What is the point of Onlyfans? Why keep paying for this?

[Ksanova01]

I have been hearing about this plateforme for a long time. I even have a friend who is completely addicted to OF and is exploding his credit card. I did not was it was all about so last month I decided to create an account to find out.
I followed few free accounts and paid accounts of some well known models.
Basically it is plateform where any girls can share and sell nude photos and videos. Ok.
I did not see anything I could not find on Youporn or Chartubate for free.
One of the model requested 20$ so she can rate my d*ck. Do I really need to pay for a random girl (I would never fuck) to rate my dick. I don't get that service.
The thrill of my friend is customized porn video and the girl next the door fantasy. I get that thrill and it is tempting. But shouldn't be enough to have 1 customized video, and move on. Why monthly suscription? Girl next door porn videos are everywhere on porn websites for free
Generic messages kept coming into my DM, and you need to unlock the messages with your credit cart. This is design to suck your credit card. Nothing exciting about it.
If I have 200$ to spend on pleasure I would prefer to spend it in a striptease club or to book an escort where I can have real pleasure.
So after a month I got bored and close my account. Is there any thrill or fantasy I missed in a month on that plateform?
Why men keep suscribing to OF. I might be old school but I'd to know.

 

[Julia Sky]

I did not see anything I could not find on Youporn or Chartubate for free.

Imagine saying "went to the restaurant last night, didn't find anything I couldn't cook at home" or "I got a foot massage, they didn't use any technique I wouldn't able to do on my own foot for free".

One of the model requested 20$ so she can rate my d*ck. Do I really need to pay for a random girl (I would never fuck) to rate my dick. I don't get that service.

I don't get the thrill of that either but that just means this isn't a service for you.

Why monthly suscription? Girl next door porn videos are everywhere on porn websites for free

Because some men enjoy supporting us and/or consuming ethical porn

Why men keep suscribing to OF. I might be old school but I'd to know.

I'd just like to point out that having sex is also free in the real world and plenty of people don't understand paying for it. Live and let live

 

[LC18]

How many threads about onlyfans do we need?

You don’t like it? Don’t subscribe and stick to free porn.

Some people enjoy showing their dicks to their favourite porn stars and that’s a good way to do it.

 

[Fradi]

How many threads about onlyfans do we need?

You don’t like it? Don’t subscribe and stick to free porn.

Some people enjoy showing their dicks to their favourite porn stars and that’s a good way to do it.

You are absolutely correct nobody is twisting anybodies arm, you subscribe if it interests you.
Personally I have no interest in porn free or OF, I much prefer to see my favourite SP in person and do.
However many of these ladies put a lot of effort and hard work into creating specialized content and if this interests people and they subscribe to it these ladies certainly deserve to make a profit for their hard work.

 

[Giselle Montreal]

I'd just like to point out that having sex is also free in the real world and plenty of people don't understand paying for it. Live and let live

Exactly.

Sex is free, yet here you are @Ksanova01 with ten reviews of providers under your belt and counting.

 

[Frenchwomen#1]

I have been hearing about this plateforme for a long time. I even have a friend who is completely addicted to OF and is exploding his credit card. I did not was it was all about so last month I decided to create an account to find out.
I followed few free accounts and paid accounts of some well known models.
Basically it is plateform where any girls can share and sell nude photos and videos. Ok.
I did not see anything I could not find on Youporn or Chartubate for free.
One of the model requested 20$ so she can rate my d*ck. Do I really need to pay for a random girl (I would never fuck) to rate my dick. I don't get that service.
The thrill of my friend is customized porn video and the girl next the door fantasy. I get that thrill and it is tempting. But shouldn't be enough to have 1 customized video, and move on. Why monthly suscription? Girl next door porn videos are everywhere on porn websites for free
Generic messages kept coming into my DM, and you need to unlock the messages with your credit cart. This is design to suck your credit card. Nothing exciting about it.
If I have 200$ to spend on pleasure I would prefer to spend it in a striptease club or to book an escort where I can have real pleasure.
So after a month I got bored and close my account. Is there any thrill or fantasy I missed in a month on that plateform?
Why men keep suscribing to OF. I might be old school but I'd to know.

