dancer. Due to various problems, the business went under and they both became dancers to pay off the debt. Once this was done they both left the business and are back in the normal world.

Another girl I once knew was a nurse who started dancing during the nurses strike a number of years ago when the union basically bent over for the gov't. After the strike was over, she continued dancing, went back to school to improve her english skills and eventually got a job nursing in Florida.

These are just two examples. I could provide many more. Not all dancers, and I would also believe SPs, are empty headed bimbos who can't do anything better with their lives.

 

[naughtylady]

I sold cars for 10 years before getting onto the business. I had a major burn-out, I left my ex, unemployment ran out, and welfare refused me (the house we had bought was not yet sold). I did not see much alternative other than the sex industry. I was still too burnt out to hold down a regular job.

I stayed in the business because I discovered that it allowed me to go back to school and finish my degree. I also realised that I enjoyed the work. It is not something I see myself doing for the rest of my life, but I will never regret my decision to become an escort.

Ronnie,
Naughtylady

P.S. I am graduating this semester and I have applied for a Master's program. Keep your fingers crossed for me!

 

[hard2cum]

oh they all have stories
bullshit
more shit
piled high and deep
gullable people only need to listen
and on the boards there would be a line up 3 deep
oliver

oliver, I deeply respect your posting, and I will never be like you when it comes to this "hobby", but I must make an exception on this. Case in point:

1. a dancer : was graduate student at McGill. now published novelist
2. a dancer: voice actress. She works at a gentleman's club at nite and seeming only one with natural breast.
3. a SP: film student and she SPed to fund her project. formerly a runway model. started SPing to help out her friend!
4. a SP: has civil engineering degree. now works for a mining company in west. ran into her at investor's meeting.
5. a SP: used to be a classical guitarist. tried to get back to touring but she became too "famous" Now just gives private lessons, which turned out to be more lucrative than SPing or touring
6. an Asser vissante girls became a bus driver.
7. another Asser vissante girl became a public school teacher(history)

The first five were verified one way or another. I am sure some of it is "public" information among hobbists, but discretion seems to be the prudent, since some of this can potentially ruin a career. If any one of you reading this know who I am talking about PM me, and maybe some more can be revealed if enouogh positive IDs comes in. We all know there's much lies, umm fantasies, in this biz, but there are many decent human being involved in this as well.

PS: a SP: have same "real" profession as mine. When we met, she just started her own company, and invited me professionally so I went for a look-and-see. Couldn't pay my US salary, so she offered free room and board at her house, and herself. Even met her parents , who do not know about her SP career. Quit SPing not long after to be the company president full time. Last time I heard, still needs experienced help, and I wonder what it could have been: after all, the girl was offering me everything(even though it's all humble everything), maybe even love ?... This is the most subtly scary experience in my "hobby" career, and the primary reason I stayed away from this activity for a year.

 

[Techman]

Not to mention Fonda Peters who after her career as a dancer/stripper went on to become an accomplished writer and award winning documentary film maker under her real name of Lindalee Tracy.

 

[Techman]

I wonder, though, just how reliable those kinds of conversations actually are.

I don't know about everyone else, but anything I post about any dancer or anyone else for that matter, is confirmed firsthand knowledge and not just gathered from random conversations or third parties. Anything that is not first hand will be noted as such.

 

[mr.magoo]

7. another Asser vissante girl became a public school teacher(history)


imagine the parents teachers meeting!!

 

[metoo4]

7. another Asser vissante girl became a public school teacher(history)


imagine the parents teachers meeting!!

Usually, guys try to avoid these meetings, not anymore!

 

[mr.magoo]

Usually, guys try to avoid these meetings, not anymore!

lol wife catches you slipping the teacher an envelop...hahaha its to improve the kids grades lol

 

[J. Peterman]

SWs, MPs, and SPs do not bullshit more than the general population!

We have all met blow hards that tell you how sucessful they are and the property and possesions that they have only to find out that they are full of shit. The general population has its share of bull shitters.
Sure I have met some SPs MPs and SWs that have told me stories that I do not believe. One SW told me that she was an actress in Hollywood for a while, I tested her by asking her quickly .............what is the color of the police cars in Hollywood. She could not tell me ( the answer is black and white) You have to take things that people tell you with a grain of salt. There are bull shitters everywhere.

