What would have you done if.....

[What's My Name]

Hi there everyone. i was trying to book an SP, the first e-mail was June 18, 2016.

The next time she answered me back was July 4, 2016 telling me she just started, not a problem I think we are all entitled to a little time off so that same day I email her back wanting to know when she is available. No answer nothing.

So July 14, 2016 I take another try and ask again when she is available, and there we made an appointment for this afternoon. So I give her my number and Saturday night I get an email telling me that:

"Hi it's Ms. SP, does any other day work for you? If so what time?. Sunday is not ideal for me but let me know if you u can make a different day if not I'll see what I can do!"

So I text back saying: I am not going to insist in it because even if I say yes it's likely I will not get your 100% and I will be wasting my time and money. So for tomorrow just forget it. I would like to meet you and the only times I am available are Saturday's or Sunday's."


I am not thrashing no one, I just want an opinion from the M.E.R.B. community. Thank you
:noidea::noidea::noidea:

 

[EagerBeaver]

My opinion is that your last text was very negative in tone. All that was necessary was the last sentence (SEE BELOW) which says all that needs to be said. The rest of it spoiled the message and implied she is a time waster.

I would like to meet you and the only times I am available are Saturday's or Sunday's."

 

[smuler]

After she never answered you back from July 4 , I would have moved on

Best Regards
Smuler

 

[Monsieur Clarion]

Sounds like a amateur part timer. She may be a ditz in life and be disorganized. The agencies probably have had enough of her unreliability, that is why she is indy. Move on, if you do not you may be setting yourself up for regret and disappointment.

 

[What's My Name]

My opinion is that your last text was very negative in tone. All that was necessary was the last sentence (SEE BELOW) which says all that needs to be said. The rest of it spoiled the message and implied she is a time waster.

Eagerbeaver yeah I can agree with that. I just didn't want to spent money to get lousy service, and i think a lot of us here this has happened to them. But good point

 

[What's My Name]

Sounds like a amateur part timer. She may be a ditz in life and be disorganized. The agencies probably have had enough of her unreliability, that is why she is indy. Move on, if you do not you may be setting yourself up for regret and disappointment.

I am moving on, there are so many other lovely ladies that are will to give it all and keep their appointments

 

[chowzilla]

Yeah I hate when girls are flaky

However something tells me you weren't contacting a merb approved SP. Please don't tell me she was from BP or something

 

[TheDon]

You can tell alot on how serious the girl is when e-mailing or texting them. The serious girls give prompt replies and very easy to deal with in terms of booking and confirmations. If she doesn't answer your messages then move on and don't go chasing.

 

[hungry101]

It seems That every time I try to book an Indy that have not vetted
I wind up sitting in my room watching the clock waiting for them to show up and then
Scrambling to find a replacement.

 

[chowzilla]

It seems That every time I try to book an Indy that have not vetted
I wind up sitting in my room watching the clock waiting for them to show up and then
Scrambling to find a replacement.

Sounds about right

 

[jalimon]

You can tell alot on how serious the girl is when e-mailing or texting them. The serious girls give prompt replies and very easy to deal with in terms of booking and confirmations. If she doesn't answer your messages then move on and don't go chasing.

True but "prompt reply" needs to be defined here. Last thing we want is having the girl on her phone during the whole session... For Indy Companion girl I use email and 1 or 2 day reply are just fine, no problem (some do answer faster). For regular indy I give them an hour to reply, but I would say that after 45 min to an hour if I do have a reply I call them back. If they are not willing to pick up the phone I move on. Serious girl pick up their phone. With agency I give them 20 minute and then I move on because that's more than enough time for a booker to let you know what's going on.

Cheers,

 

[What's My Name]

Also there is another one that I have contacted and she is insisting on 1.5 hr encounter, and I told her that I prefer 1 hour because we have never met, and she tell me to look at her website for updates, after that response from her I have deleted any contact. I think I will go see another massage Indy or anyone else that is reliable.

 

[Passionné]

tinman. I agree with TheDon. Responses should be in a reasonably short time. A couple of days at most. It's not always the case but when someone isn't responsive it usually shows disorganization, maybe a lazy attitude. Unless she is someone with awesome reviews you've got to have look at the signs of how the escort is handling things and try someone else rather put up with anyone who doesn't show she is reliable.

 

[TheDon]

True but "prompt reply" needs to be defined here. Last thing we want is having the girl on her phone during the whole session... For Indy Companion girl I use email and 1 or 2 day reply are just fine, no problem (some do answer faster). For regular indy I give them an hour to reply, but I would say that after 45 min to an hour if I do have a reply I call them back. If they are not willing to pick up the phone I move on. Serious girl pick up their phone. With agency I give them 20 minute and then I move on because that's more than enough time for a booker to let you know what's going on.

Cheers,

When I deal with indy girls I will e-mail them first and by prompt reply I mean I will get a response the next day when I check my e-mail. If I don't get a reply then I just let it be as I'm not going to send follow up e-mails to get a reply. Then I will usually do the final confirmations by text which were answered within good time. It's just easier to e-mail specifics than to text them.