When is the last time you properly checked your privates!!

[Tatia]

Hello fellow merbites!! I wanted to start a thread because of something that happened to me this week and I would love to share it! I am a total GFE escort and I'm sure there are members here who have seen me that will agree! This Monday afternoon, I had a rendez-vous with someone who will remain nameless at a motel on St-Jacques...when I got there the gentleman had bought stockings and wanted me to put them on...up until this point there is no problem...I return from the bathroom naked with stockings on and proceed to play with him when I notice that there is growth on his privates that should not be there!!! At this point I tell him that GFE service will not be on the menu for him...at which point he tries to tell me that ANOTHER SP refused him for the very same reason and proceeds to tell me that the growth he has is because he's not circumcised and has been checked...sure and we all believe in the tooth fairy I tell him I am very sorry but I have my own health to think of and the health of my other gfe clients who are growth free!! He then tells me he only wants gfe service(knowing other sp's have refused him) and asks for his money back!! To give him some credit he didn't ask for it all back but I was really upset at that point and refused....he spoke with my boss as I was getting dressed and doesn't he tell my boss on the phone that he's about to get physical with me!!! At that point I ran out of the room!!!~he's lucky my boss didn't want a bad review of the agency and that's the only reason he got a refund!! My boss is a total sweetheart!! and it really agitates me that there are clients out there that really want to hurt the women....either with physical strenght or with disease!! Maybe this post will actually get him into a doctors office for real!! I hope so....and for all you GFE sp's out there.... be careful sweethearts!

Tatianna xox

 

[MG_mtl]

...when I got there the gentleman had bought stockings and wanted me to put them on...

I wonder who that could be...

 

[Tatia]

What is a "growth"?

pimples...lesions...stuff thats not supposed to be there in other words!!

 

[EagerBeaver]

Tatia,

I am glad you posted this, as disgusting and appalling as it must have seemed. I hope you also warn STELLA and have your boss warn other agencies who may send SPs to this person. The recent bad behavior of certain hobbyists, whether it is theft or bad hygiene or apparent signs of illness, should not be tolerated. We all have an interest in rooting out the bad apples.

 

[Special K]

Tatia,

I hope your boss will warn other agency owners about this infected hobbyist and in the mean time maybe the culprit will seek treatment for his affliction now?

Good job Tatia!

SK

 

[Special K]

maybe it is the location.. I mean the hotel/motel... say a guy rents a room for 4 hours.. and sheets are not cleaned properly.. then another guy rents the room.. of course he is 100% naked and has his body on that sheet for some time...
so, even though girls could not get affected a guy catch something.. then blames on girls instead of hotel/motel...

I thought I had heard every asinine thing possible from OL...evidently not.

 

[LikesCats]

People, people....slow down a second. She said a "GROWTH". Now as unsightly as they may be...not all unusual lumps and bumps are indicative of disease and infection. Nether regions are just as likely to have pimples , moles and various skin anomalies that most everyone without free unlimited access to a plastic surgeons' laser have all over other parts of their body.

I'm not debating this woman's right to refuse the client...only that it's somewhat premature to assume the dude was attempting to KNOWINGLY have sex while inflicted with an STD.

 

[emgeef]

well, its worth discussing

It could be useful if someone could post places where you can get tested anonymously for std... that way maybe people would go whenever they thought something strange is going on... that would in the end be good for all of us....I dont know of any place where that kind of test can be taken anonymously

 

[Tatia]

She said a "GROWTH". Now as unsightly as they may be...not all unusual lumps and bumps are indicative of disease and infection. Nether regions are just as likely to have pimples , moles and various skin anomalies that most everyone without free unlimited access to a plastic surgeons' laser have all over other parts of their body.

LC....trust me the growth he had was not normal!! I have seen enough Mr. Wigglies to know the difference

 

[Big Bee]

Je ne suis pas sûr d'avoir tout compris mais est-ce que Tatia a dit que son client avait des boutons, des lésions sur son membre? Si c'est ça, ça ressemble vachement à de l'herpès génital

Non, en fait elle parlait d'une excroissance ...!!!

 

[breadman]

This post can quickly come back to bite the postee...all it takes is for the guy to claim he refused Tatia because she had the growth.

Girl posting that a guy has a growth or std...not so big a story.

Guy posting that the girl had a growth or std...a big drop in the girls bookings.

Remember...it doesnt have to be true to be posted on the board, just 'believable'. So Tatia might have opened up a can of worms by posting this...no pun intended

 

[Tatia]

This post can quickly come back to bite the postee...all it takes is for the guy to claim he refused Tatia because she had the growth.

Girl posting that a guy has a growth or std...not so big a story.

Guy posting that the girl had a growth or std...a big drop in the girls bookings.

Remember...it doesnt have to be true to be posted on the board, just 'believable'. So Tatia might have opened up a can of worms by posting this...no pun intended

Breadman....indeed it doesn't have to be true to be posted on the boards....but ponder this...would a smart girl open that can of worms if she was unsure of herself I have repeat customers that are very clean and I doubt they would be if I had a growth So if this client tried to flame me ...so far from what I've read and been sent it could be that he himself would be holding the said can of worms in the end

and ty to all you merbites for the warm words of support that I've had so far...I really appreciate them

 

[breadman]

So if this client tried to flame me ...so far from what I've read and been sent it could be that he himself would be holding the said can of worms in the end

This wouldnt be a flame war between two posters, it would be a flame war between a poster and a provider. As a poster I can change my handle anytime I want and start all nice and clean...as a provider you want to use this board as a stepping stone to get more bookings.

