Wow ok, never expected my comment to make such waves. Lets just be clear on some things shall we?
All those who say absence of hair is driven by the porn industry has never seen the best porn of all... Japanese porn!
Yeah well this is exactly what i was telling somebody else today. I love asian women in general, but everytime i try to watch japanese porn i just can't get into it... The mosaic is one thing and obviously the bushes ... But i love to see Asian women in american porn tough...
What you find attractive is not what everyone else does.
Most men, key word being men here, do prefer hair on more than just the head, because that's what they grew up with, saw in movies, porn, etc.
Porn changed when hair got in the way of lighting so they started shaving
Obviously everything is relative to the age. Maybe you are right about 70 years old older men. I am talking about 20 to 40 men, not senior citizens. This is a standard in society now and its been for a while. I still remember when i was a kid and stumbling upon playboys and such and a stripe was the most there would be. And we are talking 25 to 30 years ago(the magazine where many years old). C'est un feeling general que sa aparais plus "propre" d'etre rasé. And i really doubt lightning have anything to do with that. Guys love to see "stuff" in there porn. They want to see the vagina, not a big bush covering it up.
prefer shaved or better yet permanently laserfied. I personally have said no to SP’s who had some will of wisp between their legs
Yes exactly. Unless pictures clearly show otherwise, i would expect fully shaved arm pit and legs and if not completely shaved, at least very trimmed downstairs. Like i said a stripe is ok, i could even be ok with a V if its well trimmed.
told me after our first meet up "hey ok you are cool and I really want to see you again. But you got to shave that forest ok? Stone age is done, understood?"
Exactly what i would expect. I spoke to a new SP couple years ago, i helped her a bit getting started as an indy, and i still remember one of our conversation after her first couple days. She mentioned she had a client with a huge forest down there and how it grossed her out. I can't speak for everybody but im sure most SPs in there 20s or 30s probably are not fond of huge bushies downstairs for there men, even if they enjoy chest hair and a more "masculine" look. Personally i shave all i can, and i trim the rest as best as i can. I always have touble doing the balls, always fear of cutting myself. So usually i do it with sicsors, its long and it ain't perfect but its better than just letting it groom. In counter part i never expect to a BLS. If she does cool, if she does not i understand. But around the dick its shaved.
Same goes for the buttcrack... i just can't shave it myself, but i would never ask to be rimmed either...
Well she is not saying that someone is ugly because of a thing she doesn't find attractive,Everyone can have their own taste but please don't begin calling something you don't like disgusting or ugly! ~~ It DO hurt people~
As i said Rosie, my social skills are maybe not the best i know that, but my point was not to call anybody ugly or else. I just don't even understand we have this conversation. I mean its not if i made a comment on somebodies weight or skin tone or such. I genuinly tough every women, at least the ones who do enjoy being feminine, where shaving in 2018 or doing the laser thingy. I was just shock. Its not like its something you have no control over like a birthmark or something. If you work in the sex industry, you body is a "tool" to your business in a way, so even if it mean going at the salon to have the more tricky parts done, i think its worth the $ and just "normal stuff".
I come on here with that attitude because I seriously dislike all of you. I'm not angry with the world, I'm angry with you.
Maybe this line of work is not suited for you Amber. You seem to dislike and have disgust for most of the hobbyist... wich are your bread and butter...
I read your tweets (because you link them, and no im not a follower and will not be) and honestly you seem to ignore an important thing about this industry. Clients are the ones paying. Judging a service is totally normal. Reviews where meant to speak of look, services, attitude etc. Peoples judge in every domain. The difference is obviously if you pay for an haircut or food in a restaurant, you don't care what the hairdresser or the chef look like, as long as they give you the haircut and food you wanted. Here we pay for a multitude of things. We pay for the service yes, but look is important as well.
As it been discussed in a different thread i am not for being jerky either. Especially on things peoples have no control over. But i don't think mentioning that in 2018 its "normal" to be shaved is bad or jerky. Its something you definately have control over.
Every domain link to beauty and apearence there will always be judging, for women AND MALE !! Models are always on a strick diet, making sure to look the exact part because otherwise they won't have job. I follow somebody on youtube who used to do modeling and in one of her storytime she mentioned she was refuse for a job because she had a tatoo on HER FOOT !!! And the ads was for a pizzeria... If i remember correctly the tatoo was not even gonna be shown on the ads but the dude in charge prefered to have a model who was completely tatoo free. Was it dumb? Yeah... but thats life.
Anyway i could keep on going for hours and im sure you would not change your view of me or the hobbyist. It is what it is.
