for guys most cases sex is never free. Maybe for the ladies is different.
You're being polite
Now, I wouldn't say "most guys". Many are doing just fine.
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for guys most cases sex is never free. Maybe for the ladies is different.
That I fully agree!I am an exhibitionist and really likes having lovers supporting me for a little fee per month. I see it as a way to keep in contact and for them to give me a little money to help me get by. Its more of a side line, also a place lovers can see more of me if they are not decided yet in meeting (like seeing my face and videos of me in action to have a better idea of my vibe!) 10$ is far less of a commitment than 400$ for an hour.
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It's also the fact that I find it extremely rude and entitled to complain that people get paid for their labor. It's also the disconnect, where men who pay for sex are somehow so confused by the idea that other men pay for other sexual services. Sex IS free. I promise it is. So why pay for it? There is no shortage of women wanting casual sex.
paying for sex it is called an upgrade, I can buy a Ford but I rent a limo.
I know of men who are paying but are married as their spouse is only with them for money! Is that considered an upgrade to escorts? I think not!
Many people don't pay for sex as for them it's either gross or a downgrade
Yeah, that’s called a sexless marriage or a dead bedroom. I’m suffering one myself. It’s unfortunately very common. Probably the majority of marriages end up that way.I know of someone who his wife makes excuses not to have sex as I hear she’s not into him yet he puts her name on his house and gives her a free life! He will never leave her and is stuck like this forever! He will never have the experience of an attractive woman coming over for 250 who he would probably get along way more than his wife who won’t have sex with him!
You *always* pay for sex. Maybe not with money but you’re definitely paying for it one way or another and the sex you get for “free” is often far more expensive.Let's not forget we're all in a little silo here, where everyone (men) pays for sex, and we high five one another for doing so. But truth is, we're a minority.
You *always* pay for sex. Maybe not with money but you’re definitely paying for it one way or another and the sex you get for “free” is often far more expensive.
Your paying on a daily basis being married!You *always* pay for sex. Maybe not with money but you’re definitely paying for it one way or another and the sex you get for “free” is often far more expensive.
Because in a sexless marriage, there is still love. A relationship has so many more levels than just sex. Just because there isn't sex any more, doesn't mean the love between the 2 people disappears. No matter how many people i sleep with, no one makes me feel the euphoria i feel just by being wrapped up in my master's arms. Even if i am close with a few of my little bf's (regulars), there is no comparison.So many choices of with wonderful escorts why waste it on a sexless marriage
There is more things to life then sex. Everyone needs a companion, when you get older especially over 65 yr old, loneliness hits hard as your social circle tends to shrink by a lot. It is great to have a companion to have company and do things with. I got to stripclubs and often see so many lonely men trying to buy love and still remain empty. This statement you wrote is very superficial and if that is how you think about your wife it means you do not really love her.So many choices of with wonderful escorts why waste it on a sexless marriage
makes excuses not to, or has valid reasons she may not want to? It isn't a pleasant feeling for all women. Some just haven't been in the position where it was a pleasurable expierience.I know of someone who his wife makes excuses not to have sex as I hear she’s not into him yet he puts her name on his house and gives her a free life!
He married her, and he takes his vows seriously. Loves her reguardless.He will never leave her and is stuck like this forever!
She is attractive to him. And what you find attractive may not be what he finds attractive. That and he likely knows looks are only skin deep, and a life partner shouldn't be found on looks alone.He will never have the experience of an attractive woman coming over for 250
But I also read this could also be Similar to a sexless sugar baby situation. (Not all of them will be sexual). I also read this as she could very likely be a really sexy woman, (possibly as sexy as any escort) and he is seriously simping on her, and if he's fine with that, who are we to judge him for it, or her for just being herself. I'm sure he gets his own pleasures out of this relationship, that an outsider just might not know about.who he would probably get along way more than his wife who won’t have sex with him!
No one is obligated to give sex if they aren't into it. That is a very toxic way of thinking and if enforced is called rape. Yes it is rape if a husband acts on his entitlement that his wife must please him sexually, especially if she has expressed not wanting to, even if it isn't expressed as a solid no.Hi , I was referring to someone who is being used and not getting sex anymore as I’m sorry but she is obligated to give him sex as he gives her a free life!
he likes it as it is, otherwise he wouldn't be happy to cater to her desires. And loves her just as she is. He's the one working and paying for things, and he put her name on the deed, she couldn't force him if he didn't want to.He is a fool as he does not know how to deal with it!
Sounds like what i wrote before as he made it that way. If he didn't want to put it in her name he wouldn't have. And doesn't mean she doesn't love him just because she controls it. If that were the case, she could just end things herself and make off with everything, as you said it is all already in her name. What does she need him for if not to still be his wife, and likely enjoys his simping.There is no love on her behalf as she controls everything!
In your oppinion.It’s way better to be free then deal with such a mess!
Believe it or not there are exceptions.Your paying on a daily basis being married!
There are many men on this forum who could answer this better than me as they are married in sexless, or reduced sex relationships and still have love for their wives and girlfriends. Even if they call escorts, it is their coping mechanism to not force their love to do something they don't want to, have sex.She would have not of married him if he did not bring the goods and no she was not abused ! If he wants sex which is normal as she does not want that’s a big problem!
It is his choice he doesn't though. And just because someone is paying the bills doesn't entitle them to cheat if that's how he feels about it.He is not happy as he has no inter course at all! He has every right to find it elsewhere as he is paying all the bills
It could still be an unrealized kink desire, but dude could also just be in an abusive relationship. Only he knows the answer to that. Either this relationship fulfills him, or it rips him appart.Yes! He does not know how to man up! I mean she put a stop to his credit card as he was buying ice cream but it is his money! Lol
I’m sorry but she is obligated to give him sex as he gives her a free life!
It doesn't make him less of a man because he simps after his wife. Honestly sounds like he is giving it his all. Trying to make it work. In my book that makes him more of a man, than one who is willing to walk away without putting any effort in to save the commitment they made to eachother.Sorry for bothering everyone for this! The guy needs balls he’s a simp!