It’s just exploiting men! I can have a pretty girl come to my place for 200 for fun!

 

[CLOUD 500]

It’s just exploiting men! I can have a pretty girl come to my place for 200 for fun!

A lot of guys say the same thing about calling a girl for 200 for fun. Many guys are having sex without paying. I know many guys from my entourage who say they will never pay for sex. It is all a question of perspective.

 

[Frenchwomen#1]

A lot of guys say the same thing about calling a girl for 200 for fun. Many guys are having sex without paying. I know many guys from my entourage who say they will never pay for sex. It is all a question of perspective.

So many men I know of are in shit marriages that don’t even get sex anymore and it cost them money everyday !

 

[redfried]

I have been hearing about this plateforme for a long time. I even have a friend who is completely addicted to OF and is exploding his credit card. I did not was it was all about so last month I decided to create an account to find out.
I followed few free accounts and paid accounts of some well known models.
Basically it is plateform where any girls can share and sell nude photos and videos. Ok.
I did not see anything I could not find on Youporn or Chartubate for free.
One of the model requested 20$ so she can rate my d*ck. Do I really need to pay for a random girl (I would never fuck) to rate my dick. I don't get that service.
The thrill of my friend is customized porn video and the girl next the door fantasy. I get that thrill and it is tempting. But shouldn't be enough to have 1 customized video, and move on. Why monthly suscription? Girl next door porn videos are everywhere on porn websites for free
Generic messages kept coming into my DM, and you need to unlock the messages with your credit cart. This is design to suck your credit card. Nothing exciting about it.
If I have 200$ to spend on pleasure I would prefer to spend it in a striptease club or to book an escort where I can have real pleasure.
So after a month I got bored and close my account. Is there any thrill or fantasy I missed in a month on that plateform?
Why men keep suscribing to OF. I might be old school but I'd to know.

I also tried OF for a while. I was following a girl who i was seeing for massage every other week (sensual massages). I mentionned her i was one or her followers. it didn't change a thing about the massage. But she appreciated my compliments on her exhibitions.
After a while ~2 months, i both stopped OF and her massages.

 

[Rosie Sparkles]

I am an exhibitionist and really likes having lovers supporting me for a little fee per month. I see it as a way to keep in contact and for them to give me a little money to help me get by. Its more of a side line, also a place lovers can see more of me if they are not decided yet in meeting (like seeing my face and videos of me in action to have a better idea of my vibe!) 10$ is far less of a commitment than 400$ for an hour.

 

[Ksanova01]

Imagine saying "went to the restaurant last night, didn't find anything I couldn't cook at home" or "I got a foot massage, they didn't use any technique I wouldn't able to do on my own foot for free".

Hey!! Julia. Thanks for the answers. Appreciated.
I am really trying to understand
I saw my friend's credit card bill, and it was 3 pages of OF transactions. Another story I heard on social media: A wife was complaining about her husband who 8K in 6 months on the common credit card after blowing up his personal one. All those stories got me curious. I was even scared I would get addicted and do crazy things with my CC.
Maybe I went too scientific about it or set too high expectations.
From your both examples, I can easily tell you the additional services and experiences I would get from a restaurant or a professional masseuse.
In my 1 month experience on OF, the experience was the same as on the platforms mentioned earlier which is OK. Sexual content is sexual content. Nobody is inviting the wheel. The thing is if I do not know the girl and it is not customized to me, it is just random porn content.
I subscribed to 20 accounts including a few free accounts. If I unlocked all the content and private videos, I would have spent at least (in a month) 1k without meeting a real person. I thought it must be something I am missing.
I am not judging or blaming people who use onlyfans, I am just trying to understand.