I've seen it happen before in Toronto...well know escort, one small comment and her bookings went down the drain. You might still have your repeat clients...but you cant survive just on repeats. Eventually they dont come back.

Just saying its your livelyhood your playing with by posting this thread. Might come back to bite you in the end.

 

[jacep]

I return from the bathroom naked with stockings on and proceed to play with him when I notice that there is growth on his privates that should not be there!!! At this point I tell him that GFE service will not be on the menu for him...at which point he tries to tell me that ANOTHER SP refused him for the very same reason and proceeds to tell me that the growth he has is because he`s not circumcised and has been checked...sure and we all believe in the tooth fairy I tell him I am very sorry but I have my own health to think of and the health of my other gfe clients who are growth free!!

Actually, something similar happened to me. A SP that I saw used to see regularly, normally gave me CBJ. She decided to give me a at some point and when she looked at me (I`m also uncircumcised), she remarked that I should get myself checked since what I had did not appear ``normal`` but then again for someone who was uncirumcised it might be normal. She told me that she thought that I might have caught something that sounded like ``mushrooms`` (in French). I spoke with her in French so I`m not sure of the English name for what she thought I had. She told me that she was clean and if I saw other people besides her, I might have caught something from them. She freaked me out because even though I was a regular customer of hers and if she was clean (at that time I saw her about once every month), I did occasionally see other SPs.

I went to the CLSC to get the typical ``q-tip corkscrew`` test. I told them what my ``gf`` said that she thought I had. I was called back to the CLSC the week after and told to take the test again because it was inconclusive (I think that I went to the washroom when they told me that I shouldn`t go a few hours before my test). The results were negative.

I also saw a doctor at a clinic informing him what my ``gf`` told me that I had (sounded like mushrooms in French) and he said that what I had might be normal but there was a test that can be performed with vinegar (I`m not sure what he was talking about) to see if I had a type of STD. Since he didn`t have any vinegar in his office or in the clinic area, he referred me to a specialist. When I saw the specialist, he told me that it was normal on uncircumcised men to various degrees and my gf should not be worried (I told him that my gf told me to get myself checked although I wasn`t going out with anyone).

Before anyone thinks that I`m the person that Tatia is/was referring to based on my post, I`m not. Since I`m not sure what Tatia saw based on her description, I`m not sure if what the person the person is is referring to had.

 

[jacep]

It could be useful if someone could post places where you can get tested anonymously for std... that way maybe people would go whenever they thought something strange is going on... that would in the end be good for all of us....I dont know of any place where that kind of test can be taken anonymously

The CLSC near Guy metro does anonymous AIDS test. For the other STDs, I don't believe that it is anonymous. If you are under a certain age (I believe 25), you can always go to "Head & Hands". I think I went to them when I was in my early 20's and then went to the CLSC near Guy metro when I was no longer within the age limit that they served.

 

[n00b]

Hence the reason for my getting very few s... However, sometimes the girls are so quick, you can`t even motion them to put on the flavored condoms on Mr. Happy and they`re already sucking and licking. Once they start, it`s such a sight to behond some young lovely wrapped around your pole, it`s hard to get them to stop.

 

[J. Peterman]

I prefer to have my sexy doctor do it for me.

I have a sexy doctor that fits the television sexy doctor stereo type. ( lab coat with short skirt and skimpy top ) She examines my privates to make sure there is nothing wrong with my tool and then she digitaly probes my anus. ( she is very gentle )
I always look foward to my visits with her.

 

[K Douglas]

Tatianna,
You have every right on the planet to refuse GFE service to anyone you think may cause a risk to your health and well being. This guy sounds mentally disturbed if he was threatening you physically with violence. He should be reported to the list of bad clients - name he used, physical description, ethnicity etc..

 

[jacep]

Hence the reason for my getting very few s... However, sometimes the girls are so quick, you can`t even motion them to put on the flavored condoms on Mr. Happy and they`re already sucking and licking. Once they start, it`s such a sight to behond some young lovely wrapped around your pole, it`s hard to get them to stop.

I know what you mean. I generally don`t look for s, nor do I ask for them. At the time of the session, if the SP offers to do it, I`ve always said no for 3 reasons. One being that if they ask, there is normally a cost associated with it. The second reason is that I cum fast (and somewhat frequently) and even though the condom deadens some of the feeling, I`m sensitive enough that it still feels good and I don`t have problems cumming when I`m wearing a hat. In fact, from certain SPs, I sometimes can`t tell when I`m getting a CBJ or a and I have to look to see whether I`m wearing a hat or not. The third reason is that even though I`m clean, I`m turned off by FK someone who I just witness giving me a . I just don`t like the idea of having cum/sperm anywhere near my face/mouth even if it is my own.

I`ve had SPs that have given me and it is difficult to stop them once they get started. In fact, I don`t believe that I`ve ever stopped anyone (GF or SP) after they started to give me a .