What irritates me most here is how people always feel the need to be right and can never let go. Theres’s no active listening.
Another thing is how it’s always the same members here who are chronically online chatting back and forth with SPs for free - yet the same SPs will ignore or block someone by email or text because they’re non stop trying to talk to them.
I get it, it’s The Lounge and all - but at a certain point, get a real hobby - being online on merb everyday 24/8 across all boards too (terb / perb) demonstrates how some people need to feel important. The actual serious clients here are rarely active because they’re too busy booking and the actual hard working women don’t give a fuck about going back and forth constantly… they’re out there working or living their best lives.
Review exaggerations: ^^^ as I replied to bodick7 exaggerations or flat-out lying just to sound important.
Cliques & bias: Some girls gang up on you and publicly berate you if you don’t agree with their threads or their opinions - especially if you’re another SP. They’ll try to ruin your reputation or attempt to cancel you. On the boards they play all polite for clients, but a quick look at their socials - and it shows completely one-sided and unhinged behaviour. Totally fake, just to reel in clientele they’ll later trash on their X about how much they “hate men” or review boards unlike the sweet act they put on here.
Same goes for clients, the same toxic behavior - disrespecting others, ganging up, all tied to that obsession with being “right”.
Also:
Review board lurkers / members that never contribute to the board - yet always mooch off of everyone’s experiences and make everyone else TOFFT. If they are able to log in and browse sports discussions, they are able to take 2 minutes to leave a very simple and brief review… but never do.