There's a whole lot of YMMV wiggle room in these stories. Certain opportunities will only present themselves once in a blue moon, on the right day, with the right set of circumstances to get these things to happen. I can't elaborate on most of mine bc I've been told that it was not something they would do normally. I just try and put myself in a position to have them trust me enough to be able to get a little wilder than they would normally, so I take more time and prioritize their comfort and enjoyment as much as mine.