 

[legrizzlybear]

Cumming from everywhere

Selon moi, avec les quelques expériences que j'ai, je dirais qu'elles viennent de vraiment partout. Pas de discrimination: il y en a de tous les milieux. Elles deviennent SP pour le cash pcq pour une femme c'est un peu une voie naturelle depuis toujours (Un de mes oncles avait pour habitude de répéter la même joke: Femme..... plus vieux métier du monde). Certaines le font pcq elles sont rendues dans un état économique de pauvreté, d'autres parce qu'elles ne peuvent pas vivre sans le luxe que procure cet argent vite fait (notez bien que je n'ai pas dis facilement gagné, juste rapidement, par rapport au salaire horaire moyen).

Quand un gars est "fait", il se ramasse clochard ou il fait des "mauvais coups". Quand une fille est "faite" (sans jeu de mot), elle loue son corps.... et ce depuis l'homme des cavernes.

 

[Red Paul]

I knew a wonderful dancer at Caleche de Sexe, Nancie. She said she was working a regular job as driver of the school bus at the local elementary. She was such a sane, kind, good-humored woman that I really liked the idea of her looking after those kids every day. A very sexy woman too, but so down-to-eath it was easy to imagine her wearing jeans and an old shirt, no makeup, making sure the kids got on board and delivered to school safely.

But anyway, to go back to what Oliver said, most stories that SPs tell about themselves are so unremarkable that I don't see why they'd be lying. School-bus driver, pet shop owner, studying to be a beautician, studying design at LaSalle but taking a semester off -- who brags about stuff like that?

I do have some doubts about Chanel over at Assvte. She told me (or I think so, because this was in French) that she had been accepted to McGill as an undergrad and in 3 years would graduate as a lawyer. One, I'm pretty sure Canada has law school just the way the US does, though maybe there's some special program for combining undergrad and postgrad. Two, Chanel's English is shaky at best, and aren't McGill classes in English? On the other hand, this isn't my territory.

 

[J. Peterman]

I once met a MP that offered complete service out of her appartment. She told me that she had at one time been a pharmacist. I suspected that she was telling the truth. What she did not tell me and I suspect strongly that she is no longer a pharmacist because she was taking drugs from her work for personal use.

 

[bumfie]

It really doesn't matter to me, because it's just a fantasy for the short time we are together. Whenever I meet the ladies, the only thing I hope is that their life before and after our encounter is a happy one, and I fear that often it isn't the case.

One funny thing that is sort of related. Whenever an SP happens to ask what I do, I always tell them I am a writer...which is the truth....and I bet not a single one has believed it, because it sounds like something someone would make up, doesn't it?

I have heard SPs tell me all sorts of stories about what they did before and what they will do after. I don't believe most of it, but I always do hope when I meet some of the nice ones (which is most of them) that all these things come to pass.

 

[EagerBeaver]

JHG,

In the USA, by contrast, law school is a 3 year graduate school course of study. In the USA, those who wish to pursue a graduate course of study in law must get a 4 year undergraduate degree usually, although not necessarily, in the liberal arts. One must then take something called LSAT exams. If one does well enough with one's grades in the 4 year undergraduate college and does reasonably well on the LSAT exams, one can then get accepted into law school.

Once accepted into law school, depending on the institution you are at, you have to survive the cut. One third of my first year law school class either flunked out or did not come back. It is a 3 year course of study full time, more if you go to law school part time.

After you graduate law school, you still can't practice law in any USA jurisdiction until you pass its bar exam. I am 3 for 3 on these exams, which are very nasty, stressful experiences in which you must essentially mentally vomit your accumulated knowledge of law onto paper during an 8 hour session. You must also take something called the multistate, which is 200 multiple choice questions that are administered in another 8 hour session on a different day than the state's bar exam. The multistate is common to all states and tests on generally applicable concepts of law as opposed to state law.

After you pass the bar exam, you go to work and learn how to become a lawyer. To become good in your field of expertise usually takes at least 5 years of experience or more before you become competent at what you do.

 

[EagerBeaver]

such that it is not a trivial matter to accumulate multiple Bar admissions.

Sit for the New York state bar exam and tell me afterwards that it was a "trivial matter." There is a lot of pain involved with taking those exams, and I don't consider it to be a trivial matter.

 

[EagerBeaver]

No doubt it involved a lot of study and work.

In New York, you are tested on New York substantive law including constitutional law and civil procedural law. You have to take a bar review course, such as Pieper, that prepares you for this. It is I believe a 2 or 3 month course of study.

In Massachussetts, you can waive in without examination based on the principal of reciprocity - which means that if you have 5 years of experience in the jurisdiction where you practice, and that jurisdiction permits Massachussetts attorneys with 5 years experience to waive in without examination, same courtesy is extended. I am not admitted there, but I know some attorneys in Connecticut who waived in to Mass. without examination based on the principle of reciprocity. It is still a bit of a pain in the ass based on all the paperwork involved.