One of my worst meeting ever ,was a few years ago when I met this gentleman who had requested my red boots,fine, I arrive ,barely a hello,no kiss,he told me to undress ,put on the boots and lie in the bed while he went to the bathroom,came out ,did the deed without a sound,got up got dress and left...20 min flat..I was speechless... Not my idea of a nice unrushed meeting
This really sound to me like a dominator fetish. He does not want to connect cause for him the escort is just there to satisfy a need. Pardon the vulgarity, and remember this is not what i personally think, just analizing this situation, but it really feel like what he wanted was just a "hole to empty himself" , and somewhat loved red boots as it may re-inforce the "prostitute look" if i can say.
During my years in this "business" as both in front and in the back of it, i seen some very "special" stuff to say the least. Some clients do not care at all about there "partner" and they are really there as a service they pay for. With some guy it evolve into this kind of dominance yet passive way and the "in control" factor, for others it may even be in the rougher side like forced deepthroat and choking, wich seem to be kinda popular , and im always surprised that some girls allow it or don't make it more clear that its a nogo.
In any case back on subject personally the norush meaning for me would mean a girl take her time to spend the entire hour with her client. I seen again all kinds of provider in my years. Some like to chat a lot, wich may seem like a norush thing at first but then you realize later that your time has vaporized and your forced to rush to finish... Some could say "no worry it does not matter if we go 10 min overtime" and this could be seen as norush.
I saw escorts who had very minimal conversation skills and the "introduction" was really awkward, but then once the sex started it was actually very cool... so i would rather have her just "rush" in that case lol.
Then there is alwyas the old "leaving before the hour is over" Some providers just rushing you to make you cum the fastest possible and then being out. Its a thing that was(is?) more frequent in newspaper or such type of agencies, where MSOG is not a possibility.
In any case as a client personally , here is how a session SHOULD go for me. Note that i only take 1H meetings.
1) Between 5 and 10 mins of introduction
I always see outcall so i am always clean when she arrive, so if she need a refresh in the bathroom i would include it in the 10 mins intro. I never ask for clothes changing or stuff like that so bathroom should not be too long. Sometimes it may expend a bit if the person is really easy going but if she ain't at least kissing me by the 15 min mark there is something wrong
2) Cuddling and kissing is expected first, not overly long, just to make me hard and i dunno, i had some girls go directly downstairs and it felt awkward, kissing and cuddling is like the power on switch to me
3) I need a solid 30 mins of BJ/Sex at least... so if everything is respected, this put us at the 45 mins mark
4) A little post chat after sex is cool, while she remain close to me for 5-10min
5) When there is 5 mins or so left, she can shower and gather her stuff
Thats more or less an usual great hour, but it does not always happen like that, i had girls who where very timid when arriving and the sex would almost start immediately, we would finish with 25 mins left and then she would open up and chat a lot, because the ice was broken... I am a 1 SOG kinda guy, i can't achieve more than 1 in an hour now, so no matter how much time is left at the end, i can't really restart as i need a solid 15 mins of recharging time
Soooo... damn that was a long post... lol.
