I’ve become somewhat addicted to abstaining from masturbation for a few days before making love to a woman. It increases my load size but most importantly it creates a more intense orgasm. The type where you really feel the contractions and your prostate working to push out that semen, the feeling of your load shooting out as appose to guzzling or oozing. When i was still hobbying i often got comments from girls when i would unload in them, saying i have such powerful orgasm and that they could really feel the throbbing. They could just be strocking my ego but my gf notices it aswell that i have powerful orgasm when i abstain from masturbating. I think most girls like the feeling of a pulsating cock inside them, they like to feel you cum. Chris rock used to say “ there is cumming and then there is CUMMING, one is not like the other and the first is much easier to achieve than the second.” I think it holds true and i think both men and women can tell when you get that really intense orgasm.
But back to loads I always used to love seeing the condom filled to the brim after a massive orgasm. Made me feel very masculine. The only downside was my technique of abstaining from orgasm would sometimes lead to cumming rather quick round 1, but I didn’t care cause most girls where down for a round 2 anyway and don’t care how long u last. I only had 1 experience where blowing my massive load quick bit me in the butt, where I blew after like 30 seconds of sex and the sp didn’t want to go for round 2 despite lots of time left. But I’ve since learned to have good self control even when abstaining so it hasn’t been a problem for a while. The massive orgasms were worth it though, even if i only lasted a short time. Like i said, something incredibly satisfying about busting a huge nut, especially inside or on a woman.