Because some men enjoy supporting us and/or consuming ethical porn

This is a good point. I did not think about that.
Of course, if I personally know a girl or if it is an escort I met before I can do it as a contribution not because I am getting something I could not get on Youporn or Chartubate.
But This is another topic. I was more focused on what a man gets out of it.

 

[Frenchwomen#1]

Hey!! Julia. Thanks for the answers. Appreciated.
I am really trying to understand
I saw my friend's credit card bill, and it was 3 pages of OF transactions. Another story I heard on social media: A wife was complaining about her husband who 8K in 6 months on the common credit card after blowing up his personal one. All those stories got me curious. I was even scared I would get addicted and do crazy things with my CC.
Maybe I went too scientific about it or set too high expectations.
From your both examples, I can easily tell you the additional services and experiences I would get from a restaurant or a professional masseuse.
In my 1 month experience on OF, the experience was the same as on the platforms mentioned earlier which is OK. Sexual content is sexual content. Nobody is inviting the wheel. The thing is if I do not know the girl and it is not customized to me, it is just random porn content.
I subscribed to 20 accounts including a few free accounts. If I unlocked all the content and private videos, I would have spent at least (in a month) 1k without meeting a real person. I thought it must be something I am missing.
I am not judging or blaming people who use onlyfans, I am just trying to understand.

This is a good point. I did not think about that.
Of course, if I personally know a girl or if it is an escort I met before I can do it as a contribution not because I am getting something I could not get on Youporn or Chartubate.
But This is another topic. I was more focused on what a man gets out of it.

Exactly as you can have a pretty girl come to you for 200 and have a great time!

 

[Ksanova01]

I'd just like to point out that having sex is also free in the real world and plenty of people don't understand paying for it. Live and let live

@Giselle Montreal and @CLOUD 500 kinda missed my point. I would never say I never pay for sex.
If someone is in a committed relationship, is faithful to his partner and is not looking for additional thrill in his sexual life, of course he can he would never pay for sex. He is anyway off the market.
However, if he wants to smash outside of his relationship (my case) or he is single looking for a hookup, sexual thrill or a relationship he is less likely to have free sex. (I am excluding teenager flings). Men rarely get sex for free.

If you are looking for a relationship, you better not pay her to have sex. It sounds free, but it costs you :
- Time (average 1 to 3 months)
- Money (dinner out for the first dates or activities or gifts. If you are a gentleman like me you pay the whole bill)
- Anxiety because you don't know if your effort will pay off. You do all that and you won't even be able to smash.
- Half of your freedom if you make it to a relationship
- Other future recurring expenses

I used to be one of those guys who think I would never pay, but after my first experience, I completely changed my mind. The thrill and excitement was there. This is what I looking for when I opened my OF account.
Here are the thrills and advantages I get from meeting an escort which I know I can never get from free sex :
- Time : You can book an escort within an hour. The longer time I see is 48h. If you have a busy schedule as mine this is already a premium. I do not have time to swipe or to go to multiple dates.
- Money: Of course you pay, but there are no recurring future expenses
- No anxiety around whether or not I would smash
- Sex with stranger fantasy is fulfilled (One of the most common fantasies)
- You can carefully choose your type (50% of partners are not in a relationship with their initial type)
- You can discuss your fantasy freely
- You can have the girlfriend experience without having to pledge to love her
- You don't have to lie that you will call the following day
- I can go on and on
It is less likely to get all this for free.
You see how easy it is to give advantages. I cannot do the same for Onlyfans.

 

[Rebaynia]

It is often the ethics behind it... what you call free porn is often a girl paid a small amount and exploited to the max, then the person/company who hired her gets rich off redistributing her image and likeness.
OF is a way of the girl herself being the one to profit off her likeness instead of someone else expoiting her.

A lot of free content now is just to entice someone to check out more of that company's, or persons content. But actual good porn for free is becomeing harder and harder to find. Personally it can take me about 1.5 hrs just to find a porn that I find interesting and want to watch. Longevity and story line matter to me. A clip of 3 minutes doesn't even give me time for buildup, and disturbs my pleasure time. If I have to keep stopping to find the next clip I get bored, it takes the fun out of porn to keep stopping to look for more.

