@Rebaynia
I am not going to explain anything here, the topic of the thread here is
« What do you prefer the most during sex... «
There already is a few existing threads on the concerns you are referring to.
I always reserve the right to state my point, if I am being called out on something I stand by for myself. And didn't even say i don't all together, but that most situations are what they are.
The same could be said about your need to inform me about your stands on bbbj from my post. It was as uncalled for as my rebuttal. I feel the need to defend myself if I am being called out, as you seem to feel the need to enforce your opinions as well. I know full well it is the clients right to refuse the provider, as it is the providers right to refuse the client, if what she is being asked for does not align with her values. the goal is to find encounters that match our preferences.
My initial point being bj is often an important part of most encounters. all points being asked are critical for a well rounded and pleasurable time. It is why it is important to discus with a provider what the expectations are for a visit before they happen.