And by SW being in charge of their own content, no one is being forced or coerced into doing something they aren't comfortable with. You have no idea how hard it is to not be bullied past your limits with 1 person in the room, much less a room full if people who don't give a shit that the performer is uncomfortable, or hurt, or not on board with what is happening, they are only a piece of meat to be exploited and made money off of.

The only ones who are actually affected by the rise of OF is the people and companies who used to profit off the exploitation of people in the porn after the actors/performers got their pay, (not much more than you would pay an escort) while they make $$$$ of the redistribution after the fact.
OF make it so the performers are the one who profit, not someone exploiting them.

Yes it is easy for someone to spend more than they otherwise would have before it became so easy to spend without realizing, but that is likely the same person who would have paid a fortune to view the content they want to see on an exploitive website as well.

 

[Giselle Montreal]

@Giselle Montreal and @CLOUD 500 kinda missed my point. I would never say I never pay for sex.

I was referring to this:

I did not see anything I could not find on Youporn or Chartubate for free.

Sex is basically and naturally free, at anytime. But something is interesting for you in paying for it, some advantages apply to your situation. It is the same for Onlyfans, it pleases some people and they have their own reasons for it.

 

[Ksanova01]

I also tried OF for a while. I was following a girl who i was seeing for massage every other week (sensual massages). I mentionned her i was one or her followers. it didn't change a thing about the massage. But she appreciated my compliments on her exhibitions.
After a while ~2 months, i both stopped OF and her massages.

Unless proven wrong I still think men don't get anything out of OF.
Your case makes more sense to me. You even get to see her.

 

[Fradi]

Exactly.

Sex is free, yet here you are @Ksanova01 with ten reviews of providers under your belt and counting.

i disagree sex is never free maybe it doesn’t cost money, but then It comes with commitment, promises etc… which can be way more costly.
Personally at this stage of my life I will take the one that you have to pay for.
I had a long life with the woman of my dreams until cancer took her, and nothing will ever compare to that.

However free sex today would be with someone who is closer to my age who I am not attracted to, not in love with and comes with a shit load of baggage that I want no part of.
Luckily there are gorgeous women out there like you who for a price fill the void somewhat and I have been very fortunate in finding one who is absolutely amazing and kind. We are all here for a different reason and I think most of us really appreciate the work and kindness you ladies provide.

 

[ThunderLipps]

I am still trying to understand those who pay for OF with so much free porn available and any type you are interested in. I do understand that is was first started to assist the escorts during covid but covid ended, a long time ago.

 

[Julia Sky]

Unless proven wrong I still think men don't get anything out of OF.

Just because YOU don't see an advantage doesn't mean there are none. Some men enjoy OF for a multitude of reasons. The ability to talk or even sext with the content creator. The ability to order custom, exclusive content. The assurance that you're not watching stolen porn that a girl was paid 300$ to shoot for 16 hours, stuffed with methamphetamines and cocaine blown up her ass to numb the pain after a 3rd tear after hours of filming. The fact that you can see an escort's face before meeting her. The mere idea of supporting the creator directly instead of a company that profits off of her labor. There are many advantages to it for the right customer.

You're just not the target audience.

 

[Julia Sky]

I am still trying to understand those who pay for OF with so much free porn available and any type you are interested in. I do understand that is was first started to assist the escorts during covid but covid ended, a long time ago.

It existed before covid. It's just a more ethical way of making porn. If it's not for you move on instead of trying to make sense of it. You all pay for sex, let that sink in. Sex is free. A good portion of society thinks you're a bunch of losers and predators for paying for it. I don't understand the disconnect where escort clients are SO baffled at the idea of supporting a sex worker. Live and let live. Everyone has their likes and dislikes, sometimes something is just not for you and its ok! Stop caring what other men do